Mhlawumbe, izinkathazo ezinjalo zingenakugwemeka, kodwa amaqembu amakhulu ayenzeka ngamaholidi angathinti kancane phezu kwesifo ngaphakathi kwendlu kunhlangano yethu yabesifazane kanye nomnotho. Izeluleko ezimbalwa zokuhleleka endlini, kaningi noma nsuku zonke, ukuhlanza okujwayelekile okwenziwe injabulo akukhiphi, uma kungakalungi uhlelo lokusebenza, lapho konke okudwetshiwe khona emashalofini. Siphakamisa ukuthi ukhumbule amathiphu alula azokusiza ukuhlela umsebenzi wakho nxazonke zendlu. Ngisho nokuhlanza okubonakala sengathi kuncane kulelo gumbi kufanele kuqale ngenhlangano bese kudwetshwa uhlelo lokuhlanza, lapho konke kuhamba khona ngesinyathelo ngesinyathelo.
Ukuhlanza kufanele kuqale ekamelweni elilodwa, kuyilapho ungaqapheli ukunakwa kwakho kwamanye amakamelo, bese uqhubeka uhlanza emakamelweni asele. Ikakhulukazi uma kunokuhlanzwa okuvamile noma ukuthutha, le ndlela ikuvumela ukuba ulethe indawo yakho ngendlela efanele. Thola ikhonteli ekhethekile efulethini bese ubeka izinto ezingekho endaweni. Lena yindlela enhle yokuthola indawo efulethini ngayinye into, yiba ithoyizi lomntanakho oyintandokazi, noma incwadi.
Ungalahli izinto ngaphandle kokuzisola.
Ungayichitha isikhathi sakho ezintweni ongazange uzisebenzise isikhathi eside. Thumela i-waste yamanzi kudoti, nikeza abantu abajwayelene nabo ifayela elidala lomagazini. Futhi zama ukungalahla amathoyizi nezingubo ezindala, ungabanika labo abadinga usizo noma izintandane.
Thola isikhala samahhala sezinto ongazisebenzisi.
Mhlawumbe, endlini ngayinye ingatholakala i-mezzanine, ihlobisa, ibhokisi elingenalutho noma i-eydijithali engenalutho. Zisebenzise ngokuphepha ukugcina lezozinto ongazisebenzisi, ongazisebenzisi okungaphezu kabili ngenyanga. Gcwalisa lezi zinto ngokuvumelana nokuphindaphindiwe kokusetshenziswa futhi njengoba zifanelekile.
Fundisa izingane oda ngaphakathi komdlalo.
Igama elithi "ithoyizi" liguqulelwe igama elithi "oda". Isibonelo, lapho izingane zikhohlwa ukuthi udinga ukufaka ijazi ekamelweni eliphansi, cabanga nge-hook-hangers ezithakazelisayo zekhabethe lomntwana, okuzokwenza ingane yakho iqaphele ezithombeni zakho. I-hook nge indlovu noma unogwaja cishe akunakushiya ingane engenandaba futhi ngeke ibe nesithakazelo kuye. Chaza ngesimo esingenakuphikisana nengane yakho ukuthi unike ibhakede elihle lamaphepha kanye nebhokisi elinamakamelo amathathu, enhle futhi ekhanyayo, kuphela ukusetshenziswa. Kufanele abe nomthwalo wokuhlanzeka nokuhleleka futhi abe ngumnikazi wayo. Mhlawumbe, kanye nomntwana wenza ezinye izinto zobuciko, amathoyizi, udale ubuciko futhi emva kwakho konke okuvela kulo msebenzi kungenzeka ukuthola inzuzo kabili. Yakha futhi udale "izwe le-oda" yengane yakho.
Konke kunendawo yayo.
Beka konke endaweni yayo. Uma usheshe, lapho uzogijima esibukweni uye kwamanye amakamelo, ungakhohlwa ukubeka ikhamera endaweni yakho, ukuze kamuva ungadingeki uyibheke. Uma ulandela isimiso esithi "yonke into yindawo yakho," ngaleyo ndlela ungagcina isikhathi sokuhlanza, akudingeki uchithe isikhathi ukufuna into engekho.
Kubalulekile ukusabalalisa imisebenzi yasekhaya.
Buza umndeni wakho ukuthi uthathe ezinye izindaba zomndeni ezandleni zabo. Uma unikeza umsebenzi omncane kubantwana nomyeni wakhe, hlambulula udoti bese uphuma udoti, khona-ke lokhu kuzoba usizo olukhulu kuwe. Uma ubeka izinto ngendlela efanele, vumela wonke umndeni uhlanganyele, ngoba lapho induduzo idalwe yibo bonke abantu, yenza kube lula kakhulu. Ungakhohlwa ukudumisa abasizi bokuhlanza.
Ukuhlanza okuphakathi.
Awudingi ukuhlehlisa yonke ibhizinisi ngosuku olulodwa, usakaze zonke izindaba zebhizinisi ngokubaluleka, ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esingakanani kubo. Uma amanye amacala angalinda ngesonto, into efana nokuhlanza uthuli kusuka efenitheni, yenze kanye njalo emva kwezinsuku ezintathu. Ngakho-ke, unganciphisa kakhulu isikhathi esinikezwe ukuhlanzwa ngokujwayelekile futhi ngeke kube yinto enamandla kakhulu. Uma ulandela lo mthetho, uzokwazi ukubona umsebenzi ofanelwe ukunakwa nsuku zonke. Kuyoba ngcono uma uhlela ukuhlanza kwakho isonto.
Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuletha umyalelo endlini izoba ukuvimbela lokhu kudla. Futhi noma yikuphi umsebenzi wesikole, akumelwe sikhohlwe ukuthi konke lokhu kwenziwa ukufudumala komndeni nomoya. Kungenzeka ukuthi lokhu kuhlanza kubhekene nento engalungile, uma sekuvele ihora ngemva kwalo, ungajabulela ukubuka izinhlelo zethelevishini ngenkampani yomkhaya ojabulayo. Yebo, futhi lokhu kuyoba umvuzo omuhle weseluleko. Ukwazi lawa ambalwa amathiphu wokuhleleka endlini, ungakha ukuhleleka, ukuhlanzeka nokududuzeka ekhaya lakho. Sifisela wena ukuhlanzeka nokuhleleka endlini, nokuthi ekhaya lakho kwakuyi-induduzo nokuthula kwengqondo.