Ukuqonda owesimanje wesimanje akuyona inzima kakhulu, njengoba amadoda ethanda ukukhala. Ngenxa yalokhu, akudingeki ukukhuphukela ekhanda lakhe, emphefumulweni wakhe noma ekamelweni lokufuna isisombululo sezifiso zakhe zangasese nezinkanuko. Kwanele ukubuka isithangami sabesifazane bese upheqa ngezihloko. Izihloko ezixoxwa ngenkuthalo, ezingcono kunezifundo ezinzulu zomphakathi, zikhombisa ukuthi empeleni, izinkathazo zanamuhla ziphathelene nabesifazane. Ngakho-ke lokhu kuyini? Umsebenzi, umndeni noma isithombe esihle?
Izibalo zezinombolo ze-search engine kanye nezihloko ezivame ukuxoxisana zikhuluma kahle kubo. Yilokho isilinganiso esilinganisiwe samanani wesifazane wesimanje, esekelwe idatha yezincwadi eziningana ezithandwa abesifazane kanye namaforamu, ubukeka.
Ukulahlekelwa kwesisindo 40,5%
Ngisho ekhulwini leminyaka elidlule, izwi lokudla lalihlotshaniswa kuphela ne-gastritis, izifo zesibindi, izicathulo ze-steam ne-Borjomi. Namuhla, lokhu kuyimvelo yemvelo yowesifazane wonke ozibukele. Ukugxila kakhulu emqondweni wezindinganiso ezithintekayo zobuciko zobuhle ziphikisana nabesifazane ukuba bajabule kusukela ekubukeni kwemithi kanye nokuhlola okuvamile emzimbeni wabo siqu. Amafomu "amahle" adinga amandla okungaxhunyeki, inkolelo ngokwayo, intshiseko kanye ... isikhathi. Futhi konke lokhu kusetshenziselwa ukuhlola i-intanethi yezidlo nokuzivocavoca, ukuxoxa nabo futhi kwi-intanethi noma emsebenzini, ukufunda izincwadi ezithintekayo nomagazini. Kodwa isikhathi sokubhekana nalezi zinhlelo ezimangalisayo, akunjalo, akwanele. Kodwa kuhlale kunesihloko kwengxoxo ethakazelisayo.
Akukona nje isikhathi esidlule, ukusebenzisana ngobuso bakhe, isibalo nomzimba kwakubhekwa njengomuntu siqu, obusondelene naye futhi engaxoxwanga nanoma ubani. Akekho nomngani, noma osebenza nabo, noma, uNkulunkulu onqabela, nomyeni wakhe. Namuhla kuyisihloko esithandwa kakhulu emithonjeni yabesifazane. Yiqiniso, ngokuphindaphindiwe kuyakulahla ukulahlekelwa kwesisindo esingalawuliwe futhi kukhuthaza ukudla okunempilo nokuphila, kepha lokhu kuxoxwa ngenkuthalo efanayo nangomdlandla wokuthi ...
Ubudlelwano 22%
Lesi sihloko sinjengezwe elidala. Uthando, umona, ukukhwabanisa, ukulahlekelwa ... Kodwa uma ekuqaleni (okwamanje, endleleni, ekhulwini leshumi leminyaka lokugcina), imizwelo nezinkanuko zithinta ikakhulukazi emphefumulweni noma ezincwadini nasebucikweni, okwenza isintu singenakufa okungokwemvelo kokudala nokucabanga, kodwa namuhla kunesivunguvungu hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuhlanzeka okuhlanzekile kwezinto ezithinta abantu kusinika kithi imithombo yezindaba enkulu kanye ne-intanethi. Abesifazane basalokhu befunda ngokuzimisela ngokuphila komuntu siqu odumile kanye "nabantu abavamile," kodwa baxoxa ngemindeni yabo kanye nokuphila okuthandana nabo, kanti abanye, abangekho namahloni ngokukhuluma komphakathi kwemizwa nemizwelo yabo. Mhlawumbe bafuna izimpendulo zemibuzo ephakade, bezama okuhlangenwe nakho komunye umuntu, kodwa ukukhuluma kwabo ngokukhululekile nangokwethembeka kwabo bacabanga kakhulu esikhathini esidlule kungasabisa. "Ukuba noma" ukungabi "owesifazane akukhathaleli. Ngokungangabazeki, yiba njalo. Umbuzo uwukuthi, ungubani futhi uphi? Yebo, yebo, kaningi, umbuzo olandelayo uphakama: Nkosi, kungani ngidinga konke lokhu nokuthi yini okufanele ngigqoke?
Ubuhle 11%
Namuhla lokhu kuyisihloko, okokuqala, mayelana nobuhle bezingaphandle, hhayi ngomphefumulo, nakuba abesifazane bebeka, ngokuqinisekile, ngaphezulu. Siyakuthanda ukukhuluma ngokungabi nalutho kwemizamo yokushintsha kangcono uma kungeyona izwe, okungenani okungaphandle kwayo okungaphelele, kodwa unikeze leli phutha hhayi ingxenye encane yesikhathi sethu nezindlela zethu. Sifuna ukuthanda. Sidinga nje. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imidiya yemidiya, izikhangiso nokukhangisa nezinkampani zokuziqhenya zizidela ngokuzithoba futhi zikhohlise kalula ngezinqumo. Uyini, unesizungu? Konke mayelana nekhanda! Thenga i-shampoo entsha - futhi injabulo ngokwayo iyowela ezandleni zakho. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi u-manicure. Futhi ukhilimu obunzima, bese u-sharieja ufana! Cha, asikholelwa ekukhangiseni. Kodwa ... futhi ngokuzumayo? Futhi abesifazane bayabheka ngokungazelelwe leli thuluzi lemilingo elizobenza libe lihle, ngakho-ke, bajabule.
Ukukhulelwa 10%
Lokhu kuyamangaza, kodwa isikhathi sokulinda, ukulinda okuthakazelisayo nokulungiselela ukubonakala kwengane kuheha abesifazane ngaphezu komphumela uqobo. Amamememasa akhathi esizayo azibheka njengokuthi "iyinkaba yomhlaba", futhi inkaba iyanda ngokushesha, ifinyelele i-trimester enkulu emithathu yokugcina. Ngalesi sikhathi, abesifazane bakhathazeke kuphela ngesimo sabo sengqondo, impilo, "impilo yangaphakathi" nokuzalwa esikhathini esizayo. Ukuphazamisa futhi ukhohlwe ukuthi ukhulelwe cishe akunakwenzeka. Futhi kaningi abesifazane abakhulelwe abavumeli ukukhohlwa ngalokhu kunoma ubani.
Izilwane 5%
Yebo, omagazini abalingiswa, amawebhusayithi kanye nezinkundla zokunakekelwa nokugcinwa kwezilwane ezifuywayo zingaphezu kwezinsiza ezizinikezelwe ekukhulisweni kwezingane. Ngokungangabazeki, izilwane ezifuywayo zifanelwe isimo sengqondo somusa, somoya omnene nesinakekile. Kodwa kunengqondo encane ephazamisayo. Uma kunakekelwa kakhulu nokuthanda izilwane, khona-ke omunye umuntu uyazilahleka ngokucacile. Futhi, mhlawumbe, lo "muntu" usondelene kakhulu.
Needlework 5%
Kuyamangalisa ngaleli qiniso lokuthi omunye umuntu usebenza ngemisipha. Iningi lwakamuva, lo msebenzi wawusuke ubaluleke kakhulu futhi ufanelekile ngokwezomnotho. Namuhla kuningi lokuzilibazisa nokudala. Ukuzijwayeza nokugqoka akusiyona imfashini futhi ngokuvamile kubangela ukuhleka usulu ngenxenye encane futhi esebenzayo yabesifazane, kodwa akekho owesifazane waseRussia ongakaze athathe ukukhuluma. Futhi nakuba umnotho nokuhlakulela akulona uhlu lwezimfanelo zesifazane ezibalulekile zamadoda wanamuhla, abesifazane bazohlale befuna into yokusebenzisa izandla zabo zobuchwepheshe.
Ukupheka 3%
Lokhu kungaba umsebenzi othakazelisayo kakhulu, kepha owesifazane wesimanje akakakulungeli ukumnika amandla akhe nesikhathi esiningi kakhulu. Uma nje lokhu akuyona ingxenye ephoqelekile yenkinga yokucindezela kakhulu ebizwa ngokuthi "Ukulahlekelwa Isisindo". Abesifazane bacabanga kancane kancane, kungaba yini okumnandi futhi okuwusizo ukondla umyeni nezingane. Futhi ukhathazekile ngokwengeziwe ngokuqukethwe kwekhalori kokudla, okuqukethwe kwamafutha kanye nama-carbohydrate nomthelela wabo ongeyena, okwamanje engaphelele.
Umndeni 0.8%
Cha, yebo, sithanda futhi sinakekela izingane zethu futhi sibanika imizuzu engu-17 yesikhathi sabo ngosuku! Lokhu kungakanani, kubalwa izazi zengqondo, uchitha owesifazane emfundweni yengane. Ukuxhumana naye kanye nemfundo, hhayi ukudla, ukugqoka, ukugeza nokuhamba nengane ezitolo. Siyajabula futhi siyaziqhenya ngokukhuluma ngezingane zethu, sibonisa izithombe zabo kanye nempumelelo futhi asinandaba kakhulu nezinhlelo zezemfundo nezentuthuko kubo, sincike kakhulu emvelweni nangolwazi lwabo. Futhi omdala ingane iba, kancane kancane sikhathazeka ngaye futhi inkulumo encane. Maye, kodwa ukunikezela impilo yakho emndenini nasezingane ... akuyona imfashini.
Ezemidlalo 0.6%
Ezemidlalo zijabulisa abesifazane abathandekayo, futhi, njengalabo, ngeshwa, ingxenye ebalulekile yesigaba sokuqala salolu hlu lwamanani. Ukuzivocavoca kwezobuciko, i-basketball neHockey abanesithakazelo esincane, esikhathini eside esidlulela ekuzivocavoca kwe-aerobic nokuzivocavoca kwe-isotonic.
Umndeni 0.8%
Lesi sihloko uma sikhathazekile ngabesifazane, ngakho-ke kuphela ngokuqondene nomyeni wakhe, okungukuthi, njengokwehlukana okukhulu okwenziwe kuwo, ukulima, isikhathi kanye nomyeni wakhe. Kusukela okokuqala besifazane bebuza umbuzo ophikisanayo, kungani kufanele ngenze konke ngedwa, lesi sihloko sishiye isigaba sendlu kuya kwesigaba senhlalakahle futhi sixoxwa ngokushelela futhi njalo nsuku zonke. Futhi hhayi kuphela ekhaya ekhishini, kodwa nakwabezindaba. Kodwa njengoba lo mbuzo, njengoba usuvele ukhulunywe, kuwubufakazi, ayikho impendulo kuwo futhi ngeke ukwazi. Ngakho-ke, isihloko sokuphila ekupheleni kohlu lwabesifazane okubaluleke kakhulu futhi, ngicabanga ukuthi, kuzokwenyuka kwi-ajenda esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Amasiko 0.3%
Lo mqondo ohlwini lwezihloko kanye nezithakazelo zabesifazane kunqunywe uchungechunge oluthandayo, amafilimu, amanoveli, umculo odumile futhi nakancane kunabo bonke abanye abahlanganisa leli gama. Cha, lokhu akusho ukuthi abesifazane basimanje abanesithakazelo emasikweni, kwezobuciko ngisho nasezesayensi. Ngemuva nje kokudla okudliwayo, ukuthola ubuhlobo nomuntu othandekayo, ukuya ezitolo, ukuvakashela i-cosmetologist, ukukhulisa izingane nezinja, ukwenza izingubo, imidwebo yokudweba futhi, uNkulunkulu, abanaso isikhathi sokuhlanza nokupheka futhi.
Mhlawumbe othile uzoqaphela ukuthi kulolu hlu lwezinhloko ezihlosiwe azikho imisebenzi kanye nemfundo okusho ukuthi namuhla kunomfazi okwamanje. Kodwa lokhu kulungile. Abesifazane, abanesithakazelo ebhizinisini nasemsebenzini, njengomthetho, akukho lutho olungaphezulu olungenalo isithakazelo. Ngakho-ke, izinga lamanani analo ahluke ngokuphelele.
Ngokungangabazeki, kunabesifazane abanezinto eziza kuqala: umndeni, ingokomoya, isiko. Abanesithakazelo ezintweni ezinhle, i-melodrama nokulahleka kwesisindo. Kodwa, mhlawumbe, abatshele muntu ngalokhu?
Umbhali: Alexandra Shatalina
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