Nakuba, usuku lokuqala nokuqala kokuphola kuncike kakhulu kulomuntu, ngoba nguye umuntu onqoba lona wesifazane, ukunakekelwa kwakhe nesithakazelo, okuyinto amadoda ngokuvamile ayikhohlwa manje. Ngakho-ke, yilo muntu okufanele azame ukwenza umbono omuhle kowesifazane ngosuku lokuqala futhi agweme amaphutha.
Amaphutha enza ngosuku lokuqala ngabesifazane. Enye yeziphambeko ezimbi kakhulu - ukufika osukwini nosomuntu, hhayi ukuzibeka esimweni. Lena yinto embi kakhulu owesifazane angayenza - ukuza ngaphandle kokwenza izimbali, ngaphandle kwekhanda elihle, nge-varnish ekhanyayo ezinzikhonweni zakhe nasezingutsheni ezimbi. Ukufika ngosuku, kufanele uzame ukuzitholela okuhle kakhulu kweqembu bese uqokomisa isithunzi sakho sonke. Khumbula ukuthi indoda ithanda, okokuqala, amehlo akhe, ngakho kufanele umthande ngaphandle. Iphutha lomunye wesifazane - ukukhuluma ngokweqile ngosuku lokuqala. Amadoda ngokuvamile awabathandi abesifazane abangavali umlomo wabo. Akudingekile ukukhuluma ngokungaphezi, kungcono ukuthula ngaphandle kokukhuluma okungenangqondo. Awukwazi ukusakaza lonke ulwazi mayelana nawe ngosuku lokuqala. Hlala umuntu imfihlakalo, ulalele ngokwengeziwe, ukhulume ngaye, futhi unikeze ulwazi mayelana nawe ngezigaba ezincane ngesikhathi sokuvakashelwa okuningi. Enye iphutha kungamahloni ngokweqile. Kukhathazeka kokubili amadoda nabesifazane. Kuyamahloni, ukungazethembi, okuholele ekukhuni nasekunqeni, kungabhubhisa ngokungahleliwe usuku lwakho lokuqala.
Amaphutha enza ngosuku lokuqala lomuntu. Amadoda kufanele akhumbule njalo ukuthi athola lona wesifazane, yingakho kufanele athathe isinyathelo ekuqaleni kokuzijwayeza futhi abe ngabahleli be-rendeous. Enye yeziphambeko ukungaqali okuphelele futhi ukuguqula inhlangano yomhlangano kumuntu wesifazane, ukummema ukuba acabange ukuthi uzoya kuphi nokuthi uzochitha kanjani isikhathi. Lokhu kufanele ucabange ngomuntu! Qinisekisa ukuthi unikeza izimbali zowesifazane ngosuku lokuqala. Iphutha lizofika ngosuku ngaphandle kwesibonakaliso esincane sokunakekelwa ngendlela yezimbali noma ibhokisi lama-chocolate.
Yiqiniso, akuvumelekile ukuphuza usuku, ukufika esimweni sokudakwa, ukulinda owesifazane onebhola likabhiya esandleni sakhe noma ugwayi emlonyeni wakhe. Iphutha elingenakuthethelelwa lizobe lifika ngosuku ngosuku ezingubo ezingcolile, ngezipikili ezingcolile. Lokhu kuyoba usuku lwakho lokuqala nokugcina, ngikuqinisekisa. Akuvumelekile ukunikeza ubulili besifazane ngosuku lokuqala bese uqala ukukhuluma ngezocansi. Mayelana nokuqala kokuqala. Ake kube ngcono ngosuku lwesibili noma kamuva, kodwa hhayi kokuqala. Mhlawumbe, lona wesifazane akasazi ukuthi ufuna yini ukukumanga emva kosuku lokuqala, ngakho ungagqugquzeli on kiss ngosuku lokuqala. Ngisho noma ubona ukuthi uthande ngempela lo wesifazane, futhi ufuna lokhu kumanga, ngisho nakakhulu, kuzokwenzeka okungenani ngosuku lwesibili. Enye yeziphambeko zesilisa kuyisimanga futhi izinsuku zokuqala ezijwayelekile. Owesifazane udinga okuthile ukumangala. Uyazi ukuthi mangaki imihlangano ayenawo, efana nomunye, njengamaconsi amabili amanzi? Phuma emthonjeni obukhulu bese ufika nento ethakazelisayo, ulethe i-date yakho yokuqala, wenze kube yinto engafanele futhi ingalokothi ukhunjulwe.
Iziphambeko zenziwa ngosuku lokuqala, nabesilisa nabesifazane. Kodwa kufanele sikhumbule njalo ukuthi umbono wokuqala ngosuku lokuqala luvame ukungahambi kahle. Ngakho-ke, ukucabanga okuphelele komuntu kunganezelwa kuphela ngesikhathi sokuvakashelwa eziningana, lapho futhi okufanele azame ukugwema amaphutha ashiwo ngenhla.