Izinkulungwane zezimoto zakhiwe ngobani? Ubani ama-penthouses akhiwe epharadesi elikhulu emhlabeni? Yebo, obani, ekugcineni, bathengisa umhlaba ngenyanga? Kubantu. Babanjwa ngomqondo wokuphikisana. Kuyinto ehle kakhulu uma ungewona oyingxenye enkulu. Bheka, labo abakha ukuncintisana, benza izenzo ezimbi kakhulu futhi ezihlakaniphile.
Kukhona inkulumo ethi "ubuvila buqhubekela phambili kwezobuchwepheshe." Lokhu kuchazwa ukuthi zonke izimoto, ama-coffee grinders, ama-washing machine, amakhomphyutha, njll. zadalwa ngumuntu ukuze lezi zimangaliso zokuzivumelanisa nezimo zifeze umsebenzi wethu kithi. Futhi ukufakazela okuyingqayizivele. Bonke labo abaye baphumelela kunoma iyiphi imboni, bembethe umqhele womnqobi. Kodwa lokhu akubalulekile kuye.
Futhi okubalulekile ukuthi bayomhawukela, balingane naye futhi balwele okufanayo. Yebo. Cabanga ukuthi kungani indoda eneminyaka ephakathi, ithola imoto ebiza kakhulu, inkosikazi encane nesihlalo sabakhubazekile emphakathini othile wezombusazwe? Ngokuvamile, imoto kufanele ibe yiklasi lebhizinisi, isifuba senkosikazi kufanele sibe okungenani kabili ngokukhululekile njengalowo oyinkosikazi yomngani wakhe oseduze, futhi isihlalo kufanele sinqunywe ngezinto ezibiza kakhulu. Futhi ngokuqinisekile akuyona umkhawulo. Le ndoda izophendukela - iphendule, kodwa ukufezekisa ukuphakama okuningi. Khona-ke uyozizwa eqiniseka. Futhi labo bantu abangenayo into bazizwa kanjani? Ziyabonakala ngokucacile. Sihlangana nabo nsuku zonke emgwaqeni. Buka kubo. Ubuso obunwebeziwe, obunama-gray tinge, amehlo enenkani ebuka phansi, ezama ukwenza okungenani ukudonsa okuthile kwenjabulo emabhodini.
Owesifazane kuzo zonke lezi zimo akanalo indima yokugcina. Angamsekela umuntu, angamthobisa. Ukuze ugweme ukukhuluma ngendima "engabalulekile" yabesifazane, lokhu kungacatshangwa kalula. Kusukela emlandweni kuyacaca ukuthi yiyo kuphela efihlekile, engaphansi, ngamakhono akhe kuphela, owesifazane wadala izinguquko emazweni amaningi. Uma uqondisa ngempela amandla akho, ungathola umhlaba, ngezandla zamadoda. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, bayoziqhenya ngokwabo. Ziyizocansi eziqinile ngempela. Kodwa umdlalo awuyona nje umdlalo owodwa. Ukuxhaphaza amadoda, udinga ukwazi ukunambisa isimo. Ukuhlukumeza akuyona isiphetho somfazi. Qaphela, iyiphi indima enikezwa ezinganeni zezinganekwane ku-Fox? Nguye kuphela ummeli wesifazane lapho. Akazange akha phambi kwakhe zonke izilo zaseYurophu nase-Afrika, futhi akazange abanike imiyalo. Futhi ngobuqili nangomusa ngathola lokho engangikufunayo. Futhi manje kuyadingeka. Lokhu akufanele ukukhohliwe. Uhlaka olunamandla - ke luqinile. Amandla ilungelo lomuntu. Futhi ungathathi indawo yomunye umuntu. Futhi kumelwe sifunde ukusebenzisa ukuthi imvelo inikeze ngokukhululekile.
Owesifazane ungumdali wenjabulo. Ekulweni ukuphakama kwamadoda, owesifazane angadlala indima eqinile. Ku "ngculazi enamandla" ngezikhathi zokuhlasela okunamandla komncintiswano kukhona izisulu. Ngempela, zingaki imindeni ebhujiswe yilokhu ukulangazelela okukhulu kakhulu! Ngabe siphi indawo kulezi zinhlanga thina, besifazane?
Indlela yokugcina indoda ethandekayo? Ungasiza kanjani othandekayo wakho? Ungaba kanjani umsakazo wendoda ethandekayo? Futhi mhlawumbe hhayi ngomuntu othandekayo, kodwa wakhe. Yonke intombazane nowesifazane bafuna ukuba yibo abhala izinkondlo futhi bahlele ukulwa. Ake siqale namuhla.
Kulungile-ke. Impi yokuphakama ikhona engqondweni. Kwesinye isikhathi ngesikhathi umuntu oyedwa ehola imithi emikhulu, enye inomona ngempumelelo yakhe, futhi kwaqala ukulwa "okukhulu nakakhulu". Ngendlela, esikhathini sethu, kungenzeka ukulandelela ukuthi kukhona yini i-pathology noma yonke into ehamba ngendlela engokwemvelo. Sidinga ukubuka kuphela impande, okungukuthi ubuhlobo bomfana nomama. Okumangalisa ukuthi, la mabutho neminikelo zifakwa kumama. Okufanayo. Uma, kusukela kumama, ethande indoda yesikhathi esizayo engatholi lutho, noma engatholanga nhlobo, esikhathini esizayo ingathinta izenzo zobuqili. Angakwazi ukuzithenga izinto ngaphandle kokuthola izindlela zokukwenza. Konke lokhu kwenziwa ukuze uthole lolu thando kakhulu. Abafana abathandekayo besengumntwana, benze izinqumo ezanele ekuphileni kwabo abadala. Umzwelo wokuphikisana uboniswa kubo, kodwa hhayi ngokuphathelene ne-pathologically. Ngeke bathenge "okubiza kakhulu". Kungenzeka ukuthi kuyoba yinto eyodwa, kodwa into eyomangaza wonke umuntu. Kuvela lapha ukuthi imibono emihle iphuma, ngesimo somshini osheshisa ku-300 km ngemizuzwana engu-8. ku-h.
Amadoda anemithetho eminingi. Bazakhela omunye nomunye, ukuze avimbele abaphikisi babo ukuba bangazigcwaliseli. Yilokho ukulwa. Ingabe kukhona ikhodi yokugqoka yalokhu? Ake ucabange, emgwaqweni ukushisa okuphosa. Ungase uzwe umsindo wenhliziyo yakho. Futhi abazivikeli bethu bahamba ngobumnyama (noma ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, ubumnyama obuluhlaza), ijack kanye namabhulukwe ukuze basebenze. Ukuhlwitha amaconsi ebunzini lakhe, uzoziqhenya ngokuziqhenya lo mbuso wesilisa. Ukusebenzisa amaqhinga amaningi amantombazane, ungathola lokho okufunayo kusuka ocansini obunamandla, ngaphandle kwama-scandals, izinyembezi namahlaya. Nakuba ukuphikisana ngezinye izikhathi kuyasiza.
1. Ngakho, lapha weza. Ulambile, ukhathele kancane kulezi zinhlanga zesihloko, futhi lapha ulapha. Okukhangayo, okuthakazelisayo, imininingwane enhle, lapho efuna ukuyihlakaza khona. Mondle, umbeke phansi futhi uqale "ukuhlambalaza" ngezwi elimnene, ukuthi uyamangalisa kangakanani. Uma efaka i-candy yakho, futhi ingqondo yakhe igcwele indlela yakho, ungaqala ukufaka izicelo zakho. Ukuze ungamesabi, ungacindezeli. Qhubeka ingoma yakho yokuzijabulisa mayelana nobuhle bakhe, futhi phakathi kwezifiso zakhe.
2. Sifuna indoda ukuba ikhululeke nathi. Lokhu kuyisisusa esinamandla nesiqiniseko esingenakuqiniseka ukuthi ngeke asuke. Wonke amadoda amnandi (kuzo zonke izinzwa). Badinga ukudla okuhle, ubulili obuhle nokudumisa okuhle. Dumisani njalo. Kuyo kuzokwenza njengoshukela kumonkey wesikhisi. Uzozizwa ukuthi ungowesifazane ofanelekayo, ngoba unamakhono, udumisa isithunzi sakhe. Yebo, futhi ngeke ahambe noma yikuphi. Uzoba lapho, lapho "umpristi ekushiseni".
3. Bonke abantu bafuna ukwazi ukuthi "uyena - kakhulu kakhulu." Ngakho udinga ukumtshela lokho. "Wena unamandla kunabo bonke, unesibindi kakhulu, unomphela", njll. Ngamehlo uzokutshela ukuthi akayidingi lokhu kugcwaliseka, kepha ngikholelwa, kudingeka njalo azi ukuthi nguye ongcono kakhulu.
4. Ngezinye izikhathi, angase abe nesifiso sokuthulula umphefumulo wakho. Unayo ngaphandle kwembukiso engokomoya, kodwa ngesimo samagama angenakulinganiswa. Uma uphazamisa noma uthi awunesithakazelo kuso, usengozini yokuba into yokucasuka. Lalela ukuphela. Nakuba kungadingekile ukulalela. Into eyinhloko ngezinye izikhathi ibheka emehlweni akho futhi ngezikhathi ezithile ugxuma ikhanda lakho. Uma ufuna ukuba abe yi-leash yakho, kufanele ukwazi ukujabulisa ukuhlupheka kwengqondo. Uzokucabangela ukuthi u-interlocutor ongcono kakhulu emhlabeni.
5. Bomomotheka njalo kuye. Amadoda athande abesifazane abathokozile. Owesifazane onjalo, ngokombono wabo, angakwazi ukuphakamisa isimo sengqondo bese ebhebhezela ukuhluleka. Futhi uzobukeka ukhanga kakhulu.
6. Mtshele njalo ukuthi "uqobo kakhulu". Noma ngabe kwenzekani, kungcono kakhulu.
7. Yiqiniso, kufanele ubukeke uphelele. Lokhu kungabuye kusetshenziswe. Mchaze uma ufuna ukuthenga enye ibhola le-perfume, okungukuthi, kuphela ukuba umphelele kuye.
Njengoba wazi kahle lokhu akuzona amakhono azinzima zokuziphatha, uzokwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo obuhle kakhulu nomlingani wakho. Ungamthola njalo lokho okudingayo. Khumbula umyalo kaNkulunkulu: "Yenzani kubantu njengalokhu befuna, ukuthi bayakwenzela." Uma ufuna ukusebenzisa le mithetho ngenjongo enonya, ingabuyela kuwe.
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