Omunye wezinto ezithakazelisayo kakhulu emshadweni sekuyisikhathi eside ukuhlengwa komlobokazi. Noma kunjalo, ngokuvamile umkhwenyana uyazikhukhumeza ngokuziphatha kwakhe, echaza ezinye izizathu, enzima kakhulu embonweni wakhe. Ungaphikisani kuze kube yilapho kuthuka, kungcono ukuhlala phansi futhi uxoxe ngokuthula konke. Namuhla esihlokweni sethu - "Izimo, ukuhlengwa komakoti emshadweni."
Umkhwenyana angase acabange ukuthi isihlengo singumdlalo wezingane, ongabhekene nabantu abathintekayo nabadala. Kule ndaba, kufanele kuchazwe ukuthi umshado usuke ngezindlela eziningi ukusebenza kwezemidlalo, futhi abasha yizinhlamvu eziyinhloko. Isihlengo sinikeza ithuba lokukhohlisa nxazonke nokuqeda ukucindezeleka. Vumela umkhwenyana angathathi izinto ngokubaluleke kakhulu, le ngxenye yomshado iyinkimbinkimbi. Thola ukuthi umkhwenyana umane nje uthanda isici semali noma imisebenzi ethile. Ngisho noma ngabe wanquma ukuthi ngeke kube khona isihlengo, umhlangano womakoti nomkhwenyana ungashaywa ngendlela ehlukile, into eyinhloko nomcabango ukubhekana nalolu daba.
Umkhwenyana wayenesihlengo ngokugcwele, amlungiselele kusengaphambili. Sitshele ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwezinto ezizodingwa ukuze umkhwenyana nabangane bakhe bangaboni ubuwula ekuthengeni.
Abashadikazi kufanele babeluleke ukuba bangene nemisebenzi engenakwenziwa noma abayiziphukuphuku, isibonelo, ukuphuza imbiza yamanzi noma ingilazi ye-vodka, khona-ke kuyoba kubi kakhulu kuwe. Ungadingi isipho sezinto ezinkulu futhi akudingekile.
Ngemva kokuhlanganisa isimo sesihlengo, unikeza uhlu lwezinto ezidingekayo kumkhwenyana. Ungenza okunye - ukulungisa konke wena futhi ngomzuzu wokugcina ukudlulisela kumuntu othumele umkhwenyana. Uma umkhwenyana engenalo uhlu, kufanele anakekele imishini yakhe. Kufanele kufaka phakathi: imali (izinhlamvu zemali ezingaphezulu), utshwala, amaswidi namaswidi. Vumela umkhwenyana ngekhanda izinkondlo kanye nezingoma ngothando, mhlawumbe ne-chastushki. Kufanele kuphindwe zonke izinsuku ezibalulekile zokuzijwayeza kwakho kanye nokuphila komakoti, futhi ukhumbule futhi amazwi abumnene nabathandekayo.
Isikhathi esanele sokuthenga umakoti sisuka kumaminithi angu-20 kuya kwangu-40, ngoba kufanele sikhunjulwe kahle kuwo wonke umuntu, kodwa singabi nesithukuthezi sokuthi sibe nesithukuthezi. Abashadikazi kufanele babala isikhathi sabo kusengaphambili ukuze ngesikhathi sokuhlengwa sekulungele ukuhamba.
Umkhwenyana kufanele axwayiswe kusengaphambili mayelana nesikhathi esiqondile sokufika esihlengo. Amakamelo awaziwayo, azama ukukopela, efika esikhathini lapho sekuyisikhathi sokuya ehhovisi lokubhalisa. Kodwa benza okungalungile futhi bacasula abathandekayo babo, olungiselela lo mcimbi kusengaphambili. Ngaphambilini, futhi, akufanele ifike, namanje awukwazi ukulungela konke. Okukhethwa kukho ukushayela ucingo ngaphambi kokushiya nokuvumelana okwamanje.
Ukuhlenga umakoti uye njengoba kuhlelwe, okwanele ukulandela iskripthi. Kunemithetho eminingana, okulandelayo konke okuyokwenza njengoba uthanda.
Uma usuhlakulele isimo esilungile (okuyinto okufanele sibe ngayo), bese ulandela ngokucacile. Abangane bomakoti bathatha izindawo zabo bese behamba ngokulandela uhlelo oluhlelekile. Omunye akufanele azinqumele ukwenza imisebenzi kanye nokubhala izinkondlo ngenkathi emile endaweni eyodwa, lokhu kuholela ekuhlanganyeleni amaqembu kanye nokungabi nalutho toptaniyu.
Nciphisa inani labasizi, banikeze ithuba lokusebenza ngokusemthethweni kumthwebuli wezithombe nezithombe zevidiyo. Okucatshangelwayo kucatshangwa, uma zombili izinhlangothi zabahlanganyeli abangaba ngu-3-5, akwenzi isixuku futhi siqede. Abangane abanolwazi kakhulu kufanele basize umlobokazi ukuba ahlenge isihlengo, mhlawumbe ngamakhono obuciko.
Umkhwenyana angenza umsebenzi wesikole ukuze avele ehlomile ngokugcwele. I-cribs ekhangayo-amahle ngamazwi ajabulisayo, izinsuku nezinhlu zemisebenzi yasekhaya zibukeka zingenangqondo. Ungabhala i-poster: "Ayikho imali. Izobe kusasa. Faka isicelo! ยป. Ungabhala izingoma nezinkondlo kumrekhoda. Njengomuthi "ohlaza" kufanelekile ukuthatha i-parsley, i-dill, iklabishi; ewusizo kanye nolamula.
Abangane kufanele bafunde ngenhliziyo isimo sokuhlengwa, ngoba ukufundwa komuntu oyedwa emaphepheni abhalwe phansi kubonakala kubi. Uma bengakalungi, kufanele bakhulume ngamazwi abo, into esemqoka ukukhumbula iskripthi. Uma nje uma kwenzeka kukhona amacebo, okungenani, zihlobise kahle ngendlela yezinhliziyo noma izimbali. Noma eduze nendawo ngayinye egcinwe ukuhlolwa, faka ipheshana elihle, lapho egameni lomakoti ayokwenziwa imisebenzi.
Uma kungazelelwe isihlengo asihambanga ngokwezimo, ungalahleki, ungacacisi ekuhambeni. Uma kungenesikhathi esanele, iskripthi kufanele sakhiwe kabusha futhi sinciphise ngangokunokwenzeka. Enye iphutha ukufuna umkhwenyana ukuthi yini engenazo ngempela.
Uma umkhwenyana engafuni ukuba umakoti nentombi yakhe bacasuke, akufanele azame ukuvimbela isihlengo somlobokazi. Futhi, ungazami ukuphinda udlale izintombi zakho, uma zingalungele kangcono kunabangane bomyeni. Ngokuphelele zasendle futhi ezimbi ukugqamula. Hlonipha omunye nomunye!
Kungcono kuwe: ukuba noma ungahlengiwe. Manje kunezimo eziningi zasendulo eziye zaqalwa, kodwa ungafika neyakho. Into esemqoka ukuvuma ukuvumelana kanye nokuqonda okuvamile.