Kodwa-ke, uma kukhona ezinye, izimo eziyinkimbinkimbi ezinkulu, ngakho-ke zidinga isu elengeziwe lokuxazulula okulungile futhi okusheshayo, noma, ngaphandle kwalokho, zingabangela ukungezwani ebuhlotsheni noma kubangele ukuzonda. Ukuze uphumelele, ukuba nobuhlobo obuhle emndenini noma nabantu abaseduze, umuntu kufanele azi ukuthi kungenzeka kanjani ukuthi akwazi ukuxhumana kahle nomndeni nendlela yokuxazulula izingxabano enhlanganweni.
Ngaso leso sikhathi kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi izingxabano akuzona ezimbi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Uma ufanisa kahle imingcele yezimpikiswano, ungakwazi ukuwina kusuka kulokhu! Njengoba umuntu engeke akhohlwe ukuthi izingxabano ziletha njalo izinguquko ezithile futhi zenza abantu bakwazi ukuthuthukisa nokufunda. Izingxabano zishukumisa ukucabanga kanye nesifiso, zisisindise ekubikezelweni nasekuziphatheni kokuphila. Lapho bebuyiselwa, ubuhlobo obuseduze phakathi kwabantu bungasungulwa.
Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi izingxabano zingabangela ukulimala okukhulu ebuhlotsheni, zithatha amandla, isikhathi kanye nemali. Izingxabano eziqhubekayo ngokuqinisekile ziyobathinta impilo yakho, kokubili ngengqondo nangokwengqondo, okuyinto eyolimaza kakhulu umsebenzi wakho nobuhlobo nabathandekayo.
Ukuze uxazulule ukungqubuzana enhlanganweni noma emndenini, sebenzisa izitayela zezixazululo zabo, ezibalwe ngezansi.
Ngakho-ke kufanele wenzeni futhi usho uma kukhona isimo sokuphikisana. Ngokwezibalo zengqondo, kunezinhlobo ezinhlanu zokuziphatha:
Ukuncintisana.
Njengomthetho, ukuncintisana kubonisa isifiso sokwanelisa izidingo zomuntu kwabanye abantu (isibonelo "sokunqoba / ukunqoba"). Abantu abanenkinga enzima bavame ukukhetha ukuxazulula izingxabano. Ngalokhu konke, bangasebenzisa izindlela ezihlukahlukene zokufeza umgomo wabo: igunya, amandla, uxhumano, isipiliyoni, njll.
Izabelo.
Izabelo zisho ukuthi ubeka kuqala izidingo zabanye kuqala, esikhundleni sakho siqu (isibonelo "sokunqotshwa / ukunqoba"). Ukuthola imvume kuyadingeka kuphela uma omunye wezinhlangothi ezibandakanyekile kule mpikiswano engathandi kakhulu ukuvikela ngokugcwele izithakazelo zabo (futhi mhlawumbe uzocabanga ukuthi izintshisekelo zenye iqembu zibaluleke kakhulu). Lesi sitayela sokuziphatha siphumelele uma kudingekile ukuvimbela ukwehlukana ebuhlotsheni nokugcina ukuvumelana. Lokhu kungenziwa uma kudingekile ukuxazulula izingxabano enhlanganweni, ngoba kulokhu kubambisana okuzuzisa kufanele kubaluleke ngaphezu kwezithakazelo zomuntu siqu.
Gwema izingxabano enhlanganweni, esikhundleni semvume yabo.
Abantu abakhetha le ndlela yokuziphatha, njengomthetho, zama ukugxila empini, abavele benganandaba nezinto zabo siqu kanye nezidingo / ukwesaba kwabanye abantu. Lokhu kwenziwa lapho abantu bengathandi ukuba nebhizinisi elivamile nomphikisi. Ingasebenza kuphela uma isetshenziselwa uhlelo olufushane (oluphakathi) kuze kube yilapho isimo sicacisiwe ngokugcwele noma yonke imizwelo iphela.
Ukubambisana okuhle.
Abantu abakhetha lesi sitayela, bafuna ukuhlangabezana nezidingo noma ukwesaba kwabo noma abanye. Ukubambisana kuzodinga amandla nesikhathi esiningi kakhulu kunezinye izitayela zokuziphatha. Ngokuvamile abantu abakhetha lesi sitayela, qalisa ukuzama ukuxazulula impikiswano hhayi ngokushesha kakhulu.
Ukuncintisana.
Ukwehlukana kukhona okuphakathi kwazo zonke izimo ezingenhla. Lesi sitayela, ngenye indlela, sizoholela ekugcululeni ngokwengxenye izidingo / ukukhathazeka / ukukhathazeka kwezinhlangothi zombili. Ukuncintisana kungasetshenziswa uma izinhloso zombili zombili zibalulekile ngokwanele, kodwa hhayi 100%.
Izigaba eziyinhloko zokuxazulula izingxabano:
Inhlangano yococo lwamazwe amabili. Hlanganisa abaphathi abaphezulu kanye nabanye osebenza nabo, bese ubatshela ukuthi uvulekile ngokuphelele futhi uqaphele izidingo zabasebenzi bezinhlangano, futhi uxoxe ngokucacile inkinga ebonakele, uzama ukuyiqeda kanye nhlobo. Nokho, ungakhohlwa, wonke umuntu unelungelo lokuveza iphuzu lakhe lokubuka.
Ukubandakanya enkulumweni yenhlangano ephikisanayo. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi izinhlangothi zombili eziphikisanayo kufanele zihlanganyele enkulumweni yenkulumo ngesikhathi esisodwa. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukwazi ukulalela umphikisi wakho, bese uthatha isinqumo esifanele esilungisayo esanelisa izinhlangothi zombili.
Ukucubungula lonke ulwazi olutholiwe yisigaba sesithathu sokuxazulula impikiswano enhlanganweni noma kwinkampani. Zombili izinhlangano eziphikisanayo ziphoqelelwe ukucubungula ulwazi olutholiwe, nokuphinde zibuke kabusha imizwa yazo, futhi zibone ukuthi yini eyabangelwa ukulwa.
Isivumelwano esigcwele noma esikhethekile - sizuziwe! Lona ithuluzi elilandelayo elisebenzayo lokusebenza kwengqondo lokuxazulula izinkinga. Le nqubo ibonakala ngokusungulwa kwemvume nokwethemba.
Isidingo sokuqeda ukungavumelani. Lapho kuvunyelwene ngokuvumelana, khona-ke kukhona ukubuyekezwa kokungqubuzana okuthile okubili izinhlangothi eziba nazo. Manje kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzichaza ngokucacile ukuthi uze uqondisane ngokugcwele, imizwelo yakho, awukwazi ukunqoba ukungezwani.
Ukuhlanganiswa kwesivumelwano esitholiwe. Lesi yisigaba sokugcina sokuxazulula izingxabano. Kulezi zinsuku izivumelwano zivikelekile, futhi ukufinyelelwa kwezimali kutholakala.