Umcimbi onzima kakhulu, obizwa ngokuthi umshado, uhlale uthembisa ukukhanya nokugcwele. Ngokomunye wemikhuba yaseYurophu kukhona umcimbi owodwa owodwa - "isidlo sangaphambi komshado", esasilokhu sibhekwa ngabashadikazi basekhaya nasemakhayeni. Isidlo somshado ngumhlangano phakathi komakoti nomkhwenyana, abazali babo, izihlobo nabangane abasondelene nabo, ukuze bazane ngaphambi komcimbi ozayo ozayo, emva kwalokho imindeni emibili ehlukile komunye nomunye iyoba isondelene futhi ithandekayo komunye nomunye kumngani. Yini okudingeka ukwazi uma unquma ukusizakala ngalesi siko somshado omusha?
- Okokuqala, isikhathi kanye nendawo yendlovu. Lo mcimbi awufanelekile, ngakho akudingekile ukuwusebenzisa esitolo sokudlela. Ungakwazi ukuhlela ipikinikini, ukuphuma ngaphandle kwedolobha noma ibheji ku-cottage. Isidlo sakusihlwa sangaphambi komshado sihlela izinsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi komshado, ngoba kusasa, kuzoba nezinkinga eziningi ngaphambi kweholide enkulu.
- Ubani okufanele ahlele le dinner? Leli holide ingahle lihlelwe ngabazali bomakoti nomkhwenyana, izihlobo noma ngisho nabangane. Konke kuncike kumbuthano wabantu abamenyiwe kulo mcimbi, noma iholidi lezihlobo nabangane abasondelene nabo, noma iholidi kuphela ngezihlobo, ukuze bazane.
- Yini ongayenza izivakashi ngaphambi kokudliwa komshado? Lokhu kungenye yezindaba ezibaluleke kakhulu. Njengoba lo mcimbi uhloswe ukuvumelanisa, khona-ke ungacabanga nganoma yini, noma yini. Isibonelo, abangani noma izihlobo zingahle zihlele ukunikezwa kwezithombe ngosizo lwezlayidi zabashadile abasanda kushada, bonisa izithombe zabo ezihlangene. Intsha ingatshela indaba yabangane bayo, ivume uthando lwabo, izinike izithembiso zabo ezibhalwa omunye nomunye. Ungabona futhi usizo lwabazali ekuhleleni lomshado futhi ubaphe izipho ezincane. Ungakwazi ukuhlela imincintiswano - ngubani owazi kahle umakoti nomkhwenyana. Futhi ungakhuluma nabantu abaseduze, xoxani ngokuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukene kwemibhangqwana (mhlawumbe iphumelele). Kunoma ikuphi, kungcono ukuthi abahleli bale dinner bavumelane ngemininingwane yakhe nawe, ukuze bangabanjwa.
Isibonelo, kwamanye amazwe aseNtshonalanga, isidlo sangaphambi komshado sithiwa ukuvuselelwa okuphelele komkhosi womshado, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nelilanga elilandelayo.
Manje sizoxoxa ngamasiko omshado namasiko ngosuku oluhle kakhulu.
- Ukukhishwa komlobokazi womshado mhlawumbe omunye wemikhuba emihle kakhulu futhi embala yomshado. Umakoti unikeza ithuba lenye yezintombi zakhe ezingashadile ukushada ngonyaka ofanayo. Abanye abashadikazi baphonsa isixha ngemuva komshado, abanye bakuthanda ukukwenza ngesikhathi sedili, kanti abanye basesitokisini somcimbi.
- I-Garter yomlobokazi - lesi siko sibonakele maduzane, esithandwa kakhulu emishadweni. Lapha konke kwenzeke njengesixhaso, kodwa kulokhu, i-garter isusiwe ngumkhwenyana futhi iyiphonsa kubangane bakhe abangashadile abazobamba, uzoshada kulo nyaka.
- Ikhaya - le mikhuba yomshado ibhekwa njengesiRashiya yakudala, ngoba indawo yokulala yayivuliwe ezikhathini zasendulo. Namuhla, indawo yokulala igcwele amama omakoti nomkhwenyana, ngaleyo ndlela badlulisela amasiko, ukuvumelana kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwemikhaya yabo kwabasha. Eqinisweni, lokhu kwenziwa ngokukhanyisa amakhandlela.
- Umdanso wokuqala womshado, ekuboneni kuqala, awunjalo nhlobo njengesiko, kubonakala sengathi lokhu kungukubonakaliswa kwezambatho zokugqoka kanye namakhono okudansa. Eqinisweni, emdansweni wokuqala wabashadayo, ubudlelwane babo bobuhlobo, ukuvumelana nokuzizwa komzimba kubonakala.
- Ingubo yomshado, noma kunalokho umbala wayo omhlophe, uyisiko esihle esidala. Phela, umbala omhlophe, njengoba uyazi, umbala wokuhlanzeka, ukuvumelana, ukungabi namacala. Muva nje, omakoti banamuhla bahlaziya amasiko asungulwe futhi benza izinguquko ezithile kulo masiko, bakhetha imibala ehlukene, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho "engezona emshadweni": kusuka kumbala ophuzi, ukhilimu, lwendlovu (imibala ejwayelekile yemidwebo yomshado) obomvu noma omnyama (okungokwemvelo engaphansi, kodwa unendawo okufanele abe nayo).
Futhi khumbula, lolu suku kufanele lube yilokho okungeke lulibaleke empilweni yakho futhi kungcono kuwe ukuthi unqume ukuthi yimaphi amasiko namasiko azoba emshadweni wakho, ngakho-ke lolu suku lugcwaliswe wena kuphela ngemizwelo emihle futhi ecacile.