Indlela yokufunda ukuzijabulisa

Ezweni lanamuhla, igama elithi "injabulo" livame ukusetshenziselwa izikhangisi zokukhangisa futhi lixhunyaniswa kakhulu nokusetshenziswa kanye nemali. Inkulumo ethi "ngenjabulo kufanele ikhokhwe" isanda kuthathwa ngokuyisisekelo, kumongo wobudlelwane bemali yezimpahla. Kumqondo we "injabulo" esikhuthazayo ngisho nakulezo zikhathi lapho sikhuluma ngocansi nokudla. Futhi yilokho konke. Siyibheka njengento ephoqelekile futhi ehlakaniphile: i-whim, i-nonsense noma i-whim. Khumbula njalo ngakho futhi ungalokothi uzibeke ngempela umgomo wokuwuthola. Kukhona umuzwa wokuthi uma singadli, asizange senze izinto ezibuhlungu emibhedeni futhi singadli zonke izinhlobo zemikhiqizo namasevisi, ukuphila kwethu bekuyobe kunqatshelwe yonke injabulo. Isazi sefilosofi esidumile se-Epicurus, esazile ngalezi zindaba, kwakuyoba buhlungu kangangokuthi esikhundleni seglasi lewayini, elicele ukuba alile ngaphambi kokugeza ekufeni kwakhe, wayezoyala i-vodka.

Ukuthakazelisa kwakungenye yezimiso eziyinhloko efilosofi yakhe, kodwa ungabhali phansi le ndoda endala kulolu chungechunge lwama-bon vivans anjalo. Futhi noDionysus - unkulunkulu wokunqoba nokuzijabulisa - akufanele futhi udideke. Izimfundiso ze-Epicurus azikwazi ukunciphisa ukubiza ukuze zijabulele ukuphila ngokugcwele - kungcono kakhulu okuningi, okuthakazelisayo nokwengqondo. Akumangalisi ukuthi iningi labachwepheshe bezokwelapha abavelele bekhulu lama-20 bamncenga.

I-theorist ye-buzz
U-Epicurus wayengakholelwa ekufeni ngemva kwalokho, nakuba engavumi ukuthi kukhona onkulunkulu. Kodwa-ke, ngokombono wakhe, baphila impilo yabo, bebona ukunganaki kwabantu. Ngokwesazi sefilosofi, lo muntu ngokwakhe wayenakho isiphetho sakhe futhi wenza intando. Siyabonga kubantu bakubo kwakudingeka afinyelele isimo sangaphakathi sokulinganisela - i-ataraxia. Endleleni eya kulo mgomo, u-Epicurus uhlongozwa ukuba agxile emicabangweni yakhe, okuyinto ayibheka umthombo onokwethenjelwa wolwazi kunokubheka. Kulungile - ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zabo, ujabule futhi unciphise ubuhlungu nokuhlupheka. Ngakho-ke, ingxenye yemigomo eyayiqondisa ingqondo yesimanje, yakhiwa ngisho nangaphambi kwesikhathi sethu.

Sonke sinokuningi okumele sikufunde ku-Epicurus. Isibonelo, kubiza kancane ukucabanga nokuzwa ngaphezulu. Kanti futhi-thatha isiphetho ngezandla zakho, uqaphele izidingo zangempela ezihamba ngokucacile ngaphesheya kohlu "kokudla ngocansi-ukuthengwa", futhi ungahlehlisi ukuthola izinjabulo zangempela kamuva.

Ifilosofi ka-Epicurus inomqondo omuhle, obala futhi ohlakaniphile kangangokuba akucaci ukuthi kungani singaphili esikhathini se-Epicurean esinqobile. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukuchaza leli qiniso elidabukisayo ngokuthi sonke sathonywa ukuziphatha okungokwenkolo okuphakathi, lapho zonke izinhlobo zenjabulo zazingavinjelwe futhi ziboshwe nomuzwa wecala. Kodwa-ke, empeleni, kokubili ubuKrestu no-Epicureanism basitshela ukulinganisela. Ukuphishekela izinjabulo ezintsha nezintsha kuholela esimweni sokungalingani kwangaphakathi. Ayikho i-ataraxia ayikwazi ukufezwa ngaleyo ndlela.

Izinhlu aziveli
Abazali banamuhla bavame ukufundisa izingane zabo zonke izinhlobo zezinto. Bakha abasebenzi abasebenza kanzima, abalalelayo, abahlakaniphile, abantwana abaphumelelayo, befaka amakhono obuholi noma ikhono lokuzidela kwabanye. Kodwa umcabango wokuhlaziya ngendlela ehlelekile e-spinogryzah ukujabulela impilo ekhanda awufiki kunoma ubani. Noma, uma ucabanga ngakho, leli khono liyi-parachute engcono kakhulu, eyenziwa ngezikhathi ezinzima. Into elula njengenjabulo, iqinisa futhi iqinisa isifiso sokuphila, idonsa isimo esicindezelekile, yisisusa esihle kakhulu sezwe kanye nesisusa. Kubuye kube yindlela engokoqobo yokwephuza utshwala nokuhlukumeza, ngakho-ke ukulutha.

Lapho inqubo yomsebenzi ngokwayo imnandi, indlela iyayeka ukufana nokukhuphuka futhi iphenduka ukuhamba ngokujabulisayo endaweni evelele. Yiqiniso, emgwaqweni kuzoba khona ama-ascents kanye nokukhuphuka. Kuyoba khona ukukhathala. Kodwa-ke, ngemva kokuthola imiphumela ephawulekayo, ungenza ume bese ugubha ukunqoba, futhi kuya phambili kuyoba lula kakhulu. Njengemisebenzi emikhulu neyingozi kakhulu eveze ngesibonelo sakhe: "Thola okuthandayo futhi awusoze uphinde usebenze futhi."

Intombazane ekhanda elihle
Ukuvinjelwa okungenasici ekutholeni injabulo kunikezwa yilabo bazali abafundisa izingane ngaso sonke isikhathi nakuzo zonke izinto ukunikeza abanye, bacabange kuqala ngabanye, futhi kuphela ngalokho ngokwabo, ukuba "intombazane enhle ethobekile" kanye "nomfana ofunde kahle". Empeleni, akukho lutho olungalungile ngale mibono, ngezinye izikhathi kudingeke ukuba ucabange ngokuqala nangokwengeziwe ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi ungayi ukuvula izingxabano. Noma kunjalo, ukuqonda kwengane kolwazi oluthile oluvela kubazali kunesici esiyingqayizivele: lanezela emshweni "njalo". Lokhu kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi, uma ekhulile, umuntu uba sengathi akakwazi ukucabanga ngaye, ukuvikela imingcele yakhe nokuqaphela izifiso zakhe. Uba ngumama uTeresa noma uBatman, njalo esindisa wonke umuntu nakho konke. Ngenxa yalokho, bakhathele futhi bethukuthele, "intombazane enesizotha" iphenduka ukufutheka nge-baseball, kanti "umfana obelethwe kahle" ongakaze asebenze empini uhlela usuku lweparatrooper endlini ehlukile.

Ukuthola nokuthola injabulo kungenye yezindlela zokwazi ulwazi. Umuntu ongazi ukuthi angazinakekela kanjani, eqinisweni, akanakunakekela ngempela abathandekayo bakhe, ngoba siphatha abanye ngendlela efanayo nabathandekayo bethu. Izinhloso ezinhle, usizo, insindiso kanye nokusizwa kuhle kuphela uma beletha injabulo kule nqubo, futhi abangeke babangele izidakamizwa ezimbi ngendlela yokucasula. Uma kungenjalo, kuyisifiso esifihlekile sokushintshanisa izinsizakalo ngenhlobo ethile yomvuzo ngendlela yokubheka noma ukuhlolwa okuhle. Ukuthakazelisa kuba uhlobo lwe-beacon elikuvumela ukuba uhambe endaweni yokuphila kwakho. Umbuzo "uma isenzo esithile singangijabulisi, kungani ngenza lokho?" kungaba yisihluthulelo sokuziqonda wena lapha futhi manje.

Amawayini awafiki wedwa
Kweminye imindeni, izimpawu zidluliselwa ezizukulwaneni ngezizukulwane: "Ungase uhlehle kakhulu, khona-ke uzokhala kakhulu." Ngakho-ke, hhayi ukuhleka kuphela, kodwa nanoma yimiphi imizwelo emihle, kuhlanganise nokuzijabulisa, okungenani kunqunyelwe, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokuvinjelwa ngokuphelele. Ngenkathi ejabulela into ethile, umuntu uqala ukuzizwa enecala ngenkathi, njengokungathi uthukuthele onkulunkulu noma, kunalokho, imimoya emibi yabokhokho owake wanquma ngokumelene nesono ukuba angajabuli futhi ajabule kakhulu. Kungani? Mhlawumbe, ngempela, esikhathini eside esidlule emva kwesenzakalo esithokozile kakhulu, enye into eyalandelwa - idabukisayo kakhulu. Futhi-ke yiziphi izazi zengqondo ezibiza ukucabanga kwemilingo, okujwayelekile kubo bonke abantwana abangaphansi kweminyaka eyisithupha ubudala, kanti abanye abantu abadala abaphazamisayo nabangakhuli, baqhubeka.

Cishe zonke izingane ezisencane ziyakholwa: uma ubheka isikhathi eside emafwini, uma ufuna ukuhamba, zizohlakazeka futhi ilanga lizophuma. Esikhathini esincane kamuva, esikoleni samabanga aphansi, sithola ulwazi mayelana nama-cyclone kanye nama-anticyclones, futhi ukhohlwe ukuthi uma sakholwa ngamakhono ethu omlingo. Nokho, kwezinye izici zokuphila ukholo olunjalo luhlala nathi ukuze siphile. Futhi lapho sineminyaka engamashumi amathathu namashumi amane, singaphonsa amahlombe ethu bese sibamba izinkuni ukuze singabi yi-jinx. Ngakho sisekela inkohliso yokuphatha izinqubo zomhlaba wonke, ikhono lokulawula ikusasa eliyesabekayo nelingafundiwe.

Uma sishiya umbono wobuNkulunkulu bethu, sivuma ukuthi asikwazi ukulawula ukungaqiniseki nganoma iyiphi indlela, khona-ke singakwazi ukuphumula nokuzijabulisa. Futhi kulezi zimo lapho, ngesikhathi sokuqala komzuzwana omnandi omuhle empilweni, kuphakama imicabango ekhanda lakho mayelana nokusondela kweqembu elimnyama, cabanga ngesimo esinjengalokhu: jikela ngakwesobunxele noma ngakwesokudla, bese uhamba nomgwaqo omhlophe uhamba, futhi ...

Emiphilweni yethu, injabulo yindawo yokuhanjiswa kwezinto eziphathekayo, ezengqondo nezenhlalo. Lena iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu lokusekela, ukuthola ukuthi ungakwazi ukuguqula umhlaba wonke. Ukuthola nokuthola imithombo yemizwelo emihle kuyimzamo yokuthola izimpendulo zemibuzo ethi "ngingubani?", "Ngingubani namuhla?", "Ngifuna ini?". Futhi ukusesha akusilo okunengqondo futhi okuqeda amandla, lapho kulula ukudideka kunokuba ufike ekuqaphelisweni okubalulekile, futhi uphile, futhi ujabule kakhulu.