Yini esiyidingayo ngenjabulo?

Okudingayo ngenjabulo kuyindaba yokukhathazeka kubo bonke ngaphandle kokungafani. Ngamunye wethu unomqondo wakhe wenjabulo. Omunye wenjabulo udinga indlu enkulu ebhishi, kanti omunye nje amaphupho endlu encane, kodwa ekhululekile futhi ehlelekile. Omunye udinga i-watch stylish ngedayimane, kanti omunye nje ufuna ukunyuka okuncane kumholo wabo. Indoda ecebile futhi ethandekayo, umsebenzi omuhle futhi othembisayo, impilo enhle, isambatho somboya esivela ku-chinchilla kuya ezithende, izikhathi ezimbili ukuvakashela izindawo zokuhola ezihamba phambili zomhlaba zokuzilibazisa - zonke lezi zinto ziyizinto zokuphila okujabulisayo.
Ucwaningo lwaqhutshwa, ngokusho ukuthi abangaphezu kwesigamu sabesifazane baphendula umbuzo othi: "Yini esiyidingayo ukuze sibe nenjabulo?" Ngakho: injabulo yilapho umqashi ekwandisa umholo wakho futhi kulokhu ukuphila kwalaba besifazane kuba mnandi futhi ujabule. Abesithathu kwabesifazana besonto bakholelwa ukuthi uma benesifiso esiseduzane nesimo esihle, babeyojabula kakhulu. Abesifazane ababili kwabangu-5 baphendula ukuthi injabulo ekhaya labo ngaphandle komuzi kanye nenani elifanayo labesifazane bakholelwa ukuthi injabulo ayikho ngaphandle kokuthandana. Futhi, abesifazane abaningi bavuma ukuthi impilo yomndeni ibaluleke kakhulu kunesiqinisekiso sokuguga kunesisindo sobulili, futhi ukuthenga ingubo enhle kubaluleke kakhulu kubo kunokujabulela ukushona kwelanga okuhle kakhulu nomyeni wakhe. Kuvela ukuthi imali isilethela injabulo?

Mhlawumbe lokhu kuyiqiniso, ngoba ukuba nemali umuntu uthola umuzwa wokuzethemba esikhathini esizayo. Noma ngabe ubuza abangani bakho nabantu obaziyo futhi ukhumbule izikhathi ezijabulisayo, khona-ke ingxenye encane yazo ixhunywe ngemali. Laba bantu bazokutshela ngezikhathi ezinjalo ezimnandi empilweni yabo njengokuqala kokubanga, ukuzalwa kwengane, ukuvakasha okungenakulibaleka ku-Canary. Kulula nje, ngesikhathi esisodwa waqaphela ukuthi impilo inhle - ngenxa yemininingwane encane. Ngakho-ke singaphetha ngokuthi umuntu kufanele aphile okwamanje futhi angaziphihli izinto ezincane ezinhle kangaka, aphile enjabulweni, futhi angaxoshe ukufezwa kwezwe elizayo.

Kunombono wokuthi imigomo embalwa oyibeka ekuphileni, injabulo enayo onayo. Ezimweni zomzabalazo wokuncintisana, lowo osheshayo, onamandla, ohlakaniphile, omncane, ohlakaniphile futhi lowo oya ejimini ngokuvamile uvame. Ngenxa yalolu daba oluqhubekayo, ososayensi baphetha ngokuthi kusukela kulokhu baxosha abesifazane abajabuli kangako. Ungathola imali eminingana kaningi kunezintombi zakho, kodwa awukwazi ukucebisa izinga lomfazi we-oligarch futhi lokhu kwenza owesifazane ecindezeleke.

Uma ubeka njalo imigomo ephezulu-phezulu futhi ungahlali ungajabuli ngemiphumela, khona-ke lona wesifazane ngeke akwazi ukuzizwa ejabule. Le nentshiseko ngemigomo yayo yiyona imfanelo emangalisayo, kodwa iphazamisa ukujabulela okwamanje. Abantu abajabula kakhulu yilabo abahlanganyela ebhizinisini labo abathandayo futhi bathola ukwaneliseka kulolu bhizinisi.

Izakhamuzi eziningi zengqondo zeluleka, nakuba kanye ngenyanga zihlala usuku olulodwa futhi ungazami ukuziphika noma yikuphi ukuzijabulisa, ngoba uzozisola ngakho. Babuye bacebise ukuthi bangabi nomhawu ngezinkanyezi ezihlukene, ngoba abantu ababuka inkanyezi bese beqhathanisa nabo, bangazizwa njengezicukuthwane, amafutha futhi angajabuli. Yingakho sinesithakazelo empilweni yezinkanyezi, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izinkanyezi zombili zinamaphutha futhi ngaleyo ndlela zithole ukwaneliseka.

Kunemithetho engu-4 ukuze ujabule:

1. Phatha abangane bakho nomndeni wakho ngokucophelela futhi ungawavumeli;
2. Zama ukuthola umsebenzi oletha ukwaneliseka;
3. Siza labo abasenkathazweni;
4. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi abantu abajabulayo bangase bangabi nalutho.

UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekile isayithi