Amaphutha wesifazane ekuhlotsheni nomyeni wakhe

Abantu bayathandana, bahlangane, baxabane, benze noma baphule. Naphezu kwemizamo emikhulu nezifiso, othandekayo angakushiya. Futhi akuyona into encane: "abavumelani nomlingiswa." Isizathu sijule kakhulu. Ngikusikisela ukuthi uqonde ukuthi ungathandwa njalo futhi uthandeka kanjani futhi ungalahlekelwa ngumuntu wakho.

Zilungiselele ukuthi uzoba nomsebenzi obalulekile futhi onzima, "ukuthanda" okulula futhi "ukukhanya okulula" ngeke uphume. Cabanga ngemithetho embalwa eyokusiza uhlale ubuhlobo obuhle nomuntu wakho.

Indlela eya enhliziyweni yomuntu ilele ngesisu sakhe.

Ngesinye isikhathi abesifazane besimanje bayakhohlwa ngalesi simiso esidumile futhi esikhundleni sekhaya, abaphekwe ngothando, umuntu wesidlo ulinde etafuleni ngezinja ezishisayo noma ukudla okulula ngaphambi kokushisa. Ngisho noma unesikhathi esiningi nomzamo osebenzayo, futhi kusihlwa usuke ukhathele, thatha isikhathi sokulungisa umuntu oyithandayo isidlo noma ubhake i-pie enhle kakhulu. Masiqonde futhi aqonde amakhono akho nokuzikhandla.

Uma ungazi ukupheka, sekuyisikhathi sokuqala ukufunda. Ngenhlanhla, kunenqwaba yezincwadi namawebhusayithi azinikele ekuthokozeni okuthandayo. Uma unyoko noma intombi yakho ekwazi ukupheka okumnandi, babuze. Bazokujabulela ukukusiza ukuba ube ngumama omuhle wekhaya, wabelane "ngemfihlo" yabo emincane.

Wamangala indoda yakho!

Khohlwa isithombe se-"Soviet" womama endlini egqoke izingubo zokugqoka ezigqoke ngama-curlers ekhanda lakhe bese ehamba ngamazinyo. Abakhiqizi abaningi banamuhla bezingubo zabesifazane bahlakulela uchungechunge olwengeziwe lwamasokisi asekhaya. Kungaba izikhwama ezipholile, ama-blade amahle, iziketi kanye nezifinyezo. Ungakhetha isitayela evumelana nawe, uphinde ulahle i-sweater endala oye wahamba ngayo eminyakeni emithathu edlule!

Uma ungasebenzi futhi wenze umsebenzi wasekhaya, lokhu akusona isizathu sokuthi sibe "yiqembu", elinesithakazelo kuphela ekulungiseleleni umakhelwane nabahlebi. Yiba nesithakazelo ezindabeni, thola ukuzilibazisa kwakho, ukuzilibazisa, ubhalisele "izifundo zokusika nokuthunga" (noma yikuphi okuthandayo).

Yiba nesithakazelo njalo kumuntu wakho. Shintsha isithombe sakho, wenze ukuqokwa okungavamile. Futhi indoda yakho ngeke ibukeke ngenye indlela.

Yiba umngane wakhe, inkosikazi nomama.

Kodwa-ke okungajwayelekile ukuthi inhlanganisela yalezi zindima ingase ibonakale, lokhu kuyisihluthulelo sempumelelo. Indoda idinga umngane oqotho ongakwazi ukuxoxa ngebhola nokuhleba naye emsebenzini. Indoda idinga umama ozomsekela, ngezinye izikhathi uzokulalela, uyomnakekela, ukudla okumnandi futhi alandele indlu, mama, ozozisola futhi akutshele indlela engcono yokuyenza. Indoda idinga inkosikazi enomdlandla futhi ehlukumezayo. Lapha, ngicabanga, ukuphawula kuyizinto ezingenakuqhathaniswa.

Masizwe sengathi ungumzingeli.

Kusukela okhokho basemadodeni asekude abahlala behlala bengumuntu ongenamuntu "womzingeli". Okubi kakhulu ukuhlolwa, okunamnandi inyamazane. Menze abe nomuzwa wokuthi ngeke akuthole kalula, ukuthi uzodingeka azame ngaphambi kokuba athole "sitrobheli". Amadoda ayakwazisa abesifazane abadinga ukufunwa.

Masiqede isikhathi nabangani.

Abesifazane abaningi emva komuntu oseduze kwabo bathi: "Kufanele uchithe isikhathi sakho sonke samahhala nami, futhi awuhlangene nabangani." Lena iphutha elikhulu kakhulu. Vumela indoda yakho ukuba ihlele isikhathi sayo. Ngaphambi kokuvuma ukumema abazali ukuba bachithe ngempelasonto e-dacha, thintana nomthandekayo wakho. Ngakho-ke, uzomtshela ukuthi uhlonipha umbono wakhe futhi uyazisa isikhathi sakhe.

Akudingekile ukuthatha yonke imithwalo yemithwalo yemigomo ebalulekile, amadoda ngokwabo abathanda ukunquma nokuhlela. Uma kungenjalo, angakwazi ukuthuthela komunye umuntu ohlala futhi ongasebenzi kakhulu.

Kwanele ukumbiza!

Uyazi ukuthi manje usemsebenzini, futhi, mhlawumbe, umatasa ngezingxoxo ezibucayi, ngakho-ke faka ifoni emuva emgqeni futhi ungabizi ngaleso sikhathi ukuze uthole ukuthi yini ukupheka ukudla, noma ubuze isikhathi sezinkulungwane eziyikhulu: "Uyangithanda?". Ungaqapheli izingcingo zakhe njalo ngemizuzu emihlanu uma ehlala emsebenzini noma nabangani. Imibuzo enomusa icasula amadoda.

Shayela kuphela indaba ebalulekile. Futhi ngokujwayelekile, makabe ezwa, uphi, futhi ungubani! Ngikholelwa, maduzane lo muntu ngokwakhe uzoqala ukukubiza.

Umhawu akuyona indawo.

Wonke umuntu ungumnikazi, uma owesifazane eseduze naye, kusho ukuthi uqobo lwakhe, futhi ngeke avumele ukulingana nabanye abamele ubulili obuqinile. Nokho, ngokwabo bayashiya ilungelo elinjalo. Thatha lula ngaye ukuthi acabangele abesifazane abadlula. Khumbula, amadoda athande amehlo!

Ungamniki imbangela yokuba nomhawu, futhi ungabi nomhawu ngabo bonke abasebenza nabo. Into esemqoka ebuhlotsheni yithemba, elingasheshe lilahlekelwe ngumhawu wakho ongenangqondo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ekushisekeni kwentukuthelo, ungatshela umuntu izinto eziningi ezingathandeki, okuzobe uzodinga ukuxolisa kamuva. Ingabe uyayidinga?

Amanga ukuze asindiswe.

Ngaphinda futhi ngifuna ukuphinda ukuthi into ebaluleke kakhulu ebuhlotsheni yithemba. Ngisho amanga amancane kakhulu angabhubhisa lokho okwakhiwe isikhathi eside. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lizwakala kanjani, kodwa iqiniso elibabazayo lingcono kunamanga amnandi. Tshela lo muntu mayelana nazo zonke izimfihlo zakho. Vumela ungalokothi ube nezinto noma izenzakalo okufanele uzifihle komunye nomunye. Ngokwemvelo, ufuna into efanayo kumuntu othandekayo. Umdlalo akufanele ube esangweni elilodwa.

Ungaphazamisi ebuhlotsheni bakho nabangaphandle.

Ngisho nezingxabano zakho ezimbi kakhulu futhi ezimbi akufanelekile ukukhuluma nabangane babo, ikakhulukazi, kumama wakho. Ubuhlobo bakho - ibhizinisi lakho kuphela futhi libandakanya "ukuhlakazeka" komuntu wesithathu - oyisiphukuphuku nokungalungile. Kubantu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungakhulumi ngobuhlobo bakho nabangane nabazali. Ngakho-ke, uma une "okunye okuncane", qiniseka ukuthi labo abazi izinkinga zakho "gcina umlomo wakho uvaliwe."

Yonke imithetho engenhla iqinisile kumadoda amaningi. Yiqiniso, udinga ukwazi imikhuba kanye nomlingiswa womuntu wakho othandekayo, ngesisekelo salo, ungakwazi ukwengeza lolu hlu. Vumela ubuhlobo bakho bugcwele uthando, ukuhloniphana, ukwethembeka nobuqotho!