Eqinisweni, kulula kakhulu ukwenza ingane ihloniphe wena. Kwanele ukugcina imithetho eminingana, futhi izobonisa ingane yakho igunya langempela.
Abazali kumele babe yisibonelo esihle kakhulu kwengane yabo
Izingane, ikakhulukazi labo abaseminyakeni yobudala, bathambekele ekusebenzeni izenzo ezingaboni kahle. Ngokuvamile abakwazi ukuhlola imiphumela engenzeka yezenzo zabo. Ikakhulukazi isimo singaba sibi nakakhulu uma intsha ingena enkampanini embi, zizikhethela njengesibonelo sokulingisa abalingiswa abakhulu.
Yingakho abazali kufanele bathathe imithwalo yabo emntwaneni kusukela eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila kwakhe ngokungathí sina. Umntwana kufanele aziqhenye ngabazali bakhe. Khona-ke ufuna ukulandela isibonelo sakho esihle bese uqala ukulalela iseluleko sakho.
Kuwo wonke umndeni kufanele kube nesiyalo. Zibuze, izingane zakho ziqondiswa kanjani? Cabanga ukuthi bahlale bekusho ngezinhloso zabo? Yile ndlela okufanele ibe ngayo.
Izingane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zingakujabuli kanjani ekuqaleni, zidinga isimiso esithile, kanye nabantu abadala. Ngokunikeza isikhathi sokukhuliswa kwezingane, abazali badala uhlobo lwesisekelo sohlamvu lwabo.
Isiyalo esifanele yisisekelo sokuthuthukiswa kwengane. Abazali kufanele banikeze isikhathi izingane zabo nsuku zonke, ngaphandle kwalokho bazoyeka ukuzwa uthando lwababelethi, ukuthi losuku lwesimanje luyothinta isiyalo kanye nemfundo ngokujwayelekile.
Funda ukubonisa izingane zakho zithande
Cabanga, ungabonisa uthando lwakho? Ngaki kaningi utshela izingane zakho ukuthi uyabathanda futhi ubonise imizwa yakho? Ngesikhathi esifanayo, uthando aludingi ukuthengwa. Kumele kukhonjiswe ngokuchitha isikhathi nengane bese uyilalela.
Ngeshwa, izwe lanamuhla lukuthi abazali, uma befuna ukuhlinzekela umndeni wabo, banesikhathi esiningi sokusebenzisa emsebenzini, okuyinto evame ukuthinta ubudlelwane babo nezingane. Ngenxa yalokho, abantu abaningi bazama ukuchitha isikhathi esilahlekile ngamathoyizi abizayo nezipho ezinhle. Yiqiniso, kuhle uma ingane ithola into esilindelwe isikhathi eside, futhi kangcono kakhulu ukuthi abazali bayakwazi ukuyikhokhela. Kodwa akumelwe sithathe ithando nokukhathalela kwethu ngezinto ezahlukene.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi awusebenzi, ngokuqinisekile, unayo ngempelasonto. Yenza umthetho: okungenani kanye ngesonto, unike isikhathi ingane. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, akekho owaziwayo okufanele akuphazamise: akukho msebenzi, akukho abangani, ababaziyo, akukho khompyutha.
Izingane zithanda kakhulu ukuchitha isikhathi nabazali babo, ikakhulukazi uma zibonisa uthando, inhlonipho nesithakazelo ezindabeni nasezinkingeni zabo. Qiniseka ukuthi ubuza ukuthi izinto zikhona nengane esikoleni, lokho akwenzayo, lokho okwamanje akujabulela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuzilibazisa kwakho kungabonakali kangakanani, zama ukungena ngaphakathi ngobuqotho.
Uma uthanda izingane zakho, futhi lokhu kuyindlela okufanele ibe ngayo, kufanele uzizwe izidingo zabo nezinkinga futhi uqonde izinto ezizilibazisa.
Ungesabi ukuthi "cha"
Ngokuvamile izingane ziziphatha ngokuzithandela ukuze zizwe kubazali bazo "cha", ngaleyo ndlela ziziphendulele. Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi abazali abangekho ikakhulukazi abanentshisekelo ekufezeni kwezingane, kodwa uma kwenzeka isimo esithile esibi, ngokushesha bayeka yonke ibhizinisi labo. Yingakho intsha iqala ukubhema, ukuphuza, ukuxhumana nezinkampani ezimbi. Benza lokhu kabi kabi kubazali babo, abangabanaki.
Khumbula, uthando luyinto yokuqala okufanele izingane zonke zidinga. Amanani wendaba adingekayo, kodwa asezindaweni yesibili. Ungavumeli izingane zivele ngokubambelela ukuthi ziqaphele isikhathi eside esilindelwe. Nika izingane isikhathi. Qonda izinkinga zabo. Ngalokhu, gxuma izikhwebu nokukhala, futhi nakakhulu ngakho ungazinaki izinkinga zabo. Ngezinye izikhathi kwanele ukuthi "cha" futhi unike ingane amahora ambalwa. Ngikholelwa, uyakwazisa lokhu.
Funda ukunikezana komunye nomunye
Emndenini ocebile akukho ndawo enenkani. Wonke amalungu omndeni kufanele enze ukuvumelana komunye nomunye. Umfazi kufanele azinikele kumyeni wakhe, umyeni kumfazi, abazali kubantwana, futhi ngokufanayo. Emkhayeni lapho wonke umuntu ehloniphana khona futhi evuma, ukuzola kuyobusa, ukwaneliseka nomndeni ujabule.
Yenza ubungane nezingane zakho
Yiqiniso, abazali kufanele baqale babe abazali kubantwana babo, kodwa lokhu akufanele ukuphazamise ubungane bakho nezingane. Uma ufuna izingane zithembele kuwe, kufanele uthathe ingxenye esebenzayo empilweni yazo. Unganaki, ungawenqabe futhi ungadumise izingane zakho! Abazali kufanele babonise izingane zabo inhlonipho. Kule ndlela kuphela kungenzeka ukuthola inhlonipho ngokubuyisela.
Ungalokothi ukhohlise izingane
Izingane zithemba kakhulu, ngakho-ke zibhekana nokucindezeleka okukhulu uma zikhohliswa abantu abaseduze kakhulu. Uma nje ukhohlwe ukugcwalisa isithembiso sakho, kufanelana nokukhohliswa. Ungalokothi unike izingane zezithembiso ezingaqiniseki, futhi ugcine izwi lakho njalo.
Uthando nenhlonipho yezingane kulula kakhulu ukunqoba. Khumbula, izingane ziyakuthanda futhi zihloniphe abazali bazo. Akudingekile ukuthi kungabonakali ukwethemba kwabo ngezenzo ezimbi noma zokukhwabanisa!