Ukulethwa kwezidakamizwa zesifazane

Yeka indlela okumangalisayo ngayo ukuthi owesifazane unamandla okwenza izimangaliso. Ukuzalwa kwengane kuyisimangaliso esingavamile. Ngamanye amazwi, akakwazi ukubizwa kuphela. Ikhono lokukhulelwa ingane, ukubekezela, ukuzala, umsebenzi omkhulu. Izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye, lesi sikhathi esiningi lapho owesifazane nengane balungiselela khona isikhathi esibucayi kakhulu - ukuzalwa. Mhlawumbe, kwakungeyona ingozi ukuthi kwabesifazane nabantwana abanjalo, isikhathi eside kangaka sabelwe. Ngempela, isici esinzima kunazo zonke, ingqondo. Ukulungiselela ukuziphatha kuhle kakhulu. Wonke owesifazane kufanele aqaphele ukuthi uzoba ngumama, ukuthi ngokufika kwengane, impilo izoshintsha kakhulu. Ukwenqaba indlela yokuphila yokuphila kufanele kwenzeke ngokuqaphela.
Abaningi besifazane bazizwa bekhathele ekupheleni kokukhulelwa, futhi bavame ukubeletha ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Bazilungiselele ngokwengqondo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kusukela ezinyangeni eziyisikhombisa kukhona ithuba lokuthola kancane ingane izinto, amathoyizi. Isibonakaliso esasiqondiswa amashumi eminyaka, noma amakhulu, nanoma kunjalo, abaningi banamathela ezeluleko zenkolelo-ze. Njengoba nje uthengisa izimpahla zesibhedlela sokubeletha, kokubili umntwana kanye nonina. Zonke izinto zi-pre-packed esikhwameni, ukuze phakathi nezibonakaliso zokuqala zingagijimi ezungeze indlu futhi ziqoqe okudingekayo, kodwa zithathele ngokuthula uphakheji ophekwe ngezinto ezidingekayo bese uya esibhedlela sokubeletha.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ezimpawu zokuqala ezisolisayo (ubunzima emathunjini aphansi, iziphazamiso ezincane nezikhathi ezincane, ubuhlungu engezansi) hhayi ukubambezeleka isikhathi eside esibhedlela sokubeletha. Njengoba akekho owaziyo ukuthi ukusheshisa kungaqala kanjani futhi isikhathi esingakanani. Ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukuba uzifake ngokushesha ngokuhlelekile futhi ulungise.
Esibhedlela sokubeletha, uma ufaka igumbi lokulinda, uzobe uqhuba izinqubo ezidingekayo bese ufakwa ngaphambi kokubeletha, uma kungekho izinkinga. Amanzi, njengezimpi, nawo umzuzu ngamunye. Ekuqaleni, ukuphikisana akusizi ubuhlungu obukhulu, kepha ngokunciphisa imvamisa yokuphindaphinda, ukunyuka kwemizwelo ebuhlungu. Kodwa ungesabi, futhi ulalele izindaba zezintombi zakho. Njengoba izinkomba zomzimba nobuhlungu bomuntu ngamunye zihlukile. Ngomunye umuntu, ubuhlungu obunzima obungenakubekezela, kanti omunye umuntu angakwazi ukukhuthazelela okuningi. Ngaleso sikhathi, into elula kakhulu ukuziphazamisa ekuzweleni, futhi ucabange ngalokho okuzokwenzeka ngehora noma ezimbili. Imicabango yokuhlangana nebhola encane, owazi kahle kakhulu, kodwa engakaboni, iyofudumala umphefumulo wakho. Futhi isikhathi sizodlula ngokushesha.

Inkathi enzima kunazo zonke, lapho abasebenzi beqala ukusebenza. Ukuqaphela njalo udokotela ngeke kukuvumele ukuba uphelelwe kulo mzuzu, futhi uzodluliselwa ekamelweni lokulethwa. Futhi-ke kuzoqala umsebenzi onzima. Ukukhathazeka ngobuhlungu akuvumeli ukugxila, umzimba ukhathele futhi ngifuna ukulala, kodwa isifiso esikhulu sokuthi lokhu kwenzeke maduzane sizophoqa ukuqoqa nokulalela imiyalelo kadokotela. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba izidakamizwa ziqapha isimo somama futhi ziyazi ukuthi zizophi, nalapho zizophumula khona.

Yebo, ubuhlungu nokuhlupheka sekuphelile. Ukukhathala kuphela kwasala. Kodwa ngokushesha nje uma unamathisela omncane, obomvu, obomvu nendoda encane esifubeni sakho. Konke kudlulela ngemuva. Kuhlala nje umqondo wenjabulo nokuqhosha ukuthi ngumntanakho, ukuqhubeka kwakho, injabulo yakho. Futhi ayikho into enhle kakhulu kunamehlo abheka ngalesi sihenqo kuleli zwe elingavamile ngokukhathazeka, impumulo ye-snub ebukeka kakhulu njengobaba. Amapenki aphikisiwe abambelele eminwe kamama. Kuningi okumele kufundwe futhi kufinyeleleke, kodwa akunandaba uma kukhona inqwaba yenjabulo epha amandla nesifiso sokuphila. Futhi akekho kulowo wonke umhlaba othanda kakhulu kunomntwana owazalwa ngaphansi kwenhliziyo.