Umbuzo wesisindo nokulungiswa kwawo manje uqala kuqala phakathi kwabesifazane abaningi banamuhla. Intshisekelo kule nkinga ingabangelwa kakhulu yimpilo, kodwa njengento yokukhangisa kwabobulili obuhlukile. Kusukela ku-TV izikrini izinga likhangiswa 90-60-90, zonke izingubo ezihamba phambili zesiFulentshi nesiNtaliyane zikhonjiswe kuze kube ngu-46 ubukhulu beRussia. I-Slender, imingcele ngokubukeka, amamodeli nezinkanyezi ze-movie - izinga lokuphumelela, ukufunwa, ukukhulekelwa kwamadoda amaningi. Lena impilo enhle wonke umuntu ofuna ukuyithinta. Noma kunjalo, abesifazane abancane abancane basuke kude nemibono esinikezwe yona. Futhi umbuzo wokuthi ukugcwala kowesifazane akuphazamisi umuntu, uhlala uvutha.
Ukugcwala kowesifazane akukwazi neze ukuphazamisa umuntu. Futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso! Izinganekwane ukuthi ukudlula ngokweqile kubhidliza ubuhlobo, kwenza abesifazane besondelene, siza thina. Lokhu kuvame ukushiwo ukuziphatha kwamadoda ngokwabo. Bakhetha amantombazane amancane, bahlale bekhuluma ngakho. Nge-hudyshkami ngokuvamile bajwayele, banabalandeli abaningi, kulula ukushada. Ngokuvamile sizwa imishwana abantu abayisho kwabakhethiweyo babo: "Nina nidle," "Yidla kancane," "Uzothola amafutha, futhi ngizoyeka ukukuthanda." Konke lokhu okucatshangelwayo kubangela ukulandelana, kodwa ukugcwala kwalowo wesifazane ukuphazamisa umuntu olele embhedeni?
Kubalulekile ukubheka eduze futhi konke kuzokwenzeka. Uma indoda, ikhetha intombazane encane, ihlale ihlala "emzimbeni omnyama", kuyo yonke indlela kungenzeka ilawule isisindo sayo, futhi ngokushesha nje lapho ekhula, uyaphela ukumthanda. Isizathu segebe ukugcwala kowesifazane? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kanjani! Isizathu sangempela sihluke ngokuphelele. Lo muntu akazange amthande lo wesifazane, udinga isithombe esihle naye. Yebo, mhlawumbe kuhlonishwa, kuhle emehlweni futhi ngaphambi kokuba abalingani bebhizinisi banezinto zokuziqhayisa ngazo, kodwa lokhu kungukuthi igobolondo langaphandle. Ubudlelwane ngokwabo babungenalutho futhi babanda. Laba bantu babengenanto okumele bayenze kusukela ekuqaleni. Wayefuna kuye kuphela isithombe. Futhi isisindo asinandaba. Futhi kufanele yini ukuthatha icala elinjalo njengesibonelo sokuthi ukugcwala kowesifazane kuvimbe indoda? Ngicabanga ukuthi impendulo isobala.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kunesici sengqondo. Kulula ukuthi owesifazane azibeke icala ngenxa yokuhluleka kwakhe, hhayi yena, kodwa into engabonakali. Kulula kakhulu ukuthola isizathu kuzo zonke izinhluleka zakho futhi ususe konke okusolayo kuwe. Hlaziya, thola phansi futhi ungenzi umzamo. Noma ukulwa nesisindo, hhayi izinkinga zangempela. Yebo, ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi ukulahlekelwa isisindo, owesifazane uhlakulela ubudlelwano namadoda. Kodwa, mhlawumbe, futhi futhi, hhayi ngenxa yesisindo, kodwa ngoba ithola ukuzethemba, ukuthi uyayithanda yona. Kusukela kumuntu onjalo owesifazane kukhona amandla amnandi, uyazi ukuthi uqobo lwakhe, uyazithanda yena nomzimba wakhe, uyazi ukuthi uyamkhangisa wakhe okhethiwe. Liye lishintsha ngokwayo, futhi isizathu siyilo kanye, hhayi ekugcwaleni kwayo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, akuwona wonke amadoda agxile ngobuhle be-skinny. Konke kuncike ekuthandweni komuntu siqu. Khumbula imidwebo ye-Kustodiev nobuhle bakhe? Kodwa babethandwa futhi bahlonishwa. Noma u-Marilyn Monroe, usekude ne-90-60-90. Futhi izibonelo eziningi ezinjalo zingashiwo. Njengamanje, kukhona ukuthambekela kokubhubhisa lezi zinkolelo. Izibalo namasayizi wangempela amaningi futhi asakazwa. Njengesibonelo esicacile salokhu - kamuva nje, umncintiswano othi "Miss England" wanconywa intombazane egcwele kakhulu, ubukhulu bayo buhambisana nama-48 ngokusho kwesigaba samaRussia. Umqondo wokuthi ukugcwala kowesifazane kungaphazamisa indoda kuyisitatimende esingasasebenzi, esingaxhasi. Ayinalo ilungelo lokuphila ezweni lanamuhla. Futhi akekho owesifazane weqiniso oyoke abuze lo mbuzo.