Izizathu eziyinhloko zokuhlukanisa zingaba yisigidi, umhlaba wonke - kuphela ezintathu. Lezo zinsuku zonke izinto ezaqalwa ngazo, zivele zivele zodwa: ngokomzwelo, ngokocansi, ngokwayo, imbangela nomphumela. Uqale ukuhlangana, ngoba wathandana nokuzibusa kwakho, futhi wena-ngesisa sakhe.
Eminyakeni emithathu kamuva kwatholakala ukuthi ngabe uphume emsebenzini ngokuthakazelisa, ushintshe isitifiketi sebhizinisi ukuze ugqoke izingubo zokuzilibazisa, futhi esikhundleni semibiko yamasonto onke, i-saumon elungiselelwe ku-batter. Kodwa ngomuntu onomoya omnene awukwazi ukuhlala ekhaya - wayezohlala lapho ngokwakhe, alale phansi, aze aphekwe ngisho ne-saumon. Lokho okhethile komunye nomunye, kwanconywa ngesihlabathi ngokusebenzisa iminwe yakho futhi uqhubeke - akukho sidingo. Enye indlela - omunye walimaza kakhulu umlingani, futhi akakwazi ukukuthethelela. Ngokujwayelekile kubonakala sengathi "uguqukile, ngimxosha ngaphandle, angikwazi ukumthethelela futhi angifuni, ubuhlobo buphelile. Inketho, uma ishintshile, ingaphansi kweklasiki, kodwa futhi iyabuhlungu. Kunoma yikuphi, ukuqhubeka uhlala endaweni yokungathembeki ngokuphelele futhi ukungaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi kungenakubekezelelwa. Indlela yesithathu - izimo zakhiwe ngokumelene nobuhlobo bakho. Isibonelo, usebenze isikhathi eside futhi ngempumelelo eMoscow, futhi unikezwa umsebenzi eBerlin - futhi ongenakukulahla! Ayikwazi, ayibekezelele, ayikho isizathu ... manje. Ngoba isizathu esiwukuphela kokusebenzisa ngokujulile igama elithi "akakaze" lisenkulumo ethi "ungalokothi ulahle".
Ngemuva kwekhefu
Kwenzekani ngemuva kokuhlukanisa? Ngamunye wenu uhlala impilo yakhe: uhlangana nabantu abasha, uqala ezinye ubudlelwane, uhambelana nezimo ezintsha nezimo ... Ungaba ujabule futhi ujabule, kanye naye, endaweni ethile, kude kakhulu. Kuze kube yisikhathi esanele esidlulayo (ngonyaka, amabili, amahlanu ...), futhi izimo ngeke zishintshe, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ngeke ushintshe. Futhi, lokho kwashintsha, - ungahlangani. Futhi lapho uhlangana, kuvela ukuthi ikhemikhali phakathi kwakho namanje iyafana, ukukhanga akuhambanga noma kuphi; sekuyisikhathi esiningi kangangokuba ubuhlungu kanye nezikhalazo ngomunye nomunye zikhohliwe; izimo zashintsha futhi, kodwa manje kuleso simo kuphela; nonke nivuthiwe ngokwanele futhi nithole ulwazi lokuqonda izimbangela zezinkinga bese ningaziphindi manje. Ekugcineni, njengoba kwakusho kwelinye elithi elidala: ukuphila kude. Futhi kwenzekani manje, kuphela manje, bese sizobona!
Isinyathelo 1: Thatha ikhefu
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqonda izizathu zokuthi kungani uqhekekile. Uma lokhu kungenziwanga, ngakho-ke ngomzamo wokubuyisela ukuxhumana uzobhekana nezinkinga ezifanayo, kuphela ngesilinganiso esikhulu. Thatha njengeqiniso lokuthi ubuhlobo bakho - okungenani kuleli fomu nakusigaba - sekuphelile. Futhi uhlanganyele ekuzibuyiseleni kwakho! Sebenzisa "isikhathi-mina" ukubuyela emakilasini nasemisebenzini yokuzilibazisa eyashiywa ngenxa yothandekayo. Gxila empilweni: udle, ulale, uhambe - futhi uqale, ekugcineni, uye ejimini njalo!
Isinyathelo sesibili: qonda ukuthi kungani uqhekekile
Sebenzisa "isikhathi-I" ukuze uqonde inkinga ebhubhise ubuhlobo bakho. Ukufinyelela nje enhliziyweni yayo, ungakha ubuhlobo obuhle esikhathini esizayo. Ukucabanga ngakho, ungakhohlwa ukuhlola izenzo zakho kulo lonke umlando: ingabe unenkinga ngokuthembela nokuthembeka, ngokuzihlonipha komunye nomunye wakho futhi ucabange ukuthi zingathinta kanjani igebe. Qonda ukuthi yini oyifunayo, futhi uvume ngobuqotho ukuthi izifiso zakho zihambisana kangakanani.
Isinyathelo 3: Buyisa ubuhlobo
Emva kwekhefu kumele kudlule izinyanga ezimbili okungenani. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kunzima kangakanani, akukho oxhumana nabo! Gxila ezinyathelweni 1 no-2: isikhathi sizodlula ngokushesha kakhulu. Futhi ezinyangeni ezimbili kamuva (uma ungazange uqale ubuhlobo obusha), ungafaka, isibonelo, uthumele incwadi yangaphambili noma i-CMC noma uzibize futhi uzibuze ngokuthula ukuthi izinto ziphi. Phakathi nengxoxo, thola ithuba futhi unikele ngandlela-thile ukuphuza ikhofi. Uma ekugcineni uhlangana ... khumbula isinyathelo 2 bese usebenza!