Ngesizathu esithile kubonakala sengathi amadoda, thina, besifazane, sihlala lula futhi kulula kunabo. Akudingeki ukuthi sihambe "sibulale ama-mammoth", bese siyidonsela emndenini, akudingeki sibe namandla futhi sibe nesihluku, futhi abaningi "abesifazane abanjalo akudingeki babe" ... Mhlawumbe baqinisile. Kodwa nakanjani hhayi kubo bonke. Abesifazane abaningi banamuhla bahola imali emadodeni, abaningi babhekana kakhulu, kubonakala sengathi akuzona izikhundla zabesifazane. Umphakathi ubeka imithetho yawo kokubili abesifazane nabesilisa.
Ngesikhathi siseyintombazane kwabaningi bethu, abazali bafaka lo mkhuba wokuziphatha kwabafazi lapho bona ngokwabo bakhulela khona, kodwa isikhathi asizange simise, konke kuhamba phambili futhi manje akusiwo wonke owesifazane ozovuma ukuba ngumama wendlu futhi alindele umyeni wakhe emsebenzini ukuba adle okuhlwabusayo isidlo sakusihlwa futhi sambeka embhedeni. Manje owesifazane ufuna ukuzikhethela ngokwengeziwe inkululeko yesenzo, owesifazane ozama ukuzimela, ekubeni owesifazane ezweni lanamuhla kusho ukuthi ungumuntu ozimele. Futhi akumangazi: kusuka emakhasini omagazini esibukeka ubuso obuhle, obuhle kakhulu esibukweni esibuhlaza sibona nokuthi abesifazane besifazane bazuze kanjani impumelelo enkulu ebhizinisini, baye baziwa futhi bahlonishwa ubuntu. Futhi okungenani kanye ekuphileni, kodwa ngamunye wethu wazibuza yona umbuzo: "Futhi yini engenza ngibi nakakhulu? Ngingowesifazane. Nami ngiyakwenza. "Futhi siya ukusebenza namakhanda ethu, sizama ukuphumelela, ukufakazela kubalingani abasizungezile ukuthi singabesifazane futhi kufanelekile ukunakekelwa, ukuthi thina abasebenzi abasebenza kahle kanye neziphakamiso zethu nazo zingaba usizo. Emsebenzini, sikhohlwa ngobuntu bethu. Sivame ukuphenduka izidalwa ze-asexual ezihamba ngokungaqondakali emgomweni wazo. Kodwa ufuna ukuba owesifazane ... Ngifuna ukuba uzwe njengaleyo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umsebenzi wesifazane ophumelelayo uthatha cishe sonke isikhathi samahhala. Futhi, ngokusobala, ukuthola umngane onamandla kunzima kakhulu. Futhi thina, besifazane, sifuna. Ngokuvamile sakha izinhloso, bese sishaya wonke amadoda ngoba akukho "owanelisa imingcele." Sihlupheka, sithola. Ngezinye izikhathi siqala ukuzakhela izinkimbinkimbi, noma sizitholela ngaphakathi kithi ngenxa yokungabi nokuqonda nokuntuleka kwehlombe eliqinile eduze komunye nomunye. Futhi lapha kuqala ... Ukumba ngaphakathi kwakho, kuphi, yini engazange, ngani, njll. nokunye okunjalo.
Kodwa lapha kuza injabulo ebusweni bakhe, futhi sikhohlwa yonke imicabango emibi, zonke izinkomba zethu kumuntu wesilisa ocansini futhi siziphelele ngokuphelele kumzwelo onesihloko, siba ngowesifazane wangempela. Yebo, noma sizama ukuzinikela kuye njengezimvume zomsebenzi. Ngabe ngifuna ukuzinza ezweni lanamuhla - umndeni. Futhi ukuvumelana emndenini, njengoba wazi, kuncike ngokuphelele kulona wesifazane. Umswakama wesifazane? Cha, lokhu kuyisimo esimangalisayo - umama, kodwa thina besifazane asesabi ukwanda kanina, kuyilapho amadoda ngezinye izikhathi esaba kakhulu imibuzo mayelana nengane ... Kodwa isinyathelo esinamandla kakhulu futhi esinzulu sokwenza isinqumo mayelana nokuzalwa kwengane. Futhi akukhona nje amadoda okwenzayo.
Kuhle uma konke kuvela futhi emva komsebenzi ophumelelayo owesifazane angangena emndenini enekhanda, abelethe izingane, bese ebuyela emsebenzini wakhe. Iphelele. Kodwa umphakathi wethu awubekezeli imibono ... Futhi kaningi owesifazane (futhi uma esemncane futhi esenomntwana) kunzima ukuthola umsebenzi ohloniphekile. Ukucwaswa? Yebo. Futhi amadoda amaningi ayaqaphela lokhu, kodwa akukho lutho lwalezi zivumelwane alishintshi. Futhi emva kwakho konke, phakathi kwezinye izinto, akekho oye waqeda leyo misebenzi yowesifazane "owawuthatha" abazali bethu. Futhi owesifazane wangempela ezweni lanamuhla kufanele aphile "emaceleni amabili."
Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi silwela indawo ngaphansi kwelanga ngamandla ethu onke esifuna ukujabula futhi anikeze injabulo ezihlotsheni zethu futhi lokhu kunzima kangakanani ... Kodwa noma kunjalo, ngibuze ukuthi ngingathanda ukuzalwa nendoda, ngizophendula "Cha!" Owesifazane - Kuhle!
Ukuba owesifazane wangempela - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kulula kangakanani noma kunzima kangakanani - kusho ukuba imbali enhle kulokhu kuphila. Futhi uma indoda yangempela iyakhathalela lembali, akunjalo neze kunzima owesifazane ukuba abe!