Ungayiphutha kanjani uma uhlangana ku-intanethi?

Ukuxhumana kwinethiwekhi kuyinto evelele kakhulu. Ungadala isithombe esiphelele, sinikeze ku-interlocutor yakho futhi udlale iskripthi sakho esihle senveli. Kodwa khumbula: angenza okufanayo. Ungakwenza kanjani lokhu ukuze ungabesabi, kodwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuze uzithakazelise kumlingani wakho oqobo, ngenkathi ungazishintshi wena, ungazami ukuvimbela imaski, ngaphandle kokwesaba ukuvezwa? Mayelana nalokhu futhi ukhulume.


Ungenzi amaphutha ematheksthini

Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ekuqaleni kokuxhumana. Awazi indoda, kodwa ufuna ukuthi abe umuntu onengqondo kuwo wonke umqondo? Bese-ke, thatha izinkinga ukuze ungenzi amaphutha ograma kumilayezo yakho. Khumbula, lezi amaphutha eziphukuphuku azihlangani neze nge-online slang slang. Ngeke ukwazi ukufihla "OKULUNGILE" kumalungu esithangami samanje aqondakalayo "Aguqulwe." Uma umuntu efundela futhi efundiswa, uzokuhlukanisa. Ngakho kungcono ukulahla umlayezo wakho eZwini kuqala bese uchofoza isheke sokupela isipelingi.

Yebo, ungakwazi, hhayi "ukugeza". Kodwa-ke ungamangali ukuthi i-sobesednikokazhaetsya yakho entsha ye-hamovatoy "yengulube." Umuntu omiyo uyojabula ukuxhumana nentombazane efanelekayo. Kuyiqiniso, isitayela sokubhala asikabi, uma singaboni. Kodwa okungenani amaphutha okuvinjelwa esipelini angagwenywa futhi kuyadingeka.

Ungasheshisi imfihlo

In the network obschenisteitsya lula kunokuba ubuso nobuso. Ngisho nekhamera yewebhu inikwe amandla, ukungasebenzi akulahleki ngokushesha. Ngakho ngokubhala kulula futhi kulula ukukhuluma, futhi uphendule noma yimiphi imibuzo, futhi uzibuze ngaphandle kwemingcele. Kulokho kuwubuhle bezinkhulumomphendvulwano ezinjalo ezingashicilelwe. Kodwa futhi kuyingozi. Ungasheshi ngezimbulo ngosuku lokuqala lokuxhumana. Khumbula, uhlangothi lokuphefumula kwe-monitor, namanje umuntu ovamile. Awuvuli umuntu wokuqala, ungafaki izimfihlo zakho, izinkinga kanye nokwesaba ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ukukhulumisana kwenethiwekhi kufihla lezi zinhlangano, kubonakala sengathi i-interlocutor yinto ephepheni, ngoba ayibonakali futhi ayizwakala. Kodwa lo mzwa akulungile.

Izenzo ezifanayo kanye nezambulo eziseduze. Yebo, uma i-interlocutor ephuma engumfana ongenabungozi-"isitshalo sezitshalo" esamane esethusa futhi esima ukuxhumana. Futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ngakolunye uhlangothi lomqapha uzobe ulindelwe inkathazo yangempela ngendlela yesithandwa somdala osekhulile. Kuzovusa izembonakaliso ngomgomo owodwa kuphela: ukuhamba phambili esikhathini esizayo le midlalo esondelene nayo iyinto yangempela. Futhi lokhu akudingi njalo imvume yakho. Umuntu ovamile onesifiso sangempela sokwakha ubuhlobo obunzima ngeke nje aqhubeke ekhuluma nawe uma unegama elithi "ubulili", "umbhede", "pose" kanye nezinye izinkululeko ngokusebenzisa izwi lakho.

Ungabi ohlakaniphile, ungagxeki

Ungazami ukubonakala uzihlakaniphile ekuqaleni kokuphola. Kuwe, into esemqoka akumele ukwesabise umuntu omuhle. Ngokungazelelwe, unquma ukuthi naye uzama ukujwayelana nabanye abanesizungu, uthisha we-Inthanethi okhululekayo wokucindezeleka. Cha, ngokusemthethweni akukho lutho olungalungile ngabafundisi. Amadoda nje abengekho i-lyubyatumnichayuschih kakhulu (okungukuthi, ohlakaniphile - hhayi ohlakaniphile!) Owesifazane okudingayo ukuba akhethe amagama, abukeze imibono yabo empilweni, ushintshe imikhuba. Ngokuvamile, le ndoda kufanele ikuqondise ingxoxo. Uma uhlakaniphile ngempela, khona-ke uzomnika leli thuba.

Qaphela futhi ngokugxeka. Awazi lo muntu, ukwehluleka kwezithombe, izinkanuko zakhe nezinamathiselo. Ukuxoxa ngezihloko ezibucayi, njengemfashini, izinto zokuzilibazisa noma isimo sakhe sengqondo empilweni, ungakwazi ngokungazelelwe ukucasula i-interlocutor ngokugxeka kwakho. Kuhlale kudingekile ukuba uqale ukukhuluma ngokuthobeka: ukuhlola umhlaba ngokucophelela, ngaphandle kokuhlakaza amakhadi, okushoyo, etafuleni.

Ukuqapha izimpendulo zakhe

Ngesisekelo salomkhandlu kungokwesiko ukwakha zonke izingxoxo. U-interlocutor kufanele abone ukuthi uyamqonda, ukuthi unesithakazelo kuye, futhi ungaphuthelwa ukugeleza kwamagama okwedlulele ezindlebeni (kulokhu - kudlule amehlo). Uma ephendula ngobuqotho imibuzo yakho, khona-ke awudlala amahlaya ngaso sonke isikhathi. Uma i-ostabeste ingajabulisi, khona-ke ungakwazi ukuhleka izikhathi ezimbalwa, kodwa hhayi sonke isikhathi. Izimpendulo kufanele zibe, kungenjalo kuyoba mnandi ukuthi umuntu ahlale ebona izithonjana noma into efana ne "hee-hee" kunalokho. Lokhu akuyona ukuxhumana, kepha izikhukhula, ezigcwele izinkundla ze-Inthanethi, futhi okungekho lutho olume.

Uthintana nezindaba zakhe siqu - zibalalelisise. Isibonelo, uma izolo izobika ukuthi ugijima enkulumweni kusihlwa, futhi ekuseni uzobuza: "Wenzani izolo, bekuphi ukuzijabulisa?" - lokhu kungamcasula. Uzoqonda ukuthi izindaba zakhe "zihlangothini lwakho", ukuthi awukhumbuli ngisho nalokho akushilo ngaye, ukuthi awunasithakazelo kukho konke lokhu. U-Ilion uzothatha isinqumo sokuthi uyamhlola, bathi, "ukuhlaba" noma cha? Kungenzeka futhi ukuba i-mogotobidet - ngoba awuzange uhlangane. Ngokuvamile, ulalelisise izinto ezincane zokuphila kwakhe, uma ufuna ukuqhubeka nokuxhumana futhi uhumushe kwisiteshi esibi.

Ithuthukiswe ngothando

Uma uthabatha, futhi kuvela kuwe isichazamazwi somusa esivela kuwe nge-monologue eyodwa, uyazi ukuthi ungazivimba kanjani. Indoda ayikwazi ukukuvimbela ukuhamba kwezandla zakhe, babheka enye into. Ngisho nomuntu ozwela kakhulu futhi othandana naye - hhayi isifo se-psychopathologist, hhayi isitsha sezinyembezi. Ungcono ukumlalela. Mambule izimfihlo zakhe kuye, uzobona kuwe umngane onomusa, owamqonda kangcono kunabo bonke abanye.

Konke mayelana nokuqala kobudlelwane. Uma usuzanazana kakade kangcono, khona-ke kuyokwenzeka ukungeza ukuthanda, nokugxeka, nokuvuma okungaqondile. Into esemqoka ukulungisa lolu xhumano olungaphephile. Konke okunye kungcono ukuthola ukuthi imiphi imihlangano ehloniphekile. Yiqiniso, bangakwazi ukungena esikhundleni se-Inthanethi esheshayo, ikhamera yewebhu, imakrofoni enekhanda elikhethekile. Ungakwazi ukuhlela ingqungquthela yomsindo, ukubuyekezwa okuhlangene kwamafilimu enengxoxo esilandelayo, ukwabelana nge-e-amakhadi athile kanye nezithombe zakhe. Kodwa akukho okuzokhipha esikhundleni se-obscheniya.Da yangempela kanye nehhovisi lokubhalisa elungile lingakaqalwa.