Shiya lo muntu isikhala somuntu siqu
Ingxenye yezingonyama phakathi kwemibhangqwana eshadile ivela ngenxa yokulawulwa ngokweqile ngumlingani oyedwa kanye nokunakekelwa okwanele komunye. Njengomthetho, indoda ihlushwa ngokweqile kwabathandekayo bakhe, futhi owesifazane uyakhungatheka uma engatholi yonke imizuzu engxenyeni yakhe. Amantombazane azizwa enganakwa, njengokungabi nothando.
Yena futhi ubona ngokuhlukana ubudlelwane bomndeni. Kungakhathaliseki amandla okuzwa ngawe, indoda ngeke ifune ukwenqaba ukuhlala eduze nabangani bese uya emdlalweni webhola lezinyawo. Abesifazane, ngokuphambene nalokho, bavame ukugijimela ebuhlotsheni nekhanda, bakhohlwe ngabangane nokuzijabulisa, lapho abathandekayo bengabambi khona. Ngenxa yalokhu, kuvela ukuxilongwa okubuhlungu.
Umthetho wokuqala wegolide: ukugwema izinkinga - wehlisa kancane ngokufundisa. Ungagxila kumuntu wakho amahora angama-24 ngosuku, kungcono uthole izenzo zokuzilibazisa ezimbili noma ezintathu ezizothatha isikhathi sakho samahhala. Ngenkathi umyeni wakho ehlezi ebhajini nabangani, uya emidlalweni, uye e-salon, uhlangabezana nezintombi zakho, ubhalisele izifundo zokuvuselela, ukuqeqesha ... Ngakho-ke ungashiyi umuntu amahora amaningana ngosuku lwesikhathi samahhala ngaphandle kwamakholi akho kanye nama-sms, kodwa futhi uzokuthuthukisa ngaphandle nangaphakathi. Ngikholelwa, indoda ayisoze ifuna ukulahlekelwa owesifazane ozinene ozimele.
Ukusekela
Ubudlelwane budinga ukulinganisela nokuzwana, ngakho ungaqhubeki ngokweqile. Sikuqinisekisile ukuthi awudingi ukuphinda uhloniphe indoda yakho? Kuhle kakhulu, kodwa ungakhohlwa ukushayela (hhayi ngokuvamile, ngokwanele kanye ngosuku!) Futhi uzibuze ukuthi wenza kanjani futhi ufuna ukukwenza inkampani, isibonelo, e-gym? Manje - unabangane abalinganayo, ama-half aphelele. Buza mayelana nokunqoba nokuhluleka kwakhe, futhi uma kudingeka, ukusekela. Amadoda ngeke abelane ngokuhluleka kwabo nabangani, yingakho ngezinye izikhathi badinga usizo lwabo othandekayo.
Isimiso sesibili segolide: sondelene nabathandekayo bakho ngesikhathi sokunqoba nokunqoba. Amadoda angeke afune ukulahlekelwa intombazane eyaziqonda futhi ayamukele njengabo.
Hlala ubukeka
Abesifazane abaningi emva komshado bayeke ukukhokha isikhathi esanele sokuzinakekela. Khumbula wena ngesikhathi ofuna ukuheha ukunakekelwa kwakho. Zingaki izingubo ezintsha nama-blouses avele ekhabethe lakho? Ngokuqinisekile cishe nsuku zonke wenza umdwebo wezinwele, ugqoke izithende, uhlinzekela kalula ngenxa yobuhle? Uma usakimi phambi kwesibuko nsuku zonke ngehora, akufanele ukhathazeke, kodwa uma isikhathi ojwayele ukuzinakekela siya ekuhlambuleni, ekunakeni nase "rum abesifazane" - kancane kancane. Hlela kabusha isimiso sakho nsuku zonke. Indoda, eqinisweni, izakwazisa ukunakekelwa, kepha yena, okokuqala, ufuna ukukubona unhle njengangaphambili.
Ukubusa kwegolide kweyesithathu: Yiba nomuthi owenziwe futhi ophelele. Owesifazane omuhle uzoyesaba ukulahlekelwa ngumuntu.
Ungabi nomhawu!
Abesifazane ngezinye izikhathi bahlukunyezwa ngomona, balingisa ukuthi lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sothando. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, indoda ingasongelwa isikhathi eside futhi iphikelela, uma umona kufanele uhlangane naye. Akekho owusizo ukwakha ubuhlobo. Ukunquma ukucasula umfana abe nomhawu, zilungele imiphumela engalindelekile. Amanye amadoda angathukuthela, abanye bazocabanga ukuthi unengqondo, kanti abanye bayothola umhawu ubufakazi bokungazinaki. Kungcono ukungabi namahloni ngomhawu.
Ngokungafani nabesifazane, bonke abantu, ngaphandle kokuhlukile, badelela ukubonakaliswa kothando olunjalo futhi bayathukuthela uma owesifazane othandekayo ephenduka ukuba nomhawu.
Izazi zengqondo zithi ngokuvamile ngokuvamile imbangela yomhawu ingukunganaki. Yingakho owesifazane ezwa ukuthi indoda yakhe iseduze nokuthola umuntu ongcono futhi iqala ukudlala umphenyi.
Isimiso sesine segolide: Gxila kuwe, vakashela izinqubo eziningi zezimonyo, okuzodinga kakhulu ukuze uzizwe unhle kakhulu. Futhi umhawu uzohamba.
Menze azizwe edingekayo
Wonke umuntu ufuna ukukhombisa enye ingxenye engadingekile futhi enhle. Ungadlala ngezinhloso zakhe ezinhle futhi ngezikhathi ezithile ucele izinsizakalo ezincane, hhayi kakhulu, izinsizakalo. Uma umuntu ekwazi kahle kule mboni, mbize ukuthi alungise ukulungiswa kwe-toaster. Uma ubiza umninindlu ekhaya, khona-ke insizwa yakho ingayithatha njengento yokuhlambalaza isithunzi. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuthi kwenzeke noma yini, mtshele ngale nkinga, ake umthandi akhethe ukuthi uzobhekana yini naye noma udinga usizo.
Uma isigamu sakho singenamakhono okwanele okuxazulula le nkinga, ungasho kuye: "uyindoda ..." Insizwa yakho ingaba yinkampani ngesinye isimo, kodwa ungayiqondi enye. Futhi lokhu kuvamile, ngoba sonke singabantu. Khumbula, ukuhlambalaza kwalolu hlobo kwenza umuntu azizwe ebuthakathaka. Ekuphenduleni, ungathola ukuhlaselwa okubuhlungu nakakhulu, ngoba uzothinta u-ego wakhe wesilisa.
Isimiso sesihlanu segolide: qaphela futhi usebenzise amandla omuntu othandekayo, ngokuthula usho ngokubuthakathaka! Ubuhlobo bokuncintisana, njengombuso, yiwona ophikelela kakhulu futhi ohlala njalo. Amadoda ayesaba ukulahlekelwa owesifazane onomuzwa wokuthi unamandla futhi unesibindi.
Qaphela inkinga yezezimali
Enye indawo egulayo yamadoda amaningi inhlalakahle yezezimali. Ukugxeka emsebenzini wakhe, umholo, ukuhlambalaza ngokuphathelene nezindleko zezipho nokunye okunjalo kuholela ekuqhekekeni kobudlelwano obuphelele.
Isimiso sesithupha segolide: ugweme ukugxeka isimo sezezimali sekhethiweyo wakho. Uma ungenelisekile ngemali engenayo, khona-ke uxoxe ngomkhandlu womndeni ukuthi ungayithuthukisa kanjani inhlalakahle yakho. Indoda ayisoze ifuna ukulahlekelwa owesifazane owazi ukuthi imali ishibhile kunothando.
Unganeliseki ngokufutheka nentukuthelo
Ukubuyisa ukufudumala kwangaphambili ekukhulumisaneni kunzima ngisho nangemva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa zokuhlambalazana, ukungasho ukuxabana okude. Ubuhlobo obuqondile buyisihluthulelo sempumelelo nokuvumelana.
Isimiso se-7 segolide: uma uthanda owakhethiweyo, funda ukuyithatha, kunokuba isithombe esicacisiwe owawukhanda ekhanda lakho kulezi zinyanga lapho ebenesidingo. Indoda izoyithokozisa futhi izodinga ukulahlekelwa nguwe.