Uma ungazi ukuthi ungayiphendula kanjani umbuzo: yini okufanele uyenze lapho abantu abaseduze bencike kakhulu emidlalweni yekhompyutha, kubalulekile ukuzama ukuthola isizathu sokuthembela okunjalo kumuntu omusha.
Okokuqala, ake sizame ukuthola ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka kumngane wakho noma umfowethu. Izimo lapho "i-gamer" engavamile engumfana, ayitholakali, ngoba akunakwenzeka ukukhipha amadoda angashadile kwikhompyutha. Uma ubuhlobo obunjalo besoka lakho, khona-ke udinga ukuphendula ngokwethembeka, unesithakazelo kuye kakhulu, ungayithanda kanjani? Eqinisweni, labo bantu babhapathizwa ezweni elingokoqobo, abangenandaba ngempela nanyana yini eqinisweni.
Uma kwenzeka insizwa ithanda intombi yakhe, ngeke ihlale ekhompyutheni ngaso sonke isikhathi. Yiqiniso, uthando lwezemidlalo luzohlala, kodwa isikhathi esisebenzisayo kuzoba sinciphise kakhulu. Kuyafaneleka ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwezimo lapho umfana ethanda ukudlala kukhompyutha nalapho engahambanga kuye izinsuku nezinsuku, ekhohlwa konke okuzungezile.
Ngakho-ke, kungani umuntu wakho oseduze engafuni ukushiya izwe elibonakalayo ezweni langempela. Mhlawumbe iqiniso liwukuthi eqinisweni akuyona into engathandeki noma engakhululekile. Isizathu salokhu, cishe, siyizinkathazo, ukuhlambalaza nokudumazeka. Umuntu azizwa ukuthi kuyadingeka empeleni. Kubonakala kuye ukuthi izwe elibonakalayo lisekela kakhulu. Ukuze umsize, udinga, okokuqala, ukukukhumbuza ukuthi abantu lapha bayamthanda futhi bayamdinga. Ungamangaleli lo mfana noma ulalele. Kudingekile ukuba wenze ngokuzithoba futhi kancane kancane. Uma lokhu kungumngane wakho noma umzalwane, khona-ke uyakwazisa futhi akafuni ukulimaza. Ngakho ukudlala. Khuluma naye mayelana nokuthi awunakho okwanele, ukuthi udinga ukumtshela okuningi, cela iseluleko, futhi awukwazi ukufika kuye. Cela umfana ukuthi akunike isikhathi esithile. Cishe, uyavuma futhi uzothatha omunye umdlalo. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, kufanele wenze konke okusemandleni ukuze ungabi nesikhathi sokucabanga ukuthi umdlalo awuthathi iveli elisha futhi umlingiswa awuqhubeki ngendlela engathanda ngayo. Futhi zama ukudonsa umfana ngaphandle kwendlu. Udinga ukushintsha isimo futhi okungenani ukuphazanyisa okuncane okuvela ngokoqobo. Cabanga ngalokho akuthandayo nalokho akuthandayo ngaphandle kwemidlalo yekhompyutha. Udinga ukuthakazelisa le nsizwa futhi uyikhumbuze ukuthi impilo yangempela iyathakazelisa kakhulu. Ngakho zama ukuhamba naye ezindaweni ezikukhumbuza okuthile okuhle: ubuntwana, izindaba ezithakazelisayo nemicimbi. Futhi into esemqoka: ungathuli. Ngitshele ukuthi yini ekukhathazayo, umcele iseluleko, akukhumbuze okwenzekile kuwe nokuthi uthakazelisa kanjani isikhathi sakho. Kodwa futhi unikeze ithuba lokukhuluma futhi le nsizwa ngokwakhe. Ungaguquki konke ube yi-monologue, kungenjalo kuyovele igxile emicabangweni yakho futhi ngeke uthole noma yikuphi umphumela. Ngokuvamile, yenza kanjalo ukuthi uzizwa edingekile ezweni langempela, futhi waba yinto ejabulisayo kakhulu kuye.
Futhi, zama ukuqonda ukuthi kungani othandekayo wakho enesizungu. Mhlawumbe wadumala abangane bakhe nabathandekayo. Uma kunjalo ngempela, udinga ukumncenga kancane kancane ukuthi ajwayele abantu abasha, okungcono kunazo zonke amantombazane. Uma phakathi kwezintombi zakho kukhona okuhle, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, abesifazane abahle abangamcasuli kahle futhi badumise lo mfana, zama ukuzethula, yebo, kuphela emva kokuthola imvume evela intombi. Yonke insizwa okungenani inesithakazelo encintweni intombazane, futhi kufanele ngomusa imqinisekise ukuthi kudingeka bajwayele. Mhlawumbe intombi yakho ingamthakazela ngempela, kodwa uma kungenjalo, le nsizwa izokhumbula okungenani ukuthi kukhona ukuxhumana kwabantu. Into eyinhloko ukuthi wayenesithakazelo ngempela, ukhethe ngokucophelela izihloko nabantu abazoba naye. Uma engakhululekile, lo mfana uzophinde aqinisekise ukuthi ikhompyutha ilula futhi kulula ukuphila.
Kodwa, uma ubona ukuthi akukho ukukhuluma noma ukukholisa okusebenzayo, ukuthi le nsizwa iyakunaki futhi ayifuni ukuzwa, khona-ke udinga ukuxhumana nodokotela wezengqondo, ngoba ukuthembela kwakhe kuphenduka isifo sangempela okudingeka uphathwe ngayo.