Isimo somshado wesibili
Ukuhlangana nabashadile
Ngakho-ke, abantu abasha ngemuva kokubhalisa ehhovisi lokubhalisa bafika endaweni yokugubha imikhosi. Ngesikhathi sokungena emnyango wehholo lokugubha, izivakashi zimi ngakwesinye icala zigeza labo abasanda kushada abaneziqu zama-rose, ukolweni nezinhlamvu zemali.
Emnyango wabazali abashadile bayabingelelwa ngesinkwa sendabuko kanye nosawoti (amakhansela) ngamathawula ahlotshisiwe, bebusisa impilo ende futhi ejabulisayo. Umnsalo womkhwenyana nomkhwenyana, uphule ucezu lwesinkwa, ufafaze usawoti bese udla. Njengendlela yokukhetha, abashadikazi abasha bayondla ngesinkwa esiphukile. Ngalesi sikhathi, izivakashi zihalalisela labo abasanda kushada ngezimbali futhi bafuna ukujabula, uthando nokuchuma. Ngokulandelayo, ngokusho komshado wesibili, lo mbhangqwana osemusha unikezwa ingilazi yewayini etafuleni lomshado, okumele ukuthi udakwe phansi - kuqala umkhwenyana, bese umakoti. I-glass engenalutho iphukile (ngenhlanhla) kanti intsha idlula nge-splinters. Iqiniso liwukuthi lesi siko sikhombisa ukubumbana kwabashade, ukuhlukana nesikhathi esedlule nokungena esiteji sokuphila esisha.
OFakazi bayabingelela abasanda kushada, babambe ibheboni cishe becindezela phansi. Ngalesi sikhathi, umphathi uthi: "Sifisa ukuthi kusukela manje usuke uthatha zonke izinqumo ezibalulekile ndawonye, futhi izithiyo ezivela empilweni yakho nazo zinqobile ndawonye. Nansi itheyipu ongayidlula ngayo kalula. Vumela zonke izithiyo nezinkinga empilweni yakho ndawonye ungawela ngokukhululeka okufanayo. "
Idili lomshado
Umninimzi uthe: "Siyamema izivakashi ezithandekayo ukuthi zizohlala etafuleni lomshado wethu." Lapho abasanda kushada nezivakashi behlezi phansi, idili liqala. Yiqiniso, ukugubha umshado okwesibili akufani nezeyokuqala, futhi ukukhamuluka "Okubi!" Kubuye kusakazwe ngezikhathi ezithile kusukela ekugcineni kwetafula. Nazi ezinye izibonelo zomshado we-toasts-izifiso zabashadikazi abasanda kushada, abangakwazi ukumemezela umethuli noma ukulungiselela izivakashi kusengaphambili.
"Namuhla umndeni omusha uzalwa. Masitshele labo abasanda kushada ngemithetho yokuphila komndeni. Ngakho-ke, manje kufanele wenze zonke izinqumo ndawonye, ukulalelana. Izinkinga kanye nezingxabano "razrulivayte" ngezindlela zokuthula. Khumbula ukuthi amahlaya nesimo sengqondo esihle sikusiza njalo ukunqoba ubunzima. Umyeni kufanele athande umkakhe futhi akhohlwe ngabanye besifazane. Futhi umfazi, naye, uzama ukuhlale ehle futhi enhle. Gcina inhlonipho nothando. Vumela umkhwenyana amthande umkhwekazi, nomalokazana-mkhwenyana. "
"Namuhla lo mbhangqwana omuhle ujoyine izinhliziyo zabo futhi uzibamba, ngokuqinisekisile le nyunyana ngamasongo amabili omshado. Vumela lezi zindandatho ezimbili zibe izixhumanisi eziqinile zethungechunge olulodwa, okungabikho muntu ongaluqeda. Vumela impilo yakho ibe yinhlanhla, injabulo nothando. Sizophakamisa izibuko zomndeni "osanda kuzalwa"! Kuyabuhlungu! ".
Yini okugcoba emshadweni wesibili kuthiwa ngabazali bashadile? Noma ngabe yimuphi umshado, abazali bahlale befisa ukuthi izingane zabo zibe ngcono kakhulu. "Bantfwana bethu abathandekayo! Namuhla yilusuku oluqhakazile lomshado wakho - waba umyeni nomfazi. Vumela uthando lwakho komunye nomunye ludlule nawe eminyakeni. Kwangathi wonke amaphupho nezifiso zakho zingagcwaliseka. "
Okulandelayo, labo abasanda kushada banikezwa amahlaya "Umthethosisekelo Womshado", oqukethe "imithetho" yokuphila komndeni. Idokhumenti enjalo ingakhishwa ngesimo sencwajana ehlakaniphile noma umqulu omdala onophawu.
Esikhathini somshado wesibili, ungafaka imincintiswano eminingana ethokozisayo. Ukuzijabulisa kufanele kulungiselelwe kusengaphambili ngokukhetha imincintiswano ezithakazelisayo nezijabulisayo kulabo abasanda kushada nezivakashi. Ukuphela kwedili kuyoba umkhosi wokusika ikhekhe lomshado.
Ukubhaliswa komshado wesibili
Abesifazane abaningi, lapho bebona umshado wokuqala ongaphumelelanga, abakasheshi ukuphinde baphinde baqinisekise ubuhlobo obusha obunzima. Yiqiniso, isipiliyoni esibi esedlule sakha "izithiyo" zokwakha impilo ejabulisayo. Kodwa-ke, akudingeki ukuthi uvale inhliziyo yakho enqabeni futhi uphinde ubuyele engqondweni esikhathini esidlule. Kuzokwanela uma usuphelile iziphetho ezifanele emshadweni wakho wokuqala, ukuze ugweme ukuphindaphinda kwalowo mshado wesibili.
Futhi isipiliyoni, indodana yenkinga enzima ...
Okokuqala, shiya umshado odlule esikhathini esidlule futhi ungadlulisele ebuhlotsheni nomyeni wakho wesibili. Khumbula ukuthi ngesikhathi sokubhaliswa komshado wesibili kuzodingeka unikeze izibopho ezithile, ukusebenza okubeka isimo esishadile. Ngakho-ke, kufanele uhlole ngokucophelela zonke izimo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, manje unomqondo othile wokuphila komndeni.
Izingane nokushada kabusha
Zithande wena!
Ngemuva kwesahlukaniso, owesifazane uzizwa engenamsebenzi futhi elahliwe, ngisho noma umqashi wokuhlukanisa uqobo ngokwakhe. Ungavali ezindongweni ezine! Sebenzisa isikhathi nabangani, uhlanganyele emisebenzini yokuzilibazisa, unake ukubonakala kwakho. Phela, owesifazane ojabule futhi owanelisayo kuphela udonsela amadoda afana namagnet. Yiba nesithakazelo endaweni yokuqala.
Umshado wesibili - khetha ingubo
Khumbula ukuthi umshado wesibili awuyena "ophindwe kabili" weyokuqala, kodwa isenzakalo esisha futhi esibalulekile empilweni yakho entsha. Jabulela futhi uthande!