Futhi ngithanda ukushada
Sihlelwe kanje: konke okuvinjelwe futhi okungenakufinyeleleka, kusenza sibe nesithakazelo esikhulu kunalokho okutholakala futhi kuvunyelwe. Sithandwa ukuba singene ku-keyhole hhayi ngomqondo wangempela kuphela, kodwa futhi nangokomfanekiso. Ukufunda umshini ophuzi, ukuhlanza izingubo zobungcweti bezintombi, ngokuthile okufana nokufunda i-esemesoks yesoka - ngandlela-thile ihlazisa ukuyifunda yonke, kodwa-ke, ukwesaba kuyathandekayo! Futhi engaphansi kukaMel Gibson ode kakhulu, umyeni othanda ukwazi u-Olya - Vasily. Ukhuluma ngaye okuningi! Akafani no-Nikolai wakho oyisithakazelo! Ngaki izikhathi ozibonisile ukuthi ulambile okuhlangenwe nakho okusha, futhi ngokuphindaphindiwe uyakondla ngezithembiso zokwenza okuthile okuthakazelisayo kunokuba ubukele umbukiso mayelana noDkt House. Enye into eyenziwa nguVasya ... Inika umkakho izipho, izimangalisa, okuhle kwezocansi (kulokhu uqinisekiswe ngesisekelo sezindaba eziqukethe u-Oliny), futhi ngokuvamile uyifake ezandleni zakho! "Kuthiwani uma?" Cha, lokho kukhulu kakhulu, "- ucabanga, kodwa wena ukumomeza ngasese, ukumomotheka, uzicabange eceleni kweBasil engacabangi ...
Ake sibheke izinhlobonhlobo zezitatimende mayelana nokwesaba uthando lomuntu oshadile. Sivame ukucabangela umuntu womunye umuntu ngenxa yokungabi nandaba nomuntu siqu. Uthando olunjalo luyashesha ngokushesha, ngokushesha nje lapho abalandeli abasha bevela khona, ngoba ukunakekelwa kwakho-okudinga "I" kudinga ukuvuselelwa njalo ngamandla okubonga. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuncane kakhulu futhi bambalwa kakhulu abanesibindi sokuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala ngokumelene nezinqatshelwe. Abanesibindi kakhulu, njengombuso, banqatshelwe ngaso leso sikhathi abantu ababili abaseduze - intombi yeqiniso kanye nesoka.
Kunabesifazane abathi, kanye nomqondo wothando, bajwayele ukuzwa imizwa yecala, amahloni, intukuthelo, intukuthelo, ukudumazeka. Bengazi ngokukhetha amadoda "angavunyelwe" noma "kunzima" ukuthanda, ngaleyo ndlela bahlupha ngokwabo. Owesifazane onjalo ngisho nokucabanga nge "isithelo esinqatshelwe" kunelungelo lokuthola imizwa emibi nokuzwa injabulo yokuzijabulisa. Kubuye kubalulekile ukucabangela into yokuphepha okungamanga. Ukukholelwa ukuthi kuphephile ngezihlobo, esiseduze, amadoda asevele ejwayele, aphikisana nobuhlobo nawo.
Futhi ngempela, ngengozi yamahhala ngaphezulu futhi ngothando. Ngakanani amandla adingekayo ukuze athole, adume, bese ubamba into yothando! Futhi lapha: thatha it - angifuni! Nokho, lesi simo sinomunye uhlangothi lwemali. Ubudlelwano namadoda abenqatshelwe bethandwa ithuba lokuba "ngokushesha phansi kwebhizinisi. Uma ngokuzumayo ukwesaba ukuvulwa kwemizwa futhi ungabi nesibindi sokwakha ubudlelwane obala, ungahlala ubalekela, uchaze lokhu kumuntu futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ithebhu ekhona.
Nansi yezindlela zabo ezikhuluma ngokuhlakanipha mayelana nokwesaba uthando. Shintshela kwenye into. Kungaba njengomakhelwane omuhle noma osebenza naye emsebenzini, nabangani abadala ongabonanga isikhathi eside. Zama ukunciphisa ubuhlobo nento yothando olungavunyelwe ukuba okungenani. Umuntu ohlakaniphile uqobo uzoqonda konke, futhi angeke akucasule, anikeze ukunakwa ngokweqile.
Phendula umbuzo: kungani udinga lokhu? Konke lokho: Ukwesaba nokwetyala kusenza sihambe ekuhlolweni okunjalo - ngenxa yenjabulo noma imizwa emisha. Kodwa imizwelo iphila isikhathi esifushane, kodwa kuzodingeka uzuze umvuzo wabo isikhathi eside: ukuguqulwa (nokuguqulwa) kobudlelwane obusondelene nobuhlobo, ukuzwa njalo kokungabi nalutho nokungaqondi - kushiwo ngobumnene!
Bheka okujulile
Kulula ukuhlaziya isimo ngothando. Ucabanga ukuthi uphelele? Kungase kuvele ukuthi ngemuva kokukhangisa kwangaphandle nokuzwelana kwakho kuwe ulele inkinga yezinkinga zomndeni ezingaxazululwa. Ufuna ukuba ngumkhiqizo womuntu? Futhi ikakhulukazi qaphela iqiniso ukuthi ngokuvamile sivele siphutha ukuzwelana okulula ngothando. Ziqonde ngokwakho!