Futhi kungenzeka ukuthi kulo mgwaqo uzohlangana nomuntu ongakunika okulahlekile ebuhlotsheni bakho nomyeni wakho, futhi akukhathaleki ukuthi ngabe ubulili, ukuthandana, izinzwa ezintsha noma, isibonelo, isembatho sokubomvu se-banal. Iqiniso liwukuthi ukuphinga kubalulekile, futhi uma unquma ngalesi senzo esiphikisanayo, okungenani kudingeka uqiniseke ukuthi awubanjwanga, futhi uma kunjalo, umbuzo uvela, ukuthi ungashintsha kanjani umyeni wakhe? Ake sizame ukuqonda le nkinga ngezansi
Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uqhubekele phambili ekucatshangweni kwezinto ezihlukahlukene zokuzifihla, kufanele sixoxisane ngalolu thando alubandakanyekile ekuhlukumezeni, ngaphandle kwalokho akudingeki ucabange "ngokufihla" kwabo, kodwa mayelana nokuthi yini ohlangene ngayo nomshado wakho. Futhi lo mbuzo, njengoba uyazi, lesi sihloko asiphenduli.
Manje, ake siqale ukucabangela amathiphu, ukuthi yini okumelwe siyenze, ukuze ukuthobeka kwakho kungatholakali. Okokuqala, ngizochaza ukuthi sizohlukana ngokweqile ngamasu okungathengi ngesikhathi esisodwa kanye nobuhlobo besikhathi, ngoba lokhu kudinga izindlela ezehlukene zokuzifihla.
Ukukodwa kwesikhathi esisodwa.
Ekuphileni, konke kwenzeka - amaqembu, amadili, inkampani, ngokujwayelekile, zonke izinhlobo zokuzijabulisa! Futhi manje, lapho uhlelekile, kulula ukwenza iphutha futhi ulale nomunye umuntu osebenza naye omuhle emsebenzini noma umngane wesikole esikoleni esidala, kodwa lapha into eyinhloko akufanele ilahlekelwe ikhanda lakho ngokuphelele, kufanele ube nempikiswano evumelekile ukuthi kungani uhlala. Noma kunjalo akunakukwazi ukunyamalala isikhathi eside, ifoni akufanele ibe ivaliwe kakhulu, uma uhlala ubusuku, udinga ukuveza isizathu futhi utshele umyeni wakhe ngaphambili, hhayi emva kobusuku. Futhi, ngemva kokubuyela ekhaya kumyeni wakhe, udinga ukuzigcina uqobo, ungakhathazeki. Njengomthetho, imizwa eyedlulele edala ukusola. Ngaphambi kokuza, zilethe esithombeni sakho sansuku zonke, umyeni akufanele aqaphele ukuthi unento ethile. Futhi-ke, ukubhubhisa bonke ubufakazi obubonakalayo, ukupakisha kusuka kwamakhondomu, ukuhlola kusuka ezindaweni zokudla nokunye okunye. Futhi ekugcineni, udinga ukuziphatha ngokwemvelo, njengokungathi akukho okwenzekile, bese mhlawumbe umyeni ngeke aqagele noma yini.
Ubuhlobo besikhathi esiphakathi.
Uma unomuntu ohlala unomphela ohlangothini, ngakho konke kufanele kucatshangwe kahle, ukungazitholi ezimweni ezinjalo akumukeli, nguye oholela ekuhlulekeni. Yiqiniso, kuzothokoza kakhulu, kepha kuyobe kunzima ukuchaza ukuthi wanyamalala phakathi nosuku lapho umyeni wakho ekufunayo. Ngakho-ke, okokuqala, qaphela, akukho ukunyakaza okungadingekile.
Esinye isici esibalulekile ukuxhuma nomthandi. Okokuqala, akukho izingcingo ezivela ekhaya, ngisho noma umyeni engekho. Shayela kuphela emsebenzini, noma kumshini. Uma uthola ucingo efonini yakho ephathekayo, ngemuva kwengxoxo ususe ulwazi mayelana nalo, londoloza inombolo njengenombolo yomngani othile. Mayelana nokuthuthukiswa kwentuthuko, kuyoba kufanelekile ukusho nge-ISQ ne-e-mail, uma uxhumano luzoba phakathi kwabo, kungcono ukuba nomona inombolo eyengeziwe ye-ICQ noma ibhokisi leposi lesibili.
Futhi, isimiso semihlangano sinendima ebalulekile. Kumele kube njalo ukuthi isimiso sakho sansuku zonke asishintshi kakhulu, noma size nesizathu esicindezelayo sokuthi kungani udinga ukuhamba kanye ngesonto amahora ambalwa
Futhi-ke, ukucabangela nokuzethemba, ekukhulumisaneni nomyeni wakho, kumele uhlale ufana nanjengaphambili.
Uma usebenzisa izincomo ezingenhla, ingozi yokuthola ukukhwabanisa komyeni wakho, iyoba yinto ephansi kakhulu.