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Kungani ungafundi lapho ufuna khona? Ngaphandle kwezizathu ezivame kakhulu (ukukhohlisa udumo lochwepheshe, ukucindezelwa kwabazali kanye nokukhetha "kwenkampani") kukhona okufanayo:
Ukufinyeleleka kwemfundo kubusha. Ufuna ukuba umklami, kodwa edolobheni lakho lokhu akufundiswa? Futhi uma befundisa, ke ngemali eningi. Futhi uye enhloko-dolobha bese ufundela lapho ngenani elikhulu. Yebo, ungaya ku-akhawuntiant ekolishi ngaphansi kwamafasitela.
Uthando lwangaphandle komsebenzi. Uphuphe ngokuphatha ubuhle obunzima emakhazeni - lokhu kulandela ukuzilibazisa kwakho nokuzilibazisa kwentsha yomfundi. Futhi ngikhohliwe ngokuphelele ukuthi ngaphambi kwalokho kuzodingeka usebenze e-morgue futhi uthathe izivivinyo emakhemikhali, okungekho emaphupheni omlilo nhlobo.
Ukungahambisani nomsebenzi nomlingisi. Uhlale uphupha udumo emigqumeni ye-spotlight, isibonelo, ama-studios wethelevishini. Futhi nangu wena, intombazane encane ekhulunywe kahle futhi ejabule, isivele ishaqeka ukwesaba ikhamera, ukugxuma nokuphupha kokuwa ehhovisi lokubhala elithule.
Ukunganakwa kwentsha . Ngemuva kokuphothula iziqu, wawuningi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungaphi: azikho izinto zokuzilibazisa ezikhethekile, inqubekela phambili yezemfundo ilingana, futhi ithemba lomsebenzi likhona! - Kuyakwethusa. Ngakho wasabela ekukhethweni okungenakwenzeka.
Ukudluliswa kwesithombe somuntu ohlonishwa nguwe emsebenzini wonke. Uma uthandana nothisha we-physics noma uhlanganisa yonke ikamelo enezithombe zikaKristen Stewart, lokhu akusho neze ukuthi i-physics ne-acting yizisebenzi ezinhle emhlabeni wonke.
Zonke lezi zihlazo zokuzilibazisa nezokuzilibazisa zentsha yomfundi zibangelwa ukukhetha okukhethekile, uma ungafuni ukufuna ulwazi, ziqonde wena, zibeke phambili. Uma ufuna ukushintsha isimo ...
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Yenza umkhuba okhethekile ukuthi ucasula kangaka. Kungenzeka ukuthi esimweni "senkambu" konke kuzovela ekukhanyeni okusha. Noma ungasebenza lapho uphupha khona. Isibonelo, ufundela i-akhawunti, kodwa awufuni ukuhlala ehhovisi, kodwa uqale ibhizinisi lakho. Ukukhishwa ukusebenza enkampanini yenethiwekhi - ngokuvamile banesimiso somsebenzi wamahhala.
Cabanga, mhlawumbe ukunganeliseki kwakho nomsebenzi okhethiwe kuhlobene nokuthi awunayo isikhathi sokutadisha futhi udlula ngaphambi kobunzima? Kubalulekile ukuthola imbangela yangempela.
Imithetho yokuhamba:
Uma ungeke uthandane ngokutadisha, futhi uhlanganise ibhizinisi eliyintandokazi nemithwalo yesitatimende liyinkimbinkimbi, kuzodingeka wenze ngokugcwele:
Beka abazali bakho. Hlela umkhandlu womndeni futhi uchaze ngokucacile ukuthi kungani ungakwazi ukufunda kuunivesithi yakho. Qinisekisa wonke amaqiniso: ufundela kabi, ngoba awunasithakazelo; akukho lutho ongalufinyelela kulokhu okukhethekile; sebenzisa isikhathi esiyigugu empilweni yakho kwenye into enengekayo kakhulu kuwe; uphupha omunye umsebenzi. Ukwenza lokho okuthandayo kungaphumelela kuphela.
Zilungiselele izindlela zokubuyela kubantu abasha: thola konke mayelana neyunivesithi lapho ufuna ukudlulisela khona. Futhi ngokuzumayo futhi endaweni entsha isithukuthele?
Ungesabi ukushintsha indawo yakho yokutadisha. Uma kukhona indawo okufanele uhambe - hamba! Ngisho noma ungakwazi ukudlulisa ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa inkambo, kufanele uthathe ingozi - kungcono ukuchitha iminyaka embalwa eyengeziwe kulokho okuthandayo, kunayo yonke iminyaka emihlanu yokuzulazula enqabeni yokudangala.
Ngokuvamile konke kwenzeka kanje: uya ehhovisi lika-dean, ubhale isitatimende mayelana nokuguquka (imibandela yokufakela yonke indawo ihluke - funda!), Uthola isitifiketi sezemfundo lapho zonke izifundo owazidlula kanye namamaki atholakala alotshiwe bese uzibeka esikhungweni esifisa. Lapho, ikharityhulam ihlolwe: uma abaningi bevumelanisa, bahumushe ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa inkambo. Khona-ke kuyodingeka uqedele ukudla esitokisini esisha lokho ongakafiki - ukuqeqeshwa kochwepheshe.
Kuyinto elula ukuhumusha ngemuva kweklasi yokuqala, uma umehluko kwikharityhulam kungenjalo kakhulu - abantu bahamba ngezifundo eziyisisekelo. Ithimba elidala kanye nokunye okukhethekile okufunayo nokufunwa okuhlukile, kunezinkinga eziningi. Ngakho-ke, uma unqume ukushintsha kakhulu umkhakha womsebenzi, cabanga kuqala izikhathi eziyishumi.
Indlela elula ukwenza ukudluliselwa kwangaphakathi (ngaphakathi kohlaka lwesinye isikhungo, izici ezihlobene kangcono) noma ukudluliselwa okukhethekile. Uma kuzinhlelo zemfundo kukhona umehluko oqinile, uzodluliselwa ngokulahlekelwa yi-course noma ungahunyushiwe nhlobo, ngoba kuyobe kungenangqondo ukuqedela izihloko ezingamashumi amathathu.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi, thola ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze, futhi uhlole ngobuhlakani amandla - ukuze i-alma mater entsha ingafuni ukuphunyuka ngokushaqeka.
Ukudluliselwa ezindaweni zebhajethi kungenzeka kuphela uma lezi zindawo zikhululekile kubantu abasha. Isimangaliso esinjalo singavamile: uma kukhona isihlalo samahhala, siyonikezwa umfundi wakho kunokuba uqale. Ngakho-ke qaphela ngokushesha izindleko zokuqeqesha - ingabe kufanelekile indawo yakhe entsha yokutadisha?
Zivame ukudluliselwa emaholide ehlobo futhi esimweni sokuvala ngempumelelo izikhungo zabo. Kodwa kukhona okungafani - mhlawumbe esikhungweni samaphupho akho abahumusha kuwo wonke unyaka, futhi akudingekile ukuba uphathe iseshini eyunivesithi endala.
Ukudlulisela kwezinye izici zokudala (journalism, design) kusuka kwezinye izici, kuzodingeka udlulise umncintiswano wokudala wezethulo.
Yilungiselele ukuthi uzodinga incazelo enengqondo, kungani ufuna ukudlulisela. Isikhungo esisha singase sibe nesithakazelo kuwe - isibonelo, uma ufundela omunye wabahlanu eyunivesithi endala noma ngandlela-thile wazihlukanisa. Cabangela izindlela eziningana zokubalekela. Ungesabi ukufunda, ungqongqoze emahhovisi ahlukene wokuvuma ukuvakasha - banesithakazelo kubafundi abasha futhi bayokujabulela ukukusiza!
Khumbula konke, ngaphandle kwalokho ongakwazi ukuhlala khona. Isibonelo, umculo, amabhayisikobho mayelana ne-supermen, onogwaja be-marzipan. Ungabheka kuphi lezi zithakazelo? Umkhiqizi womculo? Umhlaziyi wefilimu? I-confectioner?
Ngokwezibalo, abantu abangama-82% abasebenzi hhayi okhethekile abawutholile esikhungweni. Ngamunye wabo cishe izikhathi ezintathu zishintsha umsebenzi.