Imizwa yowesifazane, indoda yakhe ekopela ngayo


Uhlala, ujabulele ilanga elikhanyayo, imvula yamvula, ukugubha efasiteleni ... Kulungile, eduze komuntu othandekayo, uvikelekile futhi uqiniseka ngokugcwele esikhathini esizayo. Isithombe se-Iridescent, akunjalo? Indaba enhle yezinganekwane, futhi ukholwa kuyo, kodwa kungani le ndaba ihlala isikhashana - kuze kube yisikhathi? Kungani lowo nalowo othandekayo eba omunye, engaziwa, yisiphi isizathu? Namuhla sizozama ukuhlaziya imizwa yowesifazane, indoda eguqukayo.



Masinyane ubuze umbuzo: "Mhlawumbe kukhona okungalungile kimi, ngenze okuthile okungahambi kahle, ngingakhulumi kanjalo nonina noma ngingabingelelani abangane?" Ucabanga, uhlupheka futhi awuwutholi impendulo. Imicabango ehle kakhulu ekhanda lami, ezama ukuxosha, kodwa nansi, okuphikisana kakhulu, njengendiza engenayo engangeni ngemuva. Ijika futhi ijikele, iyingozi ... Kusuka-ku-yebo Yebo, yebo, kungcono kakhulu. Cha, lokhu ngeke kube nami, lokhu akunakwenzeka! Yini okufanele ngiyenze? I-cold sweat ivuselela kancane, kepha ngokuzumayo isisindo esinzima esifubeni, asivumeli ukuphefumula, inhliziyo ivumelanise, futhi iqhube kakhulu, izama ukuyeka ubuhlungu obubukhali, ukwesaba. Yebo, kwakungesabi, ukwesaba ikusasa, okwedlule kwahlala lapho, ngemuva kwalesi sikhathi, futhi ngeke ubuyele. Ubuhlungu. Yebo, inamandla futhi ayinabubele, ... Yiyo le micabango, ngokuvamile, ehogela enhloko yowesifazane okhubazekile. Kodwa ingabe kufanelekile ukubulawa? Ngifuna ukunikeza amazwi ambalwa okumelwe ngizitshele wona, ukuze ngingabi yinto engaphelele, ngisho emehlweni ami, angikhulumi ngombono wabangane bami.

Okokuqala, angifanele lesi simo sengqondo kimi. Ubuqili abukho ukulungiswa, futhi akukho zizathu ezingekho lapha.

Okwesibili, nginguye omuhle kunazo zonke, ekhangayo futhi efiselekayo, futhi yena ... ngeke sisebenzise amagama aqinile, nakuba angeke awenze ubuhlungu.

Okwesithathu, ngingaphila ngaphandle kwakhe, ngizojabula futhi ngifuneke.

Lezi zimpawu zivele zidingeke zikhulume njalo, ukuze zingabikho ukuzithemba kokugcina, ukuzikhandla kwakho kanye nethuba lokuthakazelisa ubulili obuhlukile. Ngisho nakulezo zimo uma kungalungile ngempela, uma kuyiphutha lakho siqu ukuthi umuntu oyedwa kanye othandekayo uhlukile.

Ngokwezibalo, abangaphezu kuka-60% wabayeni bashintsha abafazi. Izazi zengqondo, odokotela kanye nabanye abantu abathweswe ubuchwepheshe besayensi benza ngokufutheka ukuthi baqinisekise abafazi abampofu ukuthi konke kuvamile, bonke abantu isithembu, ama-hormone, njll. nokunye okunjalo.

Kodwa ukukhwabanisa ukuphakama kokungabi nhlonipho, ukukhwabanisa, ukukhwabanisa, ukuvunywa, ukuhlaselwa ngabantu, okuyinto bonke abesifazane abahlukaniswe ngezigaba ezimbili: "bitch" kanye "inkukhu". Kusobala ukuthi ufuna ukwazi ngokushesha ukuthi ngubani umncintiswano nokuthi ulungile kanjani. Yiyiphi eyamheha, yamshaya? Unemilenze emide, izinwele ezinhle, umuno omncane, mhlawumbe ubuhle noma imodeli ephezulu? Futhi manje, enye ukudumazeka, kuba-kude nomfanekiso! Pho-ke, emva kwalokhu, umuntu ufuna ukuphindiselela kulolu traitor owubugebengu, kodwa kuwufanelekile ukuchitha isikhathi sakho esiyigugu, okusheshayo, impilo kulo muntu ongenamsebenzi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele kudabuke nakakhulu, ngoba ngenxa yezibalo ezifanayo zomuntu wonke, kungabantu abanobuqhawe abanobudlova obunzima kunabesifazane. (Lokhu kungenzeka uma kufanele uhambe ezinyathelweni ezimbi futhi ushiye umthengisi). Ngakho ukuziphatha kucacile - ukukhwabanisa kungaba umthelela omuhle wokuthuthukiswa okuqhubekayo.

Nasi ijika! Ayikho imingcele engaphezulu, une "ukukhubazeka" okucacile, ngoba ungcono, uhlanzekile, unokwethenjelwa ngaphezu kwakhe. Futhi manje, o, isimangaliso! Kwenzeke! Kakade akuyona into eyesabekayo kakhulu, umhlaba wonke omusha ovulekile uvulekile phambi kwakho, konke okumangalisayo kusazofika, ukhululekile ngokuphelele ekukhethweni kwakho. Futhi kukhona ngempela ukukhetha! Ungathethelela noma cha, ungahlukanisa noma cha, ungavunyelwa ukuba ungabi nhle noma, njengokungathi ngaphambili, ukuhlala iwundlu elithobekile, noma yini oyithandayo! Ukwesaba sekuphelile, yini manje okufanele yesabe? Ungaphumelela empilweni eduze kwalomuntu noma kakade nomunye, ongakwazi ukudala ubuhlungu obukhulu kangaka. Ukushintsha akukwesabisi, ngoba uyazi ukuthi ungaqhubeka kanjani. Phela, awusabi lokho okwenzekile kakade, okungukuthi, ubumnyama bokungaqiniseki lokho.

Inkambo yowesifazane okhohlisiwe usuvele usudlulile, futhi wena, enhle kunabo bonke, ngezinwele ezinhle kanye nokwakheka, ngesigqoko esisha ne-hairpin, yize uzame ukushintsha - kungcono kakhulu, uzolahlekelwa yedwa umcebo anakho - nina!

Imizwa yomfazi, indoda yakhe ingashintsha, kungcono ukuthi angazi muntu. Futhi ngokuzumayo, indoda yakho ayikuguquli ngempela, ngoba ayifuni ukulahlekelwa ubuhle obunjengowe!