Futhi ukuqala, zikhethele wena, ingabe uyayithanda ngempela? Uma wesaba nje ukuthi uyedwa, udinga nje umuntu ukuba abe khona, ngakho akudingeki ubuyele umuntu ongathandeki. Ngolunye usuku empilweni yakho indoda izovela, obani ozothola imizwa enothando kunazo zonke.
Uma unquma ukuthi ufuna ukubuyisela othandekayo wakho, futhi uzophindiselela kumphikisi wakho ngale ndlela, ke kule nkinga enzima sikunikeza izindlela ezingu-7.
Izindlela zokubuyela emndenini wendoda elahlekile
1. Ungabonisi ukuthi ngokuhamba komyeni impilo yakho isiphelile, usadingeka ubukeke ubuhle, bukhangele futhi buhle. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukushintsha izinwele zakho, wenze ukwakheka kahle, ugqoke izingubo ezinhle. Futhi ngempela ebusweni kufanele kube ukumomotheka okuthakazelisayo. Vumela umuntu wakho abone futhi aqonde ukuthi yikuphi umcebo ebusweni bakho olahlekile. Mye abonise isinyathelo sakhe futhi abuyele kuwe, futhi wena ngezandla ezivulekile uzomamukela futhi ubonise magnanimity.
2. Thintana ne-ejensi yangasese, lapho okukhokhwa khona, thola umphikisi womculi owenza umsebenzi. Izindawo zokudlela ezinhle, izipho ezibizayo, ukuncoma kanye nezimbali, mhlawumbe kuzo zonke lezi zinto, induna yenkosikazi yakho izozizwa ihlaziyekile, futhi ngokuyisigameko kuyoba izithombe ze-agent yangasese. Khona-ke umyeni wakho uzobona ukuthi uyini. Izithombe zingathunyelwa nge-imeyili, noma zithunyelwe emsebenzini kwi disk yomphakathi. Futhi uma ummeleli wangasese uzokwazi ukuthatha isikhathi esithile esiseduze emhlanganweni wesoka eliyingqayizivele nomlingani wakho, bese ubhala kabusha le rekhodi kwi-disc noma ikhasethi. Into esemqoka ukufakaza ubufakazi, futhi kuzoxhomeka kuwe ukuthi ungayifaka kanjani, konke okunye kuyindaba yombono wakho.
3. Emva kwakho konke, hlela umhlangano ongahleliwe. Lapho umuntu efunda ukuhlubuka, ngokoqobo, uzoya ukuthululela usizi lwakhe kwelinye ibha. Khona-ke uzothola eduze komugqa ojulile, ngesiketi esifushane, ngakho-ke unganandaba futhi unhle. Umdanso ophansi, umculo ongenayo kanye nengilazi yewayini, ukunqoba kuyakuba ngokwakho.
4. Uma usebenza nomyeni wakho ndawonye, bheka usuku ngalunye, bese ubuza indoda indoda yakho engazi ukuthi ikusize. Kubonakala kanye naye ndawonye, ukuhlekisana amazwi amathenda komunye nomunye, ukuhleka, ukugcoba. Lokhu kuzolimaza indoda yakho. Uyoba nomhawu, ngoba imizwa yakhe ngawe ayizange ihlile phansi, futhi akekho umuntu ozobukeka kahle lapho owesifazane wakhe ehlangana khona nomunye. Sidinga ukumtshela ukuthi kunamadoda amaningi afana naye, kodwa yilapho wena uwedwa. Nguwe kuphela.
5. Thintana nephephandaba lendawo, lapho kunezigaba ezinjalo: "Ngifuna umuntu!". Kulesi sikhangiso, faka imininingwane yomshayeli womlingani wakho. Sicela ufake inombolo yakhe yocingo. Umbhalo wesikhangiso kufanele ube: "Ngifuna ukujwayelana nendoda ecebile imihlangano esondelene nayo. Ngemuva kwalokho, umlingani oshadile nomyeni oshadile, futhi ngeke akwazi ukwenqaba ezinye izinhlinzeko ezifanele. Izingcingo zizoqala, izingxoxo eziqhamukayo zizoqhutshwa ezizocasula indoda yakho. Futhi-ke kuzohlala ezincane.
6. Hlela impikiswano yokukhohlisa. Buza ukujwayela kwakho jikelele, obani kulezi zimo bese ucela ukuthi akusize. Njengokuba yena nomphikisi wakho benenkinga, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi angathatha indoda eshadile emndenini, futhi umklomelo omkhulu empikiswaneni kungaba ibhodlela le-whisky. Futhi lapho bebonke, mnike lesi sipho, kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukhombise impikiswano ngoba uyabona ndawonye. Le ndoda iyoba nemibuzo eminingi, kodwa impendulo iyoba eyodwa. Ngeke ahlale nomuntu ophikisana naye.
7. Xhumana nomagazini wekhaya bese ushicilela ukuvuma kwakho. Qala incwadi yakho ngeqiniso lokuthi "Abasebenzi abahleli abahleli, ngingumfundi wakho njalo futhi ngicela usizo lwakho. Umyeni wami wathathwa ngumphikisi, wayefuna ukuba nendoda evikelekile eceleni kwakhe futhi athole imoto. Futhi ngihlupheka ngoba ngimthanda kakhulu. " Oshade naye angase akhubeke ngephutha embukisweni wakho. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uthola ukuthi kungani esuswa emndenini, futhi ukuthi uzophinde ubone ukuthi uqhubeka umthanda kangakanani. Uthando lomuntu lusheshe luphele. Bese besifazane bamba ikhanda: yini okufanele uyenze ukuze ugcine othandekayo?
Imiyalo engu-12 ezosiza owesifazane ukuba agcine indoda yakhe ethandekayo:
1. Asikho isidingo sokubuza imibuzo engadingekile. ("Kungani ulethe imali encane?) (" Kungani ungangithathi noma kuphi? ")
2. Ngeke ukwazi ukuziqhayisa ngothando lokunqoba.
3. Ungaboni umhawu oqinile.
4. Kunoma yisiphi isimo awukwazi ukubheka okubi.
5. Umuntu akufanele ayeke ukuphindaphinda ukuthi "ingelosi" futhi abonise uthando lwakhe.
6. Awukwazi ukumletha injabulo engokomzwelo, ngokocansi nangokwengqondo.
Omunye akufanele akhohlwe inqubomgomo yokuvumelanisa ngokuhlanganyela ("Namuhla sizoya kumama, futhi uzobukela ibhola kuTV nobaba").
8. Ngeke ukwazi ukunganaki ukukhuluma ngabangani bakhe nezihlobo zakhe.
9. Awukwazi ukumhloli, kungcono ukubuza umngane wakho ngakho, engazi.
10. Akunakwenzeka ukuhlukumeza ngokwemvelo ngesikhathi sokuthuthukisa nokuthuthuka.
11. Umuntu akufanele avumele izihlobo zomuntu, ukuthukuthela okubi noma ukuhleba ukuma phakathi kwakhe nawe.
12. Awukwazi ukuqhubeka uma kukhona ukungqubuzana phakathi kwakho. Hlola kahle, qinisekisa ukuthi uqinisile, bese nje wenza ngaphandle kwemizwelo engadingekile futhi ngobuhlakani.
Manje siyazi ukuthi kuzosiza ukubuyela nokugcina indoda ethandekayo. Vumela la macebiso akusize ubuyele othandekayo wakho futhi uphile impilo ejabulisayo ndawonye.