Lezi zindabakwane kuphela eziphelile ngombhalo: "Futhi baphila ngokujabula njalo." Ekuphileni, kuvame ukuthi kwenzeka ukuthi izinqumo esizenzayo zingase zingabi zokugcina. Imishado ihlukana - lokhu kuyiqiniso elidabukisayo. Kodwa isahlukaniso akusona isizathu sokuzivala, ngokuphambene nesikhathi sokuvula futhi. Kodwa kudingeka wenze lokhu kancane kancane.
Mthetho owodwa: "Zihawukele"
Abaningi bayothi ukuthi lena yindlela eqondile yokucindezeleka, kodwa ake siyiqonde. Emva kokuhlukanisa, iningi labesifazane bacindezelekile, banentuthuko ecindezelayo, impilo ibonakala ibomvu. Ungakwazi, yiqiniso, ulalele abangane futhi umomotheka kuwo wonke amazinyo angu-32, kodwa ake sibhekane nawo, amakati angeke ayeke kule eshaweni. Ungabambeli intukuthelo ngaphakathi kwakho, uphonsa ngaphandle, ukhale, uphakamise, uphule isevisi endala. Mema umngane omkhulu ukuvakashela futhi uxoxe naye ukuthi imbuzi yakho yangaphambili ingubani.
Lahla izinto zakhe ezisele endlini. Uma bebangela i-vagrusity, abesekudingi nhlobo.
Iphutha eliyinhloko labangani ukuhudula intombazane, ephukile ngokuhlukanisa, "ekukhanyeni." Kusengumncane kakhulu ukuba ujabule. Yebo, yebo, kunjalo. Ngenkathi ungabanjwanga ngokuphelele emithwalweni yakho yangaphakathi, injabulo yakho ejabulisayo iyokwehlisa kuphela ukudabuka. Futhi imizwa yokucindezeleka iyisibhamu sesikhathi. Kulo mzuzwana, udinga ukuzithokozisa, uthi yonke into izoba ngcono, konke kuzosebenza. Futhi ukuqala ukwenza kuphela uma ukholwa.
Imithetho emibili: "Zithande"
Zibuke ngokwakho esibukweni: amehlo akho athukuthekile, ubuso bakho buvuvukale ngezinyembezi. Isikhathi sokuthi ulahlekelwe yilo monster. Udinga ukufakwa kwangaphakathi. Ukudlula esiteji sokudangala kwesiteji "sesinyathelo sokuqala empilweni entsha" kunzima kakhulu. Emva kwakho konke, ngokushesha nje lapho uqala ukuzwela, akulula ukumisa.
Ukwamukelwa lapha kuzosiza kusukela ebuntwaneni. Buyela esibukweni, ulahle konke okuqukethwe kwesikhwama sakho sezithokozi futhi uqhubeke nombala wokulwa. Ungadluli, sebenzisa izimonyo ngokucophelela, ungayinaki iseluleko sezintombi, okungase kuhileleke kule nqubo. Ungakhohlwa ngezinwele, nazo zidinga ukuhleleka. Futhi manje ubuke ngokwakho futhi. Awuyena omuhle yini?
Ukuze uthole impumelelo engcono, sibhala phansi ku-gym, hamba i-napa-izinqubo, i-yoga nezinye izindawo ezizokusiza ukuthi uguqule. Bathi emva kokuphuka, intombazane iba yinhle kakhulu kuneyokuqala. Uma uzoshintsha, kungokwakho kuphela.
Umbuso wesithathu: "Ukuphumula, phomula, phumula!"
Abanye abantu batusa ukuba bangene emsebenzini. Kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu onethuba lokugxila ezintweni, lapho ikhanda ligcwele imibono ehluke ngokuphelele. Kungcono ukuzivumela ukuba ungabonakali ezinkingeni futhi uphumule. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukukhetha indawo yokuphumula kude nendlu yakho. Uma ungahamba phesheya, hamba. Ukuhamba okungenakubalwa, ukuthenga, ukuhlonipha ubuhle bezinye izizwe kuzokushiya ngokuphelele ukukhohlwa ukuthi uhlukanisile.
Kodwa kukhona umthetho owodwa owodwa! Awekho amanoveli! Ubuhlobo obungenangqondo manje manje kunoma yini. Ama-Wedge wedges ayidingi ukukhishwa, ungabheke indawo esikhundleni sakho sangaphambili, akukho okuhle ngeke kube khona. Into esemqoka okudingayo ukuzishayela yona yile: "Angiyedwa, ngikhululekile." Jabulela lo mzwa. Zama ukuthi amaphiko asakazeka kanjani ngemuva kwakho, njengoba isisindo somthwalo wemfanelo ilungu elifanayo lomndeni wakho liwela emahlombe akho. Phila kancane, uzivelele.
Isimiso sesine: "Futhi empini!"
Kodwa manje ungakwazi ukukhuluma ngobuhlobo obusha. Ngokuvamile ngemva kokushada, amantombazane awafuni ukuhlanganisa amanoveli amakhulu. Ukwesaba ukuhamba ngesigqila esifanayo kubangele ubudlelwane obungavamile noma ubudlelwane obukhulu, okuthembela kuphela kwezocansi. Ngeke silahle izindlela ezinjalo zokubuyiselwa. Kukhona olunye uhlobo lwabesifazane abaphikisana nabo kanye nemihlangano, bavala futhi besaba ngisho nokuzama. Kulesi simo, insindiso kufanele ifunwe futhi kubangane.
Yilabo abadinga ukukhipha i-susek bese bakumakhela umfundi ofanelekayo. Akudingeki ukuba ube ngumngane wakho omusha ozayo. Masibe ngumfana omuhle nje. Umgomo wakho awukwakhiwa ubuhlobo obusha bese uyiphonsa embhedeni wakhe. Okokuqala, udinga ukuzizwa ungumuntu wesifazane futhi, khumbula lokho okukhathazwa owesilisa, ukuthini ukudlala ngothando. Wonke amakhono akho asele nawe, kepha awuzange uwasebenzise isikhathi eside.
Uma imihlangano enjalo iqhubekela phambili encwadini entsha entsha, kufanele sibe nelenhlanhla. Kodwa qiniseka ukuthi lokhu kungumuntu nje: indoda yesikhathi esizayo ayiyona indoda engakwazi ukuyenza. Okwamanje, makabe nguye ozoqinisekisa ngokuqinisekile inhliziyo yakho ephukile.
Isigaba sesihlanu: "Qonda futhi uthethelele"
Ngokushesha noma esikhathini esizayo kuyofika isikhathi lapho izinkumbulo zakho zizoyeka ukubangela ubuhlungu. Ngenxa yakhe, inhliziyo yakho ngeke ishaywa, kodwa uma ungena kuso ngengozi esitolo, ngeke ulahlekelwe inkulumo. UViba uyaqhubeka, futhi akudingeki ulwa, zondane bese uzama ukufakazela omunye komunye nomunye.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubani owaqala ikhefu, manje kuphela okudlule okuhlanganisiwe kukubophezela. Akekho oshiwo ukuthi udinga ukuba umngane nemindeni bese uya kubangane bomunye nomunye. Vele uqaphele ukuthi ngesikhathi sokuphumula kwakho kokubili usolwa, omunye umuntu, omunye komncane, ungaphindi la maphutha empilo entsha.