Ukungena ebuhlotsheni obungathí sina, kubonakala ukuthi kungani abathandani be-cuss njalo, futhi, ngikhumbula izikhalazo zezintombi, angikwazi ukuqonda lokho abakutholayo. Manje ngisemkhatsini wazo zonke lezi zenzakalo, futhi ngiyakwazi ukwabelana ngokuqondile ngqo endaweni yesehlakalo, nginikeza imizwa yami, imicabango kanye neziphetho. Izinsuku zokuqala sithola ukunakwa okuningi, Futhi manje ngisanda kubona ukuthi kungani sivame ukuphikisana nabashade nathi. Ngangiqonda amaphutha abesifazane ngesikhathi ngisebenzelana namadoda . Okungakufanele ukwenze, nokuthi kungcono kanjani ukukwenza, nokuthi yini engaba khona uma wenza iphutha. Kodwa thina sonke singabantu, ngakho sonke singakwazi ukwenza amaphutha.
Ngoba ukunakekelwa kokuqala kumuntu wethu omangalisayo kunikezwa inani elingakahleleki, futhi uma sizinikele ngokuphelele kumfundisi wethu, ngakho-ke akalahlekelwa yinzalo, cha, uvele eqala ukuphazamisa kithi nezinye izindaba ezibalulekile. Yini ebaluleke kakhulu kunathi, ucabanga. Akukho lutho, thina nje, ngoba ukukhanya akuzange kuhlangane, besifazane abathandekayo, nangu wena ngenxa yothandekayo wakho, weqa massage ku-salon-salon, noma manicure, noma styling - cha! Uzokhokha ngokwengeziwe kulezi zinqubo, ukuze lokho okuthandekayo wethu abone, indlela esicubungulayo ngayo, sikulungele ukuphothula nokupholisa izinsuku, nje kuphela masibone ubuhlakani bethu kuphela, futhi akekho omunye umuntu! Futhi ake abanye abantu baqale ukusihawukela ukuthi singabakhe ngaphandle komkhondo.
Ngakho-ke, lapho siqala ukuhlukanisa othandekayo ngezenzakalo nezinhloso ezingabalulekile, siba namahloni futhi sithukuthele, sikholelwa ukuthi kufanele sibheke kuphela, futhi akukho okunye okunye. Siqala ukuba nomhawu ngokuqala nomama nomfowethu futhi siphele nge-screwdriver kanye ne-nut, siqala ukugcoba ukugcoba kwethu okumnandi, okubonakalayo okubomvu we-sponge, futhi simtshele ukuthi akasithandi.
Iphutha 1 ! Siqala ukufakaza kuye ukuthi akasithandi, futhi emva kwesikhashana isiphakamiso sisebenza, futhi empeleni asiye ukusithanda. Noma yimuphi umuntu uyakwazi ukusikisela nokuxilongwa, futhi noma yimuphi umuntu unamandla okwehluleka kulokhu kuqubuka. Futhi wena ngokwakho uzonakalisa injabulo yakho, ukumtshela ukuthi akakuthandi ngezinyembezi emehlweni akhe.
Iphutha 2 ! Awunesineke. Ukukhuthazelela isikhathi lapho engabalandeli nawe, kodwa ngemoto yakhe. Uma engakunikeli isikhathi, futhi engakutsheli ukuthi "ngithethelele othandekayo wami (othandekayo, umntwana wami, ilanga lami nokunye), kodwa nje uthi" Angikwazi namuhla, ngidinga ukulungisa imoto nge-Vasya ", lokhu akusho ukuthi awuthandi, kusho ukuthi udinga ukulungisa imoto nge-Vasya. Yenza okuthize, esikhundleni sokudla ubuchopho bakho ngokungazizwa sengathi "akayithandi futhi akanginaki."
Iphutha 3 ! Akuyena umuntu oyedwa emhlabeni osondelene naye. Usenomama, umzalwane kanye neqembu labafowabo. Bafuna ukunakwa, njengowe, ngakho-ke funda ukwabelana nomndeni wakhe, ngoba uyazi ukuthi ziningi kangakanani futhi zide kunani. Omunye wabangane bami ukhononda ngokuthi umngane wakhe akahambanga naye kumabhayisikobho kuye nangosuku lwakhe, kodwa waya ukusiza umfowabo, wakhe indlu. Yini ebaluleke nakakhulu? I-movie noma indlu? Udinga ukwazi ukudela okuthile ngenxa yothando. Mhlawumbe wahlabela usuku ayezohlala ngalo naye othandekayo wakhe, kodwa ngemuva kokuba wonke umfowabo ecela usizo ekwakheni indlu. Kuyingozi nakakhulu kune-movie.
Iphutha le-4 ! Wena ubugovu kakhulu. Uhlala udonsa ingubo phezu kwakho, ukuyikhetha kude nabathandekayo bakho. Uyasusa kuye izinto azithandayo, uziphoqele ukuzijabulisa. Noma yikuphi umuntu othanda ukubuka ibhola nabangani nokuphuza ubhiya, futhi esikhundleni salokho uyaya ezitolo nawe, noma uvakashele umngane wakho, noma into, into oyithandayo. Futhi uma ekunikezela ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe owuthandayo, uphazamisa impumulo yakho, uphazamise emgodini "Ngizohlanza manje" ngimemeza "hhayi noma yini", cabanga ukuthi uzothini uma ekhala ngendlela efanayo kulo mbono osihlongozile, ukuchitha isikhathi sakho ukuchitha isikhathi esithandayo.
Iphutha le-5 ! Ngokuba caprices wakhe we princess encane noma unkulunkulukazi obabazekayo, asiboni isifiso indoda yethu, ngaleyo ndlela ukuphenduka ibe isigqila kusuka othandekayo. Udinga indoda ezokwenza izenzo zesilisa, hhayi eyodwa egcwalisa zonke izifiso zakho. Akayena umuntu omdala, u-Hottabych, ozobhidliza izinwele zakhe zokugcina ukuze agcwalise izifiso zakho ezincane. Yebo, akuyona isifiso esingajulile - ukuya esitolo uphinde uthenge i-blouse entsha, kodwa ubuke ngokuqondile, futhi wena, ngicabanga, uzoqonda konke.
Lapha sikhalaza ukuthi amadoda ethu asiqondi kahle nhlobo, futhi asazi ukuthi yini esiyidingayo. Futhi thina siyazi ukuthi yini edingekayo? Izifiso zami nemizwa yami ingashintsha njalo imizuzu eyishumi, futhi ngiyaqonda ukuthi othandekayo wami akakwazi ukuzivumelanisa nabo naphansi kwazo zonke izinguquko. Funda ukuqonda othandekayo wakho, ubuke konke ngokuzenzekelayo, unciphise izitho zakho zobugovu kancane kancane futhi uzokwazi ukukubona. Lokhu ngeke kuqondwe, futhi uzokuthanda nakakhulu. Noma yisiphi isibonakaliso sokubheka kwakhe ngikubonayo ngimdumise, noma ngabe ngiyaziqhenya, kodwa ngiyamdumisa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lezi zinhloso ziphikisayo kangakanani, ziphuma enhliziyweni, uma uhlale ndawonye isikhathi eside, hhayi "ukuphuma." Ngizocaphuna esinye isibonelo, futhi, umngane wami ufune, ngokoqobo leli gama, inwele elilodwa elibizayo eliqondisa usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa, kodwa alizange aluthole. Esikhundleni salokho, wathola isitifiketi esitolo sezingubo zangaphansi. Ngaleso sikhathi, kwakungekho imali kumfana ngaleso sikhathi, wayesezihlelile ukuhlela usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa, futhi wahola izintombi zakhe kanye naye ngokwemvelo eqenjini le-bowling. Wayengekho othukuthele, wavutha. Futhi konke kwakunzima futhi kukhishwe ngezimfuno zakhe, ngenhlanhla kuye kwaba yinto elukhuni ukuphahlazeka, noma mhlawumbe uyamthanda kakhulu, kodwa basesebambene, futhi usafuna ukulungisa kabusha. Akumangalisi ukuthi bathi "angaboni isipho esivela emlonyeni" futhi "balindela okubi kunazo zonke, kodwa ithemba lokuhle kakhulu", ukuhlakanipha kwabantu, okutholakala eminyakeni eminingi, kuhlale kulungile, ungagxeki izipho zakhe, kodwa nje ubikezele lokho okufunayo kuye, kodwa ungalindeli ukuthi uzoqonda ukusikisela kwakho. Futhi-ke, kuyoba mnandi kakhulu ukuthi uthole lokho okulindelwe kuye, uma eqonda, kunjalo.
Noma kunjalo, amadoda ethu ahlambalaza futhi anenhlanhla lapho ethanda. Bayesaba ukwenza okubi nakakhulu ngokwenza kabi. Ngiyakwazi ukutshela umthandi wami uma engilethela i-rose eshibhile ngaphandle kwesizathu, futhi uma engibheka amehlo egcwele uthando kimi, futhi athi "ngithandekayo, ngifuna ukukujabulisa." Ngingamtshela kanjani ukuthi lokhu kuvuka kushibhile futhi kubi, uma kubonisa uthando lwakhe. Yebo, angakhetha okungcono kakhulu, kodwa-ke, amadoda ayengekho ukunambitheka ngokuphelele uma kuziwa ngesipho somuntu othandekayo.
Umthetho oyinhloko wobudlelwane obuphumelelayo, obuphindaphinda omagazini besifazane besikhathi sethu "udinga ukuqonda amadoda ukuthi azosiqonda." Thanda amadoda akho, futhi azokuthanda ngaphezu kokumthanda.