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Ukuzala indodana ephusheni: zithini izincwadi zamaphupho? Iphupho lapho udade abeletha khona umfanaUkuzala indodana ephusheni: zithini izincwadi zamaphupho
Abesifazane abaye baphupha amaphupho umama womfana osanda kuzalwa angalindela ukuphumelela okuzayo esikhathini esizayo emsebenzini nasemabhizinisini. Ingane yesilisa ibonisa ukuqina ekuxazululeni izinkinga zokuphila. Yingakho, ukuhumusha okuningi kwezincwadi zephupho kusho ukuthi emva kwalokhu iphupho uzozizwa kuwe amandla angakaze abe khona endleleni yokufeza imigomo yakho. Uma iphupho elinjalo liphuphile ngenkosikazi encane ezoshada, lokhu kungasho ukuthi ukulungela ukuziphatha kwakhe kungena empilweni yomndeni. Ukuphendukela kumhumushi womndeni kanye nencwadi yokuphupha kaMiller, bese ubeletha umfana kusho ukukhula okusheshayo esimweni sezenhlalakahle, ukuthuthukiswa kwezenhlalakahle zemali. Kwabesifazane abangashadile leli phupho libonisa ukunikezwa okuseduze kwesandla nenhliziyo. Uma ingane ezalwe ingenempilo futhi ibuthakathaka, khona-ke lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esicacile sokuthi kukhona ukungezwani emndenini wakho, ukungqubuzana. Uma ngabe umntwana osanda kuzalwa engadingeki ephusheni, ulinde ukungcola okungenamsebenzi kwesikhathi nemali, ukunganakwa, izinkinga ezincane.
Ukuze uthole incazelo enembile yokulala, sincoma ukuthi sikhumbule izimo lapho inqubo yokulethwa yenzeka khona, yiyiphi inkambo yayo, nokuthi yimiphi imizwelo owawubona. Zama ukubuyisa isithombe esiqondile salokho okwenzekayo ephusheni.
Beletha ekhaya bese ubona ngenkathi ungumnikazi wegazi - ukukubona maduzane nezihlobo zakho. Ukubeletha esibhedlela, okungukuthi, endlini yombuso, kuthathwa njengokuthuthela edolobheni langaphandle, ukuhlukaniswa isikhathi eside nomuntu oseduze.
Uma ephusheni ukubeletha kwakunzima, uhlupheka isikhathi eside, bese uqaphela ukuthi indlela eya enjabulweni kanye nokutholakala kwezintaba ezintsha kuyoba nzima kakhulu.
Ukuzwa injabulo nokwaneliseka emva kokubeletha kubonisa ukuthi usendleleni efanele. Zonke izenzo ezinhle ozihlelile zizofezwa ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu. Ukuzala indodana ephusheni nokuzwa imizwelo emibi (ukwesaba, ukungathandi ingane, ukucindezeleka, njll) - lindele inkathazo, ukugula noma ubunzima bezezimali.
Iphupho lapho udade abeletha khona umfana
Ngokuvamile amantombazane aphupha iphupho abona ngalo kusukela ekuzalweni komngane noma udadewabo. Ngokusho kwezincwadi zephupho, liwuphawu lokuthi kukhona ubudlelwane obuseduze phakathi kwakho nalo wesifazane. Kungenzeka ukuthi wena nalo muntu uzoba nendlela efanayo yokuphila esikhathini esizayo. Nizokusizana ezimweni ezinzima, ukusekela nokuthokoza ngobuqotho impumelelo.
Ngenhlanhla, ngenxa yezincwadi eziningi zokuphupha, ukubeletha umfana kuthathwa ngendlela enhle. Ngakho-ke, emva kwalokhu iphupho ungabheka phambili izinguquko ezinhle ezizovela maduzane empilweni yakho!