Owesifazane ngamunye, eba umama, uthola imithwalo yemfanelo eyengeziwe, hhayi kuphela ekhaya, kodwa nasekunakekeleni ingane. Futhi kubonakala sengathi akukho lutho olungenziwa, ngoba okuningi kuye kwawela: ukuhlanza indlu, ukupheka, ukunakekela ingane, ukuhamba naye, ukunakekelwa okuqhubekayo akudingayo. Usuku lomama osemncane lwenzeka ngokukhathazeka futhi luphuthumayo, cishe alukho isikhathi sokuba yena, kanye nesikhathi sokulala. Ngolunye usuku ngokuvamile kufana nolunye. Futhi kanjani ukusekela konke lokhu ngokuziphatha, futhi usaqhubeka nokujabulela ukubukeka komntwana emndenini?
Indlela yokuphuma, eqinisweni, ilula - ungenzi lokho ongenayo isikhathi. Hlukanisa izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu, wenze uhlelo olulodwa usuku noma ezimbili, bese-ke ngesonto bese uzama ukuphenya. Yiqiniso, uma ungasetshenziselwa ukuhlela, kuyoba nzima ekuqaleni, bese uzohileleka kumculo onjalo futhi ukwazi ukwenza konke okuhleliwe.
Khumbula ukuthi umgomo wakho oyinhloko ukunakekela ingane, mayelana nempilo yakhe kanye nemizwelo emihle. I-Auge isendaweni yesibili - ukupheka umndeni, ukugcina indlu ngendlela ephelele, nokuzigcina ngokuhlelekile. Noma kunjalo, ungakhohlwa ngawe, mayelana nokuphumula kwakho. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma ungeke ukwazi ukukhathalela ukucasula kwakho, ubani ozokwenza lokho?
Eziningi zazo zihamba njengama-squirrels esiteshini, abatholi ngokwanele ubuthongo ebusuku ngenxa yentsana engenangqondo nokudla okuqhubekayo, futhi ntambama, esikhundleni sokulala phansi ngokumomotheka ukulala kosuku, bavame ukuhlanza ngalesi sikhathi. Kungani udinga ukuhlanza okunjalo, uma ukhathele futhi ufana ne-sleepwalker? Kungcono ukunikeza lesi sikhathi ekuphumuleni kwakho, futhi uma umama esiseduze, khona-ke ingane izolala isikhathi eside.
Into eyinhloko iphathelene nomntwana
Yiqiniso, into yokuqala umama akhathalelayo ukuthi umntwana akalambile, unempilo, uhlanzekile, ujabule futhi ujabule. Ukuncelisa ingane, ikakhulukazi ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila, kuvamise ukuvama, akukho ndlela yokwenza ngaphandle komama. Ukushintsha i-diaper, uhambe nomntwana, uthenge futhi unike isikhathi sokuzijabulisa - nalokhu, kaningi, umsebenzi womama. Kodwa lokhu kungenziwa yinoma ubani omunye emndenini. Futhi uzoba nesikhathi esincane.
Uma ukhona nomntwana ekhaya, ungenza konke naye, ikakhulu uma ekhula kancane. Manje ngokudayiswa kukhona izindwangu ezikhethekile, lapho ungafaka khona ingane, ngenkathi izandla zakho zikhululekile, futhi ungenza okunye okunye. Yiqiniso, uzodinga isikhathi sokuwusebenzisa, kodwa kuyindlela enhle yabamama abafuna ukwenza konke.
Yenza konke ngokusho kwepulani - ukuhlanza endlini noma indlu ngosuku olulodwa, ukugeza nokufaka izinsimbi kwelinye, ukupheka i-adla kuvumela isikhathi esincane usuku ngalunye. Njengokuhlukile, ungakwazi ukulungiselela ukudla kwezinsuku ezimbili noma ezintathu kusengaphambili, bese nje uvuselele. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi isikhathi esiningi sizohamba konke okufanayo kumntwana futhi uyamnakekela.
Ukuphuma emsebenzini noma ukusebenza ekhaya?
Kufika umzuzwana lapho owesifazane enquma ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuya emsebenzini. Ingaxhunyaniswa nezizathu eziningana: ukungabi nanele kwempilo yomndeni, ukungafuni ukuyeka umsebenzi, noma ngoba isimiso asisakuvumela ukuba uphile futhi uphefumule ngokujwayelekile. Kulesi simo, umama ubuyela ehhovisi, futhi omunye wemithwalo yemfanelo yakhe ingathathwa izihlobo (umyeni, ugogo nomkhulu).
Njengokuzikhethela, ungamema umntanakho ingane, futhi ugcine imisebenzi yasendlini. Noma ungaqasha owesifazane ozogijima epulazini futhi abheke ingane ngokufanayo. Uma le ndlela ingakufanelanga, ungayinika ingane yokugcina ilanga noma insimu yezingane (kuye ngokuthi ingakanani ubudala). Uma unabazali abahlala kude, ungafuni futhi ngosizo lwabo, kuzobajabulisa futhi amahora ambalwa angamahhala kuwe.
Uma uzwa ukhululekile ekhaya nomntwana, kodwa awunayo imali eyanele noma ukuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu, khona-ke ungakwazi ukusebenza ekhaya. Isibusiso sikhona i-intanethi futhi le nkinga ukuxazulula kalula. Abesifazane abaningi, abahlezi esinqumweni, baba abazimele kanye nesikhathi, bazuze kahle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, baxoxisana nabanye abantu, bahlale bethola ulwazi olusha emithonjeni ehlukene, bazama ukufunda, bafunda ukuhlela isikhathi sabo, bathola inkokhelo yemizwelo emihle futhi bayakwazi ukuzibona.
Yini engcono kunokuhlanganisa umndeni nomsebenzi oletha injabulo yangempela kowesifazane?
Indlela yokuhlala ekhangayo futhi ehlelwe kahle?
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi owesifazane, ehlezi ekhaya enomntwana, akakhohlwa ukuthi ungowesifazane. Ohle, othandekayo futhi oyifunayo. Yiqiniso, kunzima kakhulu, ikakhulukazi okokuqala ngemuva kokubeletha, ukuzitholela ngisho nemzuzu. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuthi wenze lokhu kusukela ekuqaleni, ngoba ngokuzigijima ngokwakho, kunzima kakhulu ukuma. Zinike okungenani imizuzu engu-15-20 ngosuku, khona-ke ungakwazi ukwandisa lesi sikhathi.
Vumelana ukushada noma nomuntu ovela ezihlotsheni ukuthi bazokusiza. Isibonelo, lapho umyeni ebuya emsebenzini, angakwazi ukuzinikela isikhathi esithile kumntwana, futhi kufanele uthathe ishaxa esiphumuzayo, uhlale uthule noma wenze umuthi. Ungasebenzisa le mizuzu kuphela kuwe, uzenzele ngokuhlelekile.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi unethuba lokubalekela ekhaya lakho okungenani kanye noma kabili ngesonto, ukuya kumuntu wezinwele noma i-beautician, uzithengele ingubo entsha noma i-sweatshirt, uye kumabhayisikobho noma embukisweni, ngokujwayelekile, uphathe futhi uphumule umphefumulo wakho. Into esemqoka ukuthi umyeni wakho uyakuqonda futhi akusekele kulokhu, kuphela lapho uzokwazi khona ukukwenza. Yena, eqinisweni, uyojabula futhi ukuthi umkakhe ulalele ukubonakala kwakhe, isibalo nesimo sengqondo futhi uzama ukubukeka njengento engcono kakhulu!
Abanye besifazane bahlangabezana nezinkinga ezithile emva kokubeletha, kanye nezinkinga zengqondo ezihambisana nezinguquko emzimbeni wabo. Omunye wehlisela izingalo futhi akenzi lutho, abanye bacindezela ekuzivocavoca ukuza kwifomu elifanele. Ungadluli, zama nje ukuzinikela isikhathi sokuzivocavoca, ezinyangeni ezimbalwa uzobuyela kwifomu lakho.