Indlela yokubhekana nalesi sifo? Uma, isibonelo, indoda iqala umdlavuza, ungamsiza kanjani ukuba abhekane nalesi sifo. Kukhona imibono ehlukene ngale ndaba, ukuthi umdlavuza ungowesilisa nowesilisa, owesifazane udla umuntu ngokushesha, futhi owesilisa angeke aqhubeke nokuqhubeka. Kodwa kukhona omunye umbono wokuthi abantu abaningi, abavame ukubuyela odokotela. Yebo, nodokotela, yini okumele ifihle, kungabi ngekhwalithi ukuqhuba ukuhlolwa. Lapha futhi udla umdlavuza womuntu okuthiwa izinyanga ezithile, nakuba ayehlala futhi wadla iminyaka eminingana. Uma kubeka lesi sifo esibi kakhulu, izihlobo zesiguli ngomdlavuza, zisesaba. Kodwa awukwazi ukwenza lokhu, ungalokothi ubonise lokhu kwesaba kumuntu ogulayo. Okwamanje udinga ukwesekwa kwengqondo, hhayi isihawu, ungesabi emehlweni, kodwa nje ukusekela, usizo. Kuye kufanele ukhulume njengaphambi kokugula, futhi ujabule. Ungasindiswa ngalokhu, ikakhulukazi ngoba umdlavuza awusiyo njalo isifo esibulalayo. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, kulesi simo sengqondo uqobo lwakhe, kufanele ahlasele omagazini ngezihloko mayelana nesiguli eselaphekile, ukuqoqa amanothi avela ezikhathini. Sidinga ukuthi akholwe ukuthi akuyona into ebulalayo. Khona-ke lesi sifo sizoqala kancane kancane futhi ekugcineni sizohamba futhi umndeni uzophinde ube nokuthula nokuthula, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu impilo.
Kunezifo eziningi, kunezifo ezingenasabekayo, kodwa ezingathandeki kakhulu, isibonelo - isithuthwane. Indlela yokubhekana nalesi sifo? Ezweni lakithi, lesi sifo siye safundiswa kakhulu, emadolobheni ambalwa akhona ngisho nezifo ze-epileptologists, kungabi yinto yokunakekela iziguli ezinesifo sokuphuza. Kuze kube manje, baphathwa ngezindlela zakudala, beka izidakamizwa ezingasebenzi. Ukukhubazeka akunikezwa iqembu elinjalo leziguli, futhi abakwazi ukusebenza ngokujwayelekile. Umqashi, ukufunda ngesifo, akafuni ukuthi lowo msebenzi abone inkampani yakhe. Lesi sifo siphulukiswa, kodwa singavamile lapho sidlula ngokuphelele. Kodwa konke okufanayo, umuntu othole lesi sifo, noma kusukela ekuzalweni kwakhe egula, kumele akholelwe ukuthi konke kuzodlula futhi lesi sifo sizophinde siphenduke njengoba izitha zibuya empini.
Zonke izifo zinikezwa okuthile, zisinika ithuba lokubona lokho esikwenzayo okungalungile empilweni, noma zisinike ukubukeka okusha nokuphila. Into esemqoka ngesikhathi sokugula ukulalela ingqondo nenhliziyo yakho futhi uqonde ukuthi yini oyifunayo ekuphileni. Abantu abaningi abakhulu, ngesikhathi sokugula, baqonda ukuphela kwabo emhlabeni. Cabanga, mhlawumbe ungomunye wabo futhi ulindele, into enhle. Ungagxila eziguleni zakho, bheka phambili futhi uzophumelela. Zilwela impilo yakho nazo zonke izikhwepha zakho, sinezodwa, enye ngeke.