Indlela yokugubha umkhosi wesibili womshado futhi yisiphi isipho ukuveza isigamu sesibili

Yini engaba yinto efiselekayo kunalokho ekhanyayo futhi, ungase uthi, iholidi lezindiza, njengomshado? Lo mcimbi ubulethela injabulo enkulu kubo bobabili besifazane nabesilisa. Lolu suku lusho okuningi ekuphileni kwabo. Kusukela ukubhaliswa okusemthethweni komshado wabo, futhi ngokuyinhloko uhambelane nosuku lomshado, abathandi bathandana ngaphezu nje kwentombazane nomfana. Baba umndeni. Umkhosi wesibili womshado, njengowokuqala, nowesithathu naso sonke isikhathi esilandelayo, esibaluleke kakhulu empilweni yomndeni osanda kumiswa. Ibizwa ngokuthi "iphepha" hhayi ngeze, ngoba iphepha alikwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi indaba ehlala njalo. Umndeni onjalo unamathuba aphakeme okuhlakazeka ngenxa yanoma iyiphi into encane, i-trifle.

Uma udweba okufana nephepha, umndeni uvulwe kakhulu ezintweni zangaphandle. Abantu abavame ukuvota nabomdabu bazama ukungena ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwalabo abashadile, ngaleyo ndlela "iphepha" ngokungabonakali "ngamagumbane" futhi "ligoba", lichitha ukuthi abathandi bathande ngokucophelela ngalesi sikhathi. Esikhathini sethu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi intsha ibekezelelane. Zonke izingxabano, ukuphikisana nokuphikisana kungasombululwa ngokuthula, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ungalokothi ulahlekelwe futhi ubheke ukuyekethisa ezimweni ezihlukahlukene zokuphila.

Indlela yokugubha usuku lokugcina lomshado emazweni ahlukene
Kunamasiko amaningi namasiko mayelana nendlela yokugubha umshado womshado. EMpumalanga, kuyisiko ukudansa umdanso okhethekile, obizwa ngokuthi umkhuba wokugqoka emaphepheni ekhethekile wephepha. Abashadile ngesikhathi esifanayo bagqoke izibopho ezibomvu, zenziwe ngamapulangwe epulasitiki kanye nokunamathela. Ngemva komkhosi onjalo, wonke umuntu uya esidlweni, futhi isidlo esikhulu sisetshenziswa etafuleni - ilayisi nenkukhu.

Ukudansa kwemali kudansa eGrisi, eyayisivele yenziwa emcimbini womshado. Imali ngasikhathi sinye nje ikhonjiswe ezembathweni zalabo abenza umkhosi.

EByzantium ngomkhosi wesibili womshado, umbhangqwana oshadile wenza amapopi wephepha, futhi ufihle izifiso zabo komunye nomunye. Phakathi nomkhosi, umyeni nomkakhe bashintsha amadokodo abo futhi bawagcine kuze kube sekupheleni komkhosi. Ekupheleni kweholide, abashadile baphendukela ekufundeni wonke amanothi ezivakashi.

KubaseBulgaria, isikhumbuzo somshado kufanele sibe nombala, sicebile, sijabule futhi siqhakazile. Yingakho umyeni nomyeni begqoke izingubo ezimibalabala, okwakufanele kwenziwe ngephepha.

Yini ongayinika umshado "wephepha"?
Uma ungomunye wamenywe emcimbini obalulekile kangaka, isipho esihle kakhulu somshado "wephepha" kuzoba yizipho ezifana nezithombe, imidwebo ehlukahlukene, imali, ama-albhamu ezithombe ngisho namakhalenda. Ngokuvamile, noma yikuphi imikhiqizo evela ephepheni kuya enambithekeni yakho. Ungabhala izinkondlo ngokuhlonipha labo abasanda kushada futhi uzifunde phakathi kusihlwa. Yiqiniso, izifiso ngosuku olunjalo kumele zibe zihle, ziqotho, ziqhakazile futhi zijabulise.

Umthandi ngamunye uzofuna ukumangala ingxenye yakhe yesibili ngesimo sesipho esithile esingavamile. Isipho esingcono kakhulu seholidini lakho elihlangene liyincwadi. Cishe uyazi ukuthi umthandi wakho noma umthandi wakho unjani, ngakho ngeke uthole kunzima ukuthenga izincwadi ngalesi sihloko. Ngaphandle kwezipho ezingokomfanekiso, kunezivakashi eziningi ezingenakho ukuxhumeka nephepha, kodwa lokhu akusho neze ukuthi ngeke banikezwe. Noma yisiphi isibonakaliso sokunakwa siyoba mnandi kumthandekayo wakho futhi kuzosho okukhulu.

Ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukujabulisa, ubonise ukunakekelwa futhi unakekele omunye komunye, bese ukumomotheka nenjabulo ngeke kuvele ebusweni bakho!