Kuyini ukuqina?
Izingqinamba ezinokuqala kwe-detente zivame ukudideka ngogubhu lweqiniso, kanti ubumnandi obunzima obubhekene nobulili abuvamile. Ngokuvamile lokhu kuhambisane nokuphikisana nobulili, ukungabi nenjabulo nanoma yisiphi isithakazelo, ukunganakwa ngisho nangaphambili kokuhlangenwe nakho okuningi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunomsoco wesikhashana, ophethwe ngempumelelo.
Owesifazane ojabulela injabulo, kodwa hhayi i-orgasm, akakwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi i-frigid. Njengoba kungenakwenzeka ukubhekwa njengama-orgasms angavamile. Konke kunesizathu saso, ngezinye izikhathi kuxhomeke esimweni sengqondo, ngezinye izikhathi kumlingani, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ekuhlosweni kwezakhi zofuzo.
Ukuze ukwazi ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nale nkinga, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi yini okuvimbela wena ukuba uphile impilo egcwele ngokocansi.
Izimbangela zokuqina.
Isizathu sokuqala nokuthi cishe kungani ama-orgasms angaqhubeka enganaki impilo. Kuzocansi kanye nokukhangwa kuthinteka yizifo eziningi zegazi, ukwehluleka kwesizinda se-hormonal, ukucindezeleka, i-beriberi nokudla kwemithi ethile. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuthi uzwise i-alamu bese uqala ukuxazulula inkinga ngokwakho, udinga ukubona udokotela futhi ungafaki zonke izimbangela zokubanda ebhedeni, okungahlanganiswa nempilo.
Isizathu sesibili sinengqondo. Ukuntuleka kwama-orgasms kwabesifazane kungathinteka ekukhulisweni okunzima ebuntwaneni. Kweminye imindeni, zonke izindaba eziphathelene nobulili zivinjelwe, futhi ubulili abukhulumisane noma buxoxwe njengokungcolile nokuhlambalaza. Omama abaningi babesaba amadodakazi ngokukhipha izisu, izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi kanye nezinhlungu zasendle ngesikhathi socansi ukuvimbela ukulala ngokocansi ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Le ndlela yokufundisa ngezocansi ivame ukuholela eqinisweni lokuthi amantombazane akhule, aphenduke abe besifazane, kodwa alale embhedeni nomuntu, njengalokhu ekulweni, lapho ingozi ivela khona.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungaphuzi izici zengqondo. Abesifazane banomzwelo kakhulu futhi ukuze baphumule, abaningi badinga inombolo engapheli yezimo. Kuthembela kumlingani, isifiso esinamandla, umzuzu ofanelekayo nomoya, isimo sengqondo nenhlalakahle. Ngezinye izikhathi izinto ezinjalo zingase zibe mkhulu kakhulu ukuze zivumelane ngesikhathi esifanele, ngezinye izikhathi abesifazane ngokwabo bacabanga ngezimo lapho kungaba khona i-orgasm ephelele. Akumangalisi ukuthi akukwenzekanga - uma uzipha ithuba elilodwa kwisigidi, khona-ke ngeke kube khona.
Isizathu sesithathu singabizwa ngokuthi ukungalingani kwabalingani. Ungakwazi ukuthandana, ungaba nobuhlobo obuhle, kepha impilo yobulili ingashiya okuningi. Kodwa le nkinga ixazululwa kalula. Kudingekile kuphela ukuba ukhululiwe, ukuzivumela ukuthi ucindezeleke okusha, ubangele, ukuvumela okuthile okusha ekuphileni kwakho, ukuthi konke kungashintsha ngokuphawulekayo. Uma ungaqiniseki ngamakhono akho nokuthi wenza konke okulungile, kufanelekile ukuphendukela ku-sexologist.
Indlela yokuphatha?
Uma ukucwenga akuyona isifo udokotela esiqinisekisile, kodwa kuphela ubunzima besikhashana, ungakwazi ukuxazulula le nkinga ngokwakho.
Ezocansini, okuningi kuxhomeke kumlingani wakho, ngakho-ke ungathembeki kumuntu ongakuthandi noma engathandi ngawo ngesizathu esithile. Ngomuntu oseduze ukufeza injabulo oyifunayo kulula kakhulu.
Ungathuli ngezinkinga zakho, khuluma ngazo. Akukho lutho olwesabekayo ngenxa yokuthi awuyikukhathazeka ngothando, njengamantombazane kumafilimu angcolile. Ngisho namadoda abe namahloni, futhi lokhu akusho ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokubeka isiphambano ekuphileni kocansi. Khumbula ukuthi ubulili obungavamile kanye noshintsho oluvamile lwabalingani akuyona indlela engcono kakhulu ekufuneni injabulo. Ngisho nalabo besifazane abavame ukubhekana nobunzima bokuthola injabulo kwezocansi, abakwazi ukuphumula ngokuphelele nomlingani omusha.
Unganqikazi ukuxhuma amafantasy, ngoba ubulili seluvinjelwe isikhathi eside futhi akukho lutho olungaba yinto emnandi lapho kwenzeka ukuthi kujabulise. Thola ukuthi yini oyithandayo, ungasiza ngocwaningo kuphela.
Zama ngemva kokuzama, kepha ungagxili ekugcineni, kodwa ngemizwa yakho, kulokho othanda ngempela. Kufanelekile ukwethembeka wena kanye nomlingani wakho, khona-ke ngeke kube nezinkinga ngokuthola injabulo.
Abesifazane abaningi bazibona bejabula kakhulu, kodwa abazi ukuthi i-orgasm iyini. Abanye bajabulela injabulo yobulili ngaphandle kokukhipha, futhi ungabheki njengenkinga. Mhlawumbe, i-orgasm ngumgomo ofanelekayo, okuyikufanelekile ukusebenza ngawo, futhi, mhlawumbe, ngawe kuyinkolelo nje kuphela, ngaphandle kokuphila okungakahle kakade. Khumbula ukuthi konke kuyedwa ezindabeni eziphathelene nobuhlobo obuseduze, futhi umbhangqwana wakho akudingeki uhambisane nanoma yimaphi amazinga. Ekugcineni, akekho ozofaka uphawu lwekhwalithi embhedeni wakho, ngaphandle kwakho.