Ezweni lanamuhla, kunesibalo esikhulu sezinkolelo, futhi eziningi zazo zikhuluma ngesihloko socansi. Abantu bazi nje ukuthi ukwenza kahle, futhi-kubi. Kodwa-ke, bambalwa abantu bacabanga ukuthi empeleni, okuvinjelwe kungabheka kakhulu. Futhi-ke, abakwa-sexologists bathi akukho ukuvinjelwa kunkulumo engathandana nayo, ngoba wonke umuntu unelungelo lokuzakhela ukulingana okuthile okuvunyelwe. Futhi ukuzijabulisa okunjengokulala ngobusuku obulodwa kungabuye kube mahhala ukuba usebenzise, ikakhulukazi njengoba kunezinzuzo eziningana.
1. Ungakhetha ngokukhululekile umlingani wakho.
Umlingani ohlala njalo ulungile, kodwa uvame ukufuna okuthile okusha, noma kunalokho othile. Uma sikhuluma ngezocansi zesikhathi esisodwa, khona-ke ngeke kube nezinkinga ezinjalo. Ngakho-ke, noma iyiphi intombazane ingakhetha noma yimuphi umfana futhi ilale naye, Yebo, uma ephendula ngemvume. Okufanayo kuya kubantu ababhekana nokuhlolwa okufanayo namantombazane. Kuvela ukuthi uma ngosuku oluthile ufuna umuntu wohlobo oluthile, khona-ke ungenza ngokuphepha ngokuqondisa umlingani onjalo. Ngakho, ukusondelana kwesikhathi esisodwa kwenza kube lula ukuqonda ngokugcwele amaphupho akho futhi "uzame" abathandi bazo zonke izinto ezifunayo, ubukhulu, izici zangaphandle njalonjalo.
2. Cabanga nje ngenjabulo yakho.
Enye yezinzuzo ezibaluleke kakhulu zobulili ngobusuku obulodwa yithuba lokungazicabangi ngezinto eziningi ezibucayi futhi ujabule. Ubulili phakathi kwabantu abanobuhlobo obunjalo bubonakala ukuthi abalingani kumele bacabange hhayi ngokwabo kuphela, kodwa futhi mayelana "nengxenye yesibili". Yiqiniso, lokhu akulona okunzima kakhulu, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukujabulela ngokugcwele inqubo kulokhu. Ubulili besikhathi esisodwa kuyinkululeko ephelele, ithuba lokuba nobugovu. Futhi lokhu kuyamangalisa, ngoba asikho isidingo sokucabanga ngenjabulo yomlingani, silingise ukuthi ulungile, uzivimbele njalo njalo. Lokhu kumane kujabulise wonke umuntu ngabanye, ngakho wonke umuntu unelungelo lokukhathalela kuphela lokho okukuhle kuye, futhi angakhokhi ngokukhethekile izinga lokuzijabulisa elitholwa yiyesibili.
3. Ungakhathazeki futhi ube yedwa.
Ukuphila ngokobulili kwabalingani abaningi abavamile kunemikhawulo eminingi kanye nokuvinjelwa. Yini esingayisho ngethuba lokuvuleka ngokugcwele, okungavamile ukuba lingekho, ngoba lingakhubekisa noma liyesabe okwesibili. Ngenxa yalokho, abalingani abavamile bafaka uhlobo lomaski, befihla abayiqiniso ngaphansi kwabo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunomthetho owodwa kulabo buhlobo, okusho ukuthi uma kukhona ukwehluleka okuthile, kumele baqondiswe ngokushesha noma bafihlwe ngokucophelela. Futhi ukungezwani, okungeke kugwenywe, akukuvumeli ukuthi uthole imali egcwele yenjabulo, futhi yilokho okwehlisa ubulili. Ubulili ubusuku obulodwa - kungcono kakhulu. Ukuthintana okunjalo akudingi isidingo sokusondela kumlingani wakho bese uzama ukuthatha isinyathelo ukuze kungabi kuhle kuwe, kodwa kwesinye. Njalo ebusuku kuzoba yedwa futhi ngeke kuphinde kwenzeke futhi, okungenani nomuntu ofanayo. Ngenxa yalokho, kungenzeka ngokuphelele ukunakekelwa kuphela nge-orgasm yakho, hhayi nge-figure, isibonelo. Zonke ukungaphumeleli komzimba nokuntuleka kwamakhono athile kungumzamo wokuzijabulisa, okungafanele ukucabanga ngakho. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukujabulela inqubo, nokuthi ngabe wonke umuntu uthande umlingani, kuyinkinga yakhe kuphela.
4. Yiba nokuhlolwa okuhle.
Uma ufuna into engavamile, ubulili besikhathi esisodwa lungumsebenzi omuhle wokuhlola. Ukuze wenze kube lula ukwenza zonke izinhlelo, kwanele ukuthola umlingani ohlangene. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngobulili obunjalo, umuntu ongajwayelekile ngokuphelele uyokwenza njengomuntu wesibili, ukuze ukwazi ukuzikhulula ngokugcwele futhi ungacabangi ngezinye izindlela zokuziphatha nokunye. Ngingathanda ukuzama ubulili obudala - sicela, uhlele ukungcola kwangempela embhedeni - ngaphandle kwezinkinga, ukuzama izithombe ezahlukene kusuka emidlalweni yokudlala-ngakho-ke kuyamangalisa. Ngomuntu ongaziwa awukwazi ukuhlambalaza amafantasti akho futhi usebenzise ngokuphepha ngisho nezintambo ezimbi kakhulu noma ezingavamile. Ezobulili ezinjalo konke kuvunyelwe, ngakho-ke akukho ndawo yokuhlazeka nokuhlazeka kuwo.
5. Susa i-voltage.
Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi ubulili buyindlela enhle yokuxazulula ukukhathazeka nokuphumula. Labo abanengxenye "yesibili", abangaduduza ngale ndlela, kuleso simo kulula, kodwa kubantu abangashadile, konke lapha kuyanzima kakhulu. Futhi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphuma kulokhu ukukwenza ubulili besikhathi esisodwa. Lolu khetho lukhangayo hhayi nje kuphela ngoba lukuvumela ukukhipha ukucindezeleka, kodwa futhi ngoba akukuthinteli kunoma yini. Kuwukukhululeka ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba kuphela, okubuyela ekuphileni okuvamile, futhi akukwazi ngisho nokunye okungafani. Ubulili ubusuku obulodwa - lokhu kuyinkululeko ephelele, ungayisebenzisa kokubili ukwanelisa isifiso sobulili, nokuphazamiseka kwezinkinga zansuku zonke. Okusho ukuthi kuyindlela enhle yokuthuthukisa inhlalakahle yakho, engakubopheli noma yini futhi engasetshenziswa ngendlela oyifunayo.