Kodwa-ke, uma usuqala usuku lomshado, ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukuthobeka kudonsa umuntu, ngakho-ke ngaphambi kokuba uhambe ngosuku kudingeka ucabange ngokucophelela ukuthi yini ongayigqoka ngosuku nokuthi uziphathe kanjani, ukuze ungasabisanga insizwa yakho mhlawumbe yindoda ezayo. Ngakho konke okufanayo, yiziphi izingubo ozikhethayo, osukwini lokuthandana uma uthanda isitayela sebhizinisi, futhi uyazi lapho umenyiwe khona (lokhu kungukuthi uya endaweni yokudlela, i-opera, yaseshashalazini noma enye indawo yothando, njll), bese kufanele ukhethe izingubo ngokwendlela yokugqoka yesitayela, okungukuthi ingubo encane emnyama noma engekho emnyama. Kuya cishe bonke abesifazane, kubonakala kunhle futhi kunhle, kufanele nje uthathe isinqumo ngobude besigqoko nesitayela. Ihlale ihlala emfashini, yenza owesifazane wesifazane, ngokuqinisekile ungahlola umbala. Zama ukukhetha omunye umbala onjengobuhlaza obugcwele obumnyama nomunye ongeyona umbala ogqamile kakhulu. Ungakhetha futhi isitifiketi sebhizinisi ngesitayela esinesitayela nge-trousers noma ingubo yobude obuphakathi, kodwa akunjalo hhayi amathoni aqhakazile.
Kodwa, njengomthetho, konke kuxhomeke eminyakeni yobudala abaya kulo mhlangano. Abantu asebekhulile bakhetha ukuya ezindaweni zokudlela noma kumabhayisikobho futhi bagqoke ngokuningi futhi ngokuzithoba. Ngokuvamile abantu abasha baya e-cinema noma kuma-discos, uzovuma e-suit e-disco ongayibukeli kakhulu, futhi ukudansa akuyona into elula kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, uma uya kwenye indawo (okungukuthi, lezo zindawo ezichazwe ngenhla) lapho isitayela esiqinile sembatho singamukelwa khona, bese kuphinda kuphakame umbuzo: yiziphi izingubo zokukhetha, uqhubeke nosuku lothando? Kungaba futhi i-jeans ye-classic enezinwele eziphansi lapho ubheka khona okumangalisayo, ngoba i-jeans ekhethwe kahle igcizelela zonke izintelezi zakho: nemilenze emincane kanye nembongolo. Kubo ungangeza i-blouse (lokhu kungaba i-sexy top bustier noma i-classic shirt, inkinobho ephezulu lapho wena, "ukhohlwa" ku-zip) bese wengeza isithende esiphezulu ukuze ugcizelele ukuvumelana kwakho. Uma ungenalo isithombe esihle kakhulu ugqoke izingubo ozibukeka kahle futhi ucabange ukuthi impumelelo izoba ngakwesokunene sakho. Iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu lesitayela sakho yizesekeli: ungaxhomeki kuwo wonke amagugu akho egolide, kubukeka ngokungahambi kahle ukuthi yini evumelana nesitayela sakho nesithombe sakho namhlanje. Ungalethi isikhwama esikhulu nawe ukuyeka ukukhetha kwakho okuthile okuncane, ngoba namuhla ungumuntu othanda ukuthandana naye, owesifazane obuthakathaka futhi ongenakuzivikela. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ungakhohlwa, uma usuqala usuku lokuthandana, gqoka izingubo zangaphansi ezihle kunazo zonke ozibekayo (uma kunjalo) ngoba nguNkulunkulu kuphela owazi ukuthi kuzokwenzekani ngosuku lwakho lomshado. Kuyo uyozizwa uqiniseka kakhulu futhi ungenalo ukwesaba.
Futhi ukukhiqizwa kokugcina kwalokhu okungenhla yiseluleko: ungagqoki, njengokungathi uzizinikela kuwo wonke umuntu osegumbini elilodwa nawe, vumela zonke izingxenye ezifihliwe zomzimba wakho zifihliwe emehlweni wabantu abangabazi, kodwa kufinyeleleke ekubukeni kwalowo oseduze. Ungagqoki ezintweni ezibiza kakhulu ema-boutiques abizayo kakhulu. Insizwa yakho ingase icabange ukuthi awukwazi ukuyikhokhela futhi iyomethusa kuze kube phakade, ngisho naye kuyoba yinto emangalisa kakhulu. Thola isitayela sakho esiyingqayizivele izingubo, ukuze ungabonakali njengento yonke, kodwa ukuphuma emgodini wegrey ngokunambitheka nobuhle ezembatho. Futhi ungakhohlwa mayelana nokwenza ukwakheka kube lula futhi kwemvelo, bekuhlale kuthande amadoda.