Ngesikhathi isihlengo somlobokazi singapheli isikhathi esingaphezu kwemizuzu engama-40, kungenjalo kuzothatha isikhathi eside kakhulu, futhi umkhwenyana nabangane bakhe bazokhathala ukuphendula imibuzo engapheli nokuhlanganyela emincintiswaneni. Ngakho-ke, ubale uhlelo ngokufanele, ngoba phambi kwemishado emisha nemikhosi. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ividiyo yesihlengo somlobokazi kufanele imele ifake ifilimu yomshado, ngakho-ke unakekele ukuthi ngubani ozokudubula sonke isenzo.
Izimo zokuhlengwa komlobokazi
Isiko
Kulesi simo, konke kulula. Izintombi zihlangana nomkhwenyana nezikhonzi zakhe emnyango wendlu noma esangweni, uma isihlengo senziwa endlini yangasese. Batshela amagama abamukelekile futhi banikeze ukuphendula imibuzo eminingi, ebhaliwe, isibonelo, emigqeni yemifula isakazwa endleleni eya kumakoti. Imibuzo ingaba:
- Uhlangane kanjani na?
- Zingaki umamazala kamama?
- Uyini umbala oyintandokazi womlobokazi?
- Zingaki amasentimitha isisindo sakhe noma ukuphakama kwakhe?
- Zingaki izinsuku owazi ngazo omunye nomunye?
- Uyangaphi uqala okokuqala?
- Zingaki izinsuku ezedlulile kusukela lapho uhlongozwa kuye?
Kuzo zonke izimpendulo ezingalungile noma ezingekho emthethweni umkhwenyana kufanele akhokhe izintombi.
Umncintiswano odumile kakhulu ukugcwala izibuko ezintathu. Lofakazi ucela umkhwenyana ukuba agcwalise izibuko ezintathu ngendlela ethize. Esikhathini sokuqala kufanele kuqhume, okwesibili kukhalela ngokuzwakalayo, nakwesithathu - zazhurchat. Okusho ukuthi kufanele ufake izikhwama zephepha esikhwameni sokuqala, ubeke amasheya amancane okwesibili, ugcwalise okwesithathu nge-champagne.
Khona-ke umkhwenyana uvame ukunikezwa i-daisy ephepheni futhi, ekuqothuleni i-petal ngayinye, ubala izici zomuntu othandekayo wakhe.
Ekugcineni, umkhwenyana angacelwa ukuba aqagele ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwezindebe oluyintombazane yakhe. Ngenxa yalokhu, ephepheni lobukhulu be-A4, ukushicilelwa komlomo kushiywe esikhwameni sezintombi hhayi nje kuphela, kodwa futhi, isibonelo, izihlobo zomlobokazi wesilisa. Ngephutha futhi kufanele ukhokhe.
Ezokwelapha
Okokuqala, emnyango wendlu udinga ukubhala ngezinhlamvu ezinkulu: ukuhlukanisa indawo. Ngakho-ke, umkhwenyana, ukuze adluliselwe kumlobokazi, kuzodingeka ahlolwe ngokomzimba kusuka ezintombi ezigqoke izingubo ezimhlophe. Ungaqala nodokotela-oculist, ozohlola umbono wakhe, uzoqala ukuhlukumeza umkhwenyana, okusho ukuthi lezo zinsuku noma ezinye izinkumbulo ezikhunjulwayo ezincane.
Isazi sezindaba zezinhliziyo sibuza ukuthi umfana uyaphila ngothando.
I-psychotherapist izonikeza ukuhlolwa kokusebenza kwengqondo. Intsha kufanele idwebe isithombe sothandekayo wakhe njengombala ngangokunokwenzeka.
Kusukela kudingekile ukuze kube nesihlengo somlobokazi kuyodingeka:
- izingubo ezimhlophe ngokwezinombolo ezithatha ingxenye emnandi;
- iphepha A4 namapeni, izimpawu ezinemibala;
- I-phonendoscope eboleka esitokisini sezingane;
- amathuluzi avela kwisethi efanayo yokuhlola umhombo, isando kanye ne-thermometer.
Kuhle kakhulu
Lesi simo sihleleke kakhulu ukuthenga umakoti endlini yangasese, ngoba izindawo ezinkulu zidingeka. Ngendlela, okhokho bethu bakuthanda lokhu okuhlukile, behambisana nesenzo nemibhalo yezinkondlo, ukuze intengo yomakoti ebizwa ngokuthi inganekwane ingabizwa ngokuthi umkhosi waseRussia womshado.
Ngokuqhubeka endleleni, izintombi zivela nezithiyo. Bamba izintambo, banike umkhwenyana ukuba bawaphe, futhi uma bengenakukwazi, bakhokhele, bamenzele yena nabangane bakhe umlozi ukuba bahlakaze imimoya emibi.
Umncintiswano wokuqala wokuhlengwa komlobokazi uzoba ukunqoba umfula ovuthayo ezinyathelweni lapho izifiso zamantombazane zibhalwa khona, ngokusebenza abangani bomyeni abangasiza.
Eqinisweni, imincintiswano engeyona ejwayelekile ingavela nemali enkulu. Thola ukuthi umlobokazi uthanda kangakanani uhlobo lwezinganekwane, futhi uthuthukise iskripthi ngokuthanda kwakhe. Esigqokeni sezintombi kumele kube khona ama-motif fabulous: imiqhele, ama-wigs ama-mermaid, ama-magic wands, izembatho zeveli. Uma isihlengo somlobokazi senziwa ebusika, izisusa zikaNcibijane Zonyaka Omusha ngezindwangu ze-tinsel nezinwele ze-Snow Maidens ngeke zilimaze noma.
Isiqu
Kulesi simo, umakoti udinga ividiyo ukuhamba ngokuqinisekile. Okokuqala umkhwenyana uthunyelwa ividiyo ngezindaba ukuthi othandekayo wakhe uthathwe. Futhi, eqondiswa amacebo afihlekile ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene ezingakukhunjulwa kulo mbhangqwana, yena nabangane bakhe kumele baqaphele lapho abathumba khona babambe khona.
Encwadini: Ngendlela, isihlengo somlobokazi ngesitayela se-quest akuyona into entsha emangcwabeni. Uma ubheka amasiko omshado womhlaba , ungakwazi ukuqaphela umbhalo wesitoreji, ngokusho ukuthi yiziphi abashadikazi abathunjiwe eNkathini Ephakathi. Futhi lezi zindlu zazifanele zihlabelele izinkanyezi bese zikhokha ukubuyiswa kwazo.
Inkantolo
Imibono yesihlengo somlobokazi ingahluka kakhulu. Futhi inkathi yenkantolo yamahlaya iyindlela ehlakaniphile yokubamba lo mcimbi.
Izidingo zokuhlengwa komakoti ngesitayela senkantolo zizoba yisambatho sokwahlulela, isando kanye nezinto zokuncintisana. Kungaba kuhle ukwenza i-wig emhlophe kumjaji.
Amaphosta womlobokazi ahlenga
Ngokwemvelo, isiko lokuthenga umakoti akusho nje kuphela ukuba khona kweskripthi, kodwa futhi ukuklama okufanele. Uma isihlengo siqhutshwa endlini yangasese, ama-placards angahlobisa isayithi kanye nocingo. Uma esakhiweni esikhulu, khona-ke izindonga zomnyango. Amaphosta wokuhlengwa komakoti athengiswa esitolo anezimfanelo zomshado, kodwa adonselwa ngezandla zakhe noma enze umhleli wesithombe kukhompyutha, bese ephrintiwe, azobukeka eningi kakhulu. On posters babeka izithombe abasha, abazali, abangane, mhlawumbe izithombe othandekayo ezinhliziyweni abathandi.
Kulo kamelo, intombazane enamahloni (amehlo anamehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, e-blue-eye) ayaphela.
Lapha sithengisa umakoti,
Ibiza kakhulu esiyithathayo!
Awufuni - njengoba ufuna!
Sithola njalo umyeni!
Uma kungekho amagama anele othandweni, enza isipho!
Linda, umkhwenyana!
Ingabe ugijimela kumakoti?
Ngeke ngihlekise nawe.
Thatha isikhashana kule ndawo
ngikhokhele isihlengo esivulekile.
Siyamthanda umakoti!
Nje ungayeki!
Ngomakoti awunamatheli, imali ikhishwe!
Kodwa ungafuni, sebenza!
Futhi ukuqagela impendulo!
Ukulondoloza lapha akuphelelwe indawo,
ukuhlenga umkhwenyana umkhwenyana!
Hhayi, fiance, ungabi khona!
Umlobokazi ngomlobokazi!
Kuze kube yilapho uzwa izindlebe ezinhle,
Hlala nathi ujabule chastushki,
Kodwa awukwazi ukuhleka,
kuzodingeka akhokhe imali.
Ufuna ukuthola umfazi?
Sihlabelele ingoma, okungenani eyodwa!
Izimo zangempela zomlobokazi kanye nendabuko kakhulu zihlanganisa eyodwa: yonke iphutha lomkhwenyana lihambisana nokubhujiswa kwamapokhethi akhe kanye nabangane bezimpahla. Ngaphezu kwemali, ungasebenzisa amakhadi ngezithembiso, imihlobiso, amaswidi kanye nophuzo.
Isihlengo esihlosiwe somlobokazi kufanele sikhethwe ngebhande elilodwa. Uma abantu abasha bebalandeli bemidlalo yekhompyutha, isisombululo esithakazelisayo ukuthatha indaba yomunye wabo. Ngisho nogqoko lwepayipi lungashaywa esimweni sokuhlengwa komlobokazi. Umgomo oyinhloko awuyikuqoqa imali eyisiyingi, kodwa ukuzijabulisa, ukukhumbula izinsuku ezingenakulibaleka zentsha, ukuzwa ukuvuma ngothando. Khona-ke bazoya emcimbini womshado ujabule futhi ujabule, bekhohlwa izimpikiswano ezivame ukuhamba nanamuhla.