Umsebenzi wethu ukutshela ngalokho abalandeli abakhulu nabaphikisi bemibono ethile baphikisana nesimo, futhi bakhuthaze ukuba ucabange ngakho futhi, mhlawumbe, ushintshe ingqondo yakho noma uyeke ukubekwa eceleni. Siza iseluleko esihle kubazali: impilo yengane isesandleni sakho, futhi kuyiqiniso.
Izindwangu
Ukugqokisa izingane emasongweni okuboshwa - eRussia kwaqala cishe nje, eminyakeni engaba ngu-8 edlule. Kodwa ngalesi sikhathi esifushane ama-slings ayebabili abalandeli nabaphikisi.
Lokho abasekeli bathi!
Umzimba wengane ekukhoneni okulungile uphindaphindiwe endaweni yemvelo "ezandleni zomama." Umama kulula ukuhlala esikhathini "sokubhala" sokuthuthukiswa kwengane. Umama uzizwa kangcono umntwana uma esesitokisini. Esikhathini sling, ungakwazi ukuncelisa ingane ngaphandle kokuheha bonke abantu. Ucwaningo lwe-Western luqinisekisa ukuthi: ukugqoka ingane esihlalweni slingene kunethonya elihle ekuthuthukiseni kwengqondo kwengane. Ngokungafani namanye amadivaysi okugqoka umntwana, ukuthungwa akulula kakhulu ukusebenzisa - akunakwenzeka ukuyibopha kusukela okokuqala, lona kufanele afunde. Izicubu ezinzima kakhulu zingaphazamisa ukutholakala komoya okuvamile, futhi ingane ingase ingabi ne-oxygen. Ingane encane, lapho igqoke isikebhe, iphoqeleka ukuthi ihlale ingenamakhelo kunina futhi ingaboni izwe elikuzungezile.
I-Diapers
Ezweni lakithi, umlando wabathayi abalahlayo, ngokungafani nama-sligs, kuye kwaphela amashumi eminyaka, kepha impikiswano mayelana nokulimala kwabo kanye nokuzuzwa kwayo ayisohlisi.
Yini abasekeli abashoyo?
Umama akudingeki asebenzise sonke isikhathi samahhala ekuhlanjeni nasezintweni zokugcoba. Ungakwazi ukuhamba kahle nomntwana amahora amaningana. Zonke "izinkumbulo ezinganeni" zihlala ngaphakathi kwe-diaper, hhayi phansi kanye ne-sofa noma umama wengane. Ingane ayiphazamisi emidlalweni esebenzayo. Ukusetshenziswa kwama-diapers kungaholela ekugqibeni kwe-diaper kanye ne-diaper dermatitis, ngoba isikhumba somntwana asiphefumuli. I-diaper ingabangela ukushisa, ikakhulukazi kuyingozi kubafana. Ngokusetshenziswa kwama-diapers njalo, ingozi yokuthuthukisa ukutheleleka okuhlukahlukene kwamagciwane emantombazaneni yanda.
4 izinganekwane mayelana nokunakekela izingane
Izingane ezincane zidinga ukuhlanzeka nokuhlunga. Yingakho sichitha ukuhlanza okumanzi nsuku zonke, futhi sigeza amathoyizi wezingane kanye ngesonto. Yiqiniso, akufanele uvumele izimo zokungasebenzi. Kodwa ungadluleli: ingane idinga ukuhlakulela umkhuhlane othulini, ukungcola kanye nama-bacteria, futhi lokhu kumele kube khona endlini. Ama-diapers angabangela ukungabi nabantwana kubafana kanye nokuhlanganiswa kwama-labia amancane (ama-synechiae) emantombazaneni. Abafana abangaphansi kweminyaka engu-7-8 abanalo i-spermatogenesis, futhi cishe akunakwenzeka ukuthonya umsebenzi wezocansi. Isi-Synechia emantombazaneni sakhiwe ekugqibeleni ngokweqile kwe-mucosa ye-labi minora ngemuva kokuntuleka kwama-hormone e-estrogen. Ngokwezibalo, i-synechia iguliswa ngokugcwele emantombazaneni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi baqhubeka begqoka izinwele noma cha. Unina ongumhlengikazi akufanele, kukhona u-anyanisi nogalikhi, uma kungenjalo ingane izoyeka isifuba. Ukuzilolonga kusho okuphambene nalokhu: izingane eziningi ziqala ukudla ngisho nesifiso esiningi. Uma ingane ihlungwa ngonyaka, izinwele zakhe ziyoqina. Ngonyaka owodwa ubudala, izinwele zezinwele ziqala ukushintshwa izinwele ezigcwele. Ukukhanda izinwele kudala ukungaqondi kahle: kubonakala sengathi izinwele ezikhulayo ziba zikhulu, kodwa empeleni isakhiwo sabo sishintsha. Ingane ejwayele ukugqoka ama-diapers, kunzima kakhulu ukujwayela ibhodlela. Ama-diapers abiza imali eningi.
Ukubeletha emva konyaka
Lesi sihloko ngokujwayelekile sihlale sisinxusa kakhulu kwi-Inthanethi, futhi empilweni yangempela. Futhi uma wonke umuntu evuma ukuthi ukuncelisa unyaka kuyasiza futhi kuyadingeka kwengane, khona-ke umbuzo wezinzuzo zokuncelisa isikhathi eside uvusa ingxabano evuthayo.
Yini abasekeli abashoyo?
Ngemuva konyaka nangobisi lomama, izakhi kanye namavithamini zigcinwa, kusenza kube nokwakhiwa kwegciwane lesandulela ngculazi eliqinile. Ukuqeda kakhulu kunomkhuhlane wengqondo yengane. Kumelwe silinde kuze kube yilapho ingane ngokwayo ingasadingeki isifuba. Ukubeletha kuyindlela engokwemvelo yokwehlisa ingane. Uma ingane isencane kakhulu ekunceliseni ibele, kunzima kakhulu ukuba umama aphume ukusebenza noma ahambe eholidini nomyeni wakhe, eshiya umntwana ekunakekelwa kukagogo. Ukuncelisa ibele isikhathi eside akusithinti kakhulu umzimba wesifazane, ngaphezu kwalokho, omama abahlengikazi kunzima kakhulu ukuqapha isibalo sabo futhi kunzima kakhulu ukubuyela kwisisindo sangaphambilini. Umama, ukuncelisa ingane yakhe iminyaka engama-2-3, kubonakala kungcolile. Ukukhula, izingane ziqala ukusebenzisa ukuncelisa ukuncelisa okunye ukuxhaphaza kwengqondo nokuncane - ukuze ukwanelise indlala. Kuze kube manje, akuzange kufundwe ukuthi ukubeletha isikhathi eside kuthinta kanjani ukuthuthukiswa kwengokwengqondo kanye nemicabango yocansi yengane yesikhathi esizayo. Ukuncelisa isikhathi eside kungavimbela ingane ukuba ingakhuli, izwe njengomuntu ohlukile futhi ikwazi ukuzimela. Izingane, omama abancelisa ibele nangemva konyaka, ngokuvamile zikhula zingenasisekelo futhi zingenabantwana. Ukulala okuhlangene kuwusizo futhi akunandaba neze. Ngempela! Ngokwezibalo zengqondo, ukulala okuhlangene kwenza ingane ikwazi ukuvikeleka, ikhuthaza osondelene nomama nengane futhi, ngokugcwele, ithinta ngokuphepha umkhathi endlini. Khumbula: "thumela" ingane ayinakwenzeka - i-kid izokutshela ukuthi ukuhamba kwakho kuyimvimbela ekuphefumuleni ngokukhululekile.
Qala ukuthuthukiswa kwengane ngokushesha
Izinganekwane! Sonke sasizwa ngezindlela zentuthuko zanamuhla, ezakhiwe ngesimiso esithi "ulwazi oluthe xaxa ingane ithola, inhlakanipho iyoba khona." Kodwa, ngokubeka ingane yaseMozart esikhundleni sezingoma zezingane, ubungozi bokungqongqoza ingane kuphela ukuba ulale, kodwa futhi ungadluliseli ngokungazi lutho emanzini. Kungcono ukukhuthaza izithakazelo zomntwana.