Insizwa ingase ingathandi isimo sakho sengqondo kuye. Wena, futhi, ungathandi okuningi.
Insizwa yakho ibhekisela kuhlobo lwamadoda asetshenziselwa ukuphoqeleka ngaphandle nangaphandle. Akayithandi noma yisiphi isithandwa. Kumele ulalele ukungajabuli nokukhala kwakhe.
Kukhona amadoda ahlonipha ukuziphatha kwawo. Amazwi ahlabayo - uhlale umcasula kuye. Ukuzethemba kwakho kwehla, futhi uthola injabulo eyingqayizivele kuyo yonke inqubo.
Ingabe ubudlelwane bakho ubudlelwane baseBrazil? Nina bobabili nifanele. Uma uthola ubuhlobo, esikoleni kukhona izinto ezifakiwe - amapuleti, izitsha, izitsha.
Futhi, ukhetho lokugcina lwamadoda - abalingani baqala ubuhlobo ohlangothini. Kodwa, akukhona nje amadoda ashintshayo. Abesifazane abathobekile kule ngxenye yesilisa yesintu.
Noma yikuphi ukungajabuli ebuhlotsheni, ukungqubuzana nokuxabana yizinkinga zangaphakathi noma yiziphi izimbhangqwana ezingabhekana nazo uma zifuna. Thuthukisa ubudlelwane nomngane wakho omthandayo futhi ujabulele uthando lwakho - akulona lokho okulindele?
Ingabe unesithakazelo sendlela yokuthuthukisa ubuhlobo obathandayo? Impendulo. Kodwa, ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwane nomngane wakho omthandayo, mhlawumbe uma umbhangqwana wakho usenemizwa futhi nonke nifuna ukuhlangana ndawonye.
Ungayithuthukisa kanjani ubuhlobo nomuntu wakho othandekayo? Okokuqala kudingekile ukuqonda, ukuthi uyeke ukuhlela. Cabanga ngalokho ongashintsha nokuthi yini othandekayo wakho okufanele akwenze. Ukuze uphendule lo mbuzo, kubalulekile ukulahla yonke imizwelo emibi, hlela isimo sengqondo esibi. Kubalulekile ukuba ulungele iqiniso lokuthi, ekhelini lakho, ungazwa ukugxekwa komuntu othandekayo. Kodwa, uma unesithakazelo ekuthuthukiseni ubuhlobo nabathandekayo bakho, kufanele ulungele konke.
Ukwenza ngcono ubuhlobo nabathandekayo bakho kungenzeka, uma zonke izenzo zakho nezenzo zakho zizofakwa ngothando nokukhathalela. Othandekayo akufanele azizwe ehlazekile. Futhi, ungazami ukushintsha kakhulu umuntu - cabanga, kungaba kuhle uma ufuna ukushintsha okungaphezu kokuqaphela. Thanda umuntu, njengalokhu ekhona. Ingxoxo yakho, lapho uzothola khona zonke izinkinga zakho bese uzama ukuthola indlela yokuphuma kweso simo, kufanele ube mnandi futhi uhle. Ukuqeda amagama amangazayo, ukuhlazeka nokukhala.
Sekuyisikhathi eside uhlangene, ngenxa yalesi sikhathi eside, emphefumulweni wakho ngamunye, ulwandle lwezikhalazo kanye nezikhalo. Umusa, uthando nothando luzosiza ukudala i-aura lapho wonke umuntu ozozizwa ekhululekile. Zama, noma kunjalo ukwenza emakhadini akho amathandayo owakuthandayo. Isimo sakho sengqondo esifanele sizosakazwa ngokushesha kuleyo nsizwa, ezosiza ukuqhuba inkhulumomphendvulwano evamile futhi uthole imiphumela eveza.
Yabelana ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho nokwesaba, ukuveza izifiso zakho namaphupho: yini ongathanda ukuyithola kusuka othandekayo wakho. Ngokwemvelo, insizwa yakho nayo inelungelo lokuveza konke okuqoqwe emphefumulweni wakhe futhi ukwamukela kuwe nakanjani, futhi. Ufunani kuye.
Kumele uqonde ukuthi injabulo yakho ehlangene isesandleni sakho. Ukuze ujabule, kubalulekile ukusebenza nokusebenza ebuhlotsheni bakho. Uma uqonda lokhu, uzothola injabulo futhi uthuthukise ubuhlobo nomuntu wakho othandekayo. Ukuze uthuthukise ubudlelwane nomngane wakho othandekayo, zama ukuchitha isikhathi sakho samahhala ndawonye ukuze uthole umsebenzi ovamile - lokhu kungahle kuhlanganise ndawonye imibhangqwana.
Gcina futhi uqonde ubuhlobo uNkulunkulu akunike wona. Bonisa uthando, inhlonipho nokuthembela othandekayo wakho, futhi konke kuzokukusiza.