Kodwa-ke, enjabulweni noma enhlekeleleni yethu, kukhona indawo eyodwa engazange ifinyelelwe ithonya elibhubhisa lezitayela zanamuhla: i-psychology. Futhi ucabangani, ngumuphi umbuzo? Ukubukwa ekubunjweni komndeni.
Khumbula amagama agogo nomkhulu wakho: ngesandla esandleni sakho sonke, izingane ezinhlanu. Ngaphambili, umshado wawuhlotshaniswa nokuzalwa ngokushesha kwezingane futhi wakhonza ekuqondeni kwabantu kuphela njengendlela yokunikeza umuntu omusha ukuphila. Abantu abasha namuhla abaphansi kakhulu kulaba bantu abadala. Yiqiniso, bambalwa izingane namuhla, bambalwa abantu ababeletha, kodwa nansi ingane yokuqala ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila ndawonye - kalula! Kodwa-ke, isifiso esinjalo sokwakha umndeni oqinile siba yintathazi kwezinye izimo: imindeni ihlukana, futhi izingane ezilahliwe zihlala.
1.Hochetsya ngokushesha ukugqoka ingubo yomshado ne-tuxedo enhle kakhulu? Uzothola isikhathi, i-REGISTRY OFFICE esikhathini esizayo esiseduze ngeke isuse.
2. Ingabe ufuna ukuhlola ukuthi uzohlala isikhathi esingakanani izipikili ezinyakazayo ocingweni lwe-dacha, ukugeza amasokisi nokuhlanza izitsha? Phila umshado womphakathi futhi uzizwe konke okujabulisayo ukuhlala ndawonye.
3. Ucabanga ukuthi yisikhathi sokuqala izinsana? Ucabanga ukuthi akulukhuni nakakhulu ukubanakekela ngaphezu kwekati elifuywayo, kanti ingane yakho iyohlala ihlala enhle kakhulu njengamapayipi? Awunakwenzeka, siyakeluleka ukuba umelele emafwini.
4. Futhi uma ngesizathu esithile awukwazi ukuba nezingane? Ingabe lesi sizathu sokubulawa? Khumbula imibhangqwana engenamntwana engahlupheki nhlobo ngenxa yalesi simo esibucayi.
Ucabangani, madodakazikazi abathandekayo, ngubani oyicelayo yonke le mibuzo? Umbhali wendaba? Cha, amadoda.
Kungani bebuza le mibuzo? Kunezizathu eziningana zalokhu:
1. Okhethiweyo wakho usemncane futhi akafuni ukuzibophezela ngomshado. Uma usencane futhi unethemba, empeleni, ungasheshi umngane wakho omnandi. Indlela izokhula. Futhi uma usulungele ukugeza amasokisi bese ubeletha ingane? Kuzodingeka ngihole umkhwenyana ehhovisi lika-registrar.
2. Uyi-egoist. Ufuna isikhala somuntu siqu, futhi ekuboneni ensimini yakhe, angase alahlekelwe ngumsindo. Ukuzidla kanye ne-infantilism. Noma mhlawumbe ufuna ukuphuza ubhiya kusihlwa noma, uthi, ukusika izikebhe ezivela esihlahleni, kodwa uyazi ukuthi uyomelana nayo? Ngakho-ke, ukhetha umshado womphakathi. Ufuna ukukubuka.
3. Wayesevele eshadile. "Ukuhamba" kwesibili kuze kube manje, amabutho akwanele. Mhlawumbe umfazi wokuqala wayengesona isipho futhi washaya "ikati" lakho noma yisiphi isithakazelo sokuya ehhovisi lokubhalisa futhi.
4. Akayithandi umthwalo wemfanelo. Ukuphila kwakhe okuyimpilo kuyamxosha ngokuphelele. Futhi umshado womphakathi awufuni lutho, ngoba ayikho idokhumenti eqinisekisa ukuthi "nizothandana futhi nisize ekuhluphekeni nasenjabulweni".
5. Abangane bakhe bahlela ukushada. Ukuhlabelela njalo futhi uqinisekise ukuthi emva kwesitembu epasipoti uzoba ne-henpecked.
Izizathu zokuphila umshado womphakathi wamadoda ziningi ngempela. Kubonakala ngathi umthombo oyinhloko wazo zonke izinkinga ukwesaba. Yesaba ukuthi uzobe esenqatshelwe ubhiya futhi angeke abukele ibhola, esaba ukuthi uzoba ngumuntu okhukhumezekile, esaba ukuthi kuzodingeka athwale umthwalo womndeni wonke.
Madoda, uma unomuntu oyinkimbinkimbi, udinga ukuthola indlela oyedwa kuye futhi umphilise umqondo wokudla "ipasipoti."