Ukuphila kwanamuhla kuphulukisa ngokungenangqondo imibono eyakhekile, futhi asisabeki ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi umnikazi oyinhloko emndenini ungowesifazane. Imali eyitholayo, empeleni, ixazulula izinkinga eziningi zemvelo. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo badala izinkinga ezintsha ngokuphelele ezingenakulula ukuzixazulula.
Izazi zezenhlalo kanye nezengqondo zesikhathi eside babe nesithakazelo embuzweni walokho abesifazane abakucabangayo nabazizwayo, ababa ngabaphathi abakhulu emndenini. Imali inikeza amandla, igunya, ukuzimela, isikhundla emphakathini. Ukufeza lezi zindwangu kushintshela ingqondo yengane ephumelelayo ebhizinisini nabangane bakhe abasondelene kakhulu. Yilapho izinkinga ziqala khona.
Isimo 1 . "Imifudlana engaphezu kwezintambo." Ngokuvamile, owesifazane ophumelelayo emsebenzini uphoqeleka ukuba afeze imisebenzi yakhe evamile ngokugcwele, njengokungathi akasebenzi nhlobo. Nakuba abantu bevuma ngokungafuni ilungelo labesifazane ukuthi bazuze imali yabo, kodwa ukuthatha umthwalo wemithwalo yemfanelo "yabesifazana" kungekho ngokushesha. Ngenxa yalokho, indlu iyinkimbinkimbi, intaba yezingubo ezingavunyiwe, nezinye izinto eziningi ezingathandeki. Futhi lapha, amazinyo ahlanganisiwe, emva kokukhathala emva komsebenzi, phakathi kwamabili uyashaya indlu yangasese futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo uzibuza ukuthi kungani, ngaphandle kwemisebenzi, kufanele uyenze imisebenzi yasendlini, uma uhola okungaphezulu kunomyeni wakho, obesevele ebona iphupho lesithathu. Owesifazane akagcini nje ukwamukela ukwesekwa nokusizwa, kodwa futhi akakho isinxephezelo sokuziphatha. Ukuhlambalaza kuqoqa, okuyinto ekhula ibe umbhikisho wangaphakathi. Ngenxa yalokho, ubudlelwano bomshado buyanikeza ikhefu.
Isimo 2. Akuzona amadoda amaningi azuza kahle azofuna ukubona amandla owesifazane, ngisho noma engatholi lutho. Amandla wesifazane wesaba abamele bobulili bobabili. Indoda ngokwemvelo inqunyelwe ukuba ibe umthengi. Kungcono ukuthi angayilungiselela umndeni wakhe, uma eba nesibindi futhi ehloniphekile uzizwa emphakathini futhi emehlweni akhe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, owesifazane-getter uzibona ngokwakhe "njengezimvu ezimnyama". Igunya lakhe nokuzihlonipha kuhlupheka. Indoda izwa ingakhululekile eduze kwalowo wesifazane, futhi owesifazane uzwa ububili besimo sakhe. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi, ngezinga elikhulu, le nkinga iphathelene nabesifazane abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-30. Abesifazane abaneminyaka engama-20 kuya kwezingama-30, ehlombe labo abahlukumezekile, baqonda ukuthi inkinga ibe yesikhashana futhi abazange bahlele ukusekela labo abashade nabo isikhathi eside. Okusho ukuthi abesifazane abafuni ukuvuma ukuthi badlale indima yomhlinzeki oyinhloko isikhathi eside kakhulu.
Isimo 3 . Indima ye-mainstay yomndeni ngezinye izikhathi ingenakulinganisela owesifazane. Uhlangabezana nezimo ezicindezelayo njalo, akakwazi ukulala ebusuku. Futhi konke ngenxa yokuthi ilulaza ngaphansi komthwalo wokuhlukumezeka nomthwalo wemfanelo, owawujwayele ukuba yisici kuphela samadoda. Futhi lokhu kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iningi lemisebenzi yasendlini nokunakekelwa kwezingane kusekhona kuye. Ngokuthakazelisayo, ukuthi umfazi uthatha umthwalo wemfanelo okwedlulele, umdlandla omncane la madoda abonisa emizamweni yabo yokuthola umsebenzi ohloniphekile. Uma owesifazane elawula ngokwengeziwe isimo, ukulawulwa okungaphezu kwengxenye yakhe kuzizwa ngumyeni wakhe. Ubuhlobo bomndeni godu buyaqina.
Isimo 4 . Isimo emndenini lapho owesifazane engumqashi oyinhloko ngokuvamile uvame ukucindezelwa kwabanye, okokuqala, izihlobo. Yiqiniso, abashadile benza imizamo yokubukeka njengomndeni "ojwayelekile" emehlweni abanye, baphetha isivumelwano esivumelwaneni omunye nomunye ukuthi abathinteli ukubaluleka okukhethekile kulokhu futhi baze baphikane namandla omfazi abanika yona imali engenayo. Isibonelo, amadoda ahola cishe inani elifanayo njengowesifazana, ememezela esidlangalaleni ukuthi imali yomklomelo womkami ihamba ngokuyinhloko ekuthengeni kwesibili, okungadingekile, nokudla komndeni kukhishwa yibo. Abesifazane bazwela kakhulu okuhlangenwe nakho kwabalingani babo mayelana nokuxhomekeka kwezezimali, ngakho-ke badlala abayeni babo futhi banciphise indima yabo njenge-getter. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abesifazane bazizwa benamandla, ngakolunye uhlangothi, bahamba baya emthunzini ukuze bahlale benamandla. Ebanye abanye lo mbhangqwana ungase ubheke inhlanhla, kodwa kungani nje iningi lezinyunyana liphula?
Isimo 5 . Abesifazane abaningi, abangabanikazi abakhulu emndenini, bhala ukuthi umzabalazo onzima kakhulu, kanye nemiphumela ebuhlungu kakhulu, uqhubekela ekamelweni lokulala. Indoda igweme ubuhlobo bobulili ngoba izwa ubuthakathaka bezezimali. Udinga ukwesekwa ngokomzwelo, kodwa owesifazane udinga ukwesekwa ngokocansi ukuze aqiniseke ukuthi usemnxusa. Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi ubunzima bokuphila ngokocansi buhlangene nomfazi. Uma eyazi kangcono lapho umndeni kufanele uhambe khona eholidini, yini okufanele idliwe ngesidlo sakusihlwa nokuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani imali "yamahhala", angazizwa njengomama kunomthandi. Futhi yiluhlobo luni lobuhlobo bobulili obuvamile olwenzekayo nengane?
Isimo 6 . Isisu sokubeletha. Umama wukuthi i-crystal yemilingo ekhombisa owesifazane othola ukuthi ukugcinwa komndeni akusilo ukhetho lwakhe. Abesifazane abaningi, ngemuva kokubeletha, baphoqeleka ukuba babuyele emsebenzini, bathole ukuthi akunandaba ukuthi bayamthanda kangakanani. Konke lokhu akubaluleke kakhulu kubo njengengane. Kodwa-ke, uma ungabuyeli emsebenzini, umndeni ngeke usinde. Abaningi abahola umama bakhathele ngaphansi kwejoka lobunzima bokuhlanganisa imithwalo yemfanelo yomndeni kanye nemindeni ezinyangeni zokuqala emva kokuzalwa kwengane. Ngenxa yalokho, abakwazi ukuthethelela umyeni ukuthi umntwana uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala ngaphandle kwalo, futhi igama lokuqala alizange lenziwe "mama", futhi ngenjabulo enkulu le ncane inamathela izandla kuyise, hhayi kuye, iphoqelelwe ukungakwazi ukunikeza umndeni womyeni kanjalo okuningi ukulahlekelwa ekukhulumeni kwabo nengane.
Ukuzindla ngesihloko
Njalo owesifazane uzinikela ngokwakhe indlela yokuzikhethela. Naphezu kobubili besimo sabo, iningi labavukuzi besifazane ngeke lifune impilo ehlukile ngokwabo.
Kubanikazi bezimayini, kungaba lula ukungazinaki izitatimende ezingamukeleki zabanye uma bezwa ukuthi amalungu omndeni aziqhenyayo ngaphandle kokubhuka.
Noma kunjalo, kusobala ukuthi abesifazane bangathanda ukuthi omunye umuntu anakekele.
Ngisho noma owesifazane uye wavumelana nendima yesisebenzi nomnakekeli emndenini, umuntu akanakulindela ngempela ukuthi isitayela sempilo entsha yomndeni nayo iyokwakhiwa ngokushesha.
Owesifazane obanikela ngengxenye yezingonyama kubhajethi yomndeni ngeke azizwe anelisekile uma engabuyi ukucubungula kabusha isimiso sakhe, athola isikhathi sokuxhumana nengane, engasekeli umyeni wakhe emizamweni yakhe yokuthola imali engenayo, ngeke azame ukugcina ithemba eliseduze naye.
Iseluleko sengqondo
Kunoma yikuphi, ungakhathazeki ngokuphakama kwakho. Umholo ophakeme awunikeli ilungelo elinjalo. Ungazitholi ekucaseni umyeni, ungangeni engxoxweni yokuthi ungakanani futhi wenzani eduze kwendlu. Cishe, "ukunganeliseki" kwakhe akukho mhlaba wangempela. Lokhu kuyindlela yakhe kuphela yokuzivikela.
Ungenzelani umyeni wakho lokho yena ngokwakhe angakwenza ngaphakathi kwendlu. Abesifazane bebhizinisi abasebenza ngokuvame kakhulu bahlakulela ubuvila kumyeni wabo, ngaphambi kwakhe nokwenza umsebenzi wesikole. Abanaso ukubekezela nokuvumelana okudingekayo ukuze bahlanganise kancane kancane umyeni wakhe ekukhathazeni ekhaya. Lo muntu ngokwakhe ngeke abonise isinyathelo. Mcele ukuthi akusize. Ungaphelelwa yisikhathi lapho umsebenzi usuphelile kahle noma kancane kancane. Akuwona wonke ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Ungamsoli umyeni wakhe ngokuba ovilaphayo, ozigovu, engaphumelelanga. Noma yikuphi okuphawula kwakho kuzosetshenziswa njengesizathu sokuhlasela ikheli lakho. Lokhu kudinga inqubomgomo efihlekile.
Uma uqinisekile ukuthi umyeni angakwazi, kodwa akafuni ukuthola okuningi, kungase kube umqondo ukuyeka imali yokuzifunela. Lokhu kuzophoqa umyeni wakhe ukuba "athuthe."
Uma umyeni eqala izinkimbinkimbi, kuyasiza ukugcizelela (ngokungajwayelekile kodwa ngokungenakuqonda) isisindo sakhe emndenini. "Kuhle kakhulu ukuthi unami," "Ngaphandle kokusekelwa kwakho, ngabe ngingeke ngiphumelele impumelelo enjalo" Kusukela kula mazwi ngemuva kwalowo muntu uzokhula amaphiko. Futhi uma uqonda ukuthi lezi zinkimbinkimbi zijulile futhi ukuhlaselwa komyeni kuthatha amafomu, amahloni ahlazolayo, ayingxenye yawo, ukuze ungaphenduki impilo yakho esihogweni.
Ukwenza umyeni azizwe ekhululekile, ubeke yonke imali engenayo (lokhu kungaba ibhokisi elivamile, lapho ngamunye wenu athatha imali). Xoxa ngazo zonke izinto zokusetshenziswa, ukuthenga okukhulu. Shiya isamba ngasinye sezindleko zakho (okungase kube ngaphezulu - ngediphozi).
Akudingekile, ukugwema ukuziqhenya komyeni, ukufihla ubukhulu bemali yakhe. Amathuba okudalula aphezulu, asongela izinkinga ezinkulu nakakhulu.
Ungacindezeli kulowo oshade naye. Lokhu kudala njalo ukuhlehlisa. Ingxoxo kuphela, ingxoxo eyimfihlo izosiza ukugwema izingxabano nokugcina ukuthula emndenini.
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