Indlela yokugubha umshado wesiliva

Umshado wesiliva ugubha emva kweminyaka engamashumi amabili nanhlanu yokuphila eduze kwehlombe. Lo mshado ubonisa imizwa engxenyeni yegolide. Imfanelo eyinhloko yomshado isiliva. Ukulondoloza uthando ngekota yesine kuyisenzo sobuqhawe. Isikhumbuzo esinjalo sisodwa kanye kuphela ekuphileni, ngakho umbuzo wokuthi kufanele ugubhe kanjani umshado wesiliva kufanele ube nempendulo yasendulo. Indawo engcono kakhulu yokubamba lo mkhosi yiyona kanye impela lapho iminyaka engamashumi amabili nanhlanu edlule lomshado ngokwayo wenziwa.

Izinkanyezi zokupheka

1. Ukumaka umshado wesiliva kuyadingeka, uma umemele abantu abangaphansi kwezingamashumi amabili nanhlanu, njengoba kusho isiko esidala. Ukumenywa akusiyo kuphela izihlobo, kodwa futhi nalabo bantu abayiminyaka engamashumi amabili nanhlanu edlule bahamba ngomshado wejubili.
2. Thumela izimemo emshadweni wesiliva izinsuku ezingamashumi amabili nanhlanu ngaphambi komcimbi uqobo.
3. Ukuhlobisa igumbi lokuthi ungubani, kuyadingeka ngosizo lwamateyipu, amabhaluni, ama-garlands kanye ne-tinsel. Lapha kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi lezi zemihlobiso kufanele zibe nombala wokuthutha.
4. Itafula liphinde linikezwe nge-silverware, indwangu yesetafula namaphini. Amacala okugubha kumele asebenzise i-silverware.
5. Ungalungisa i-albhamu ekhethekile yezivakashi, lapho zingashiya khona izifiso zabo iJubane ngomshado wabo wesiliva.
6. Imenyu kufanele ivumelane kusengaphambili. Uma ukhetha isiphuzo kunconywa ukuba ucabangele zonke izintandokazi zezivakashi ezimenyiwe. Kungcono uma izinhlobo eziningana zokuphuza zikhona etafuleni lokugubha.
7. Qaphela ukuhambisana komculo nesimo sonke somkhosi.

Amasiko wokugubha

1. Ukugubha ngokugcwele lolu suku lokukhumbula, ungakhumbula amasiko nemikhuba yokugubha umshado wesiliva. Ukusa kwalolu suku kudingeke ukuba uqale ngokumanga futhi kube isikhathi eside kangakanani, ukuphila okujabulisayo kwalabo abashadile kuzohlala. Lesi sibonakaliso sabizwa ngokuthi "ukuqala kokuqala".
2. Enye imikhosi yasendulo ithi ekuseni ekuseni lo mbhangqwana kumele uhambe emfuleni bese uqoqa amanzi kusuka ku-jug yesiliva, ugeze. Ukuphila kwanamuhla kuvumela leli bhizinisi ukuthi lithathe amanzi emthonjeni. Umfazi kufanele ahlanze umyeni wakhe kathathu futhi asule ithawula yelineni. Okufanayo kufanele kwenziwe futhi indoda. Ngenxa yalokhu kuhlanza, ukuvuselelwa kwenzeka futhi zonke izinkinga zomndeni kanye nobunzima zihlanjululwa, futhi abashadile bahlangabezana nokuphila okusha. Ngemuva kwalesi siko, i-pitcher ifakwa emgodini, kuze kufike amanzi asele.
3. Isimemo sokuqala kumkhosi kufanele sithunyelwe kubazali.
4. Kulolu suku, lo mbhangqwana kufanele ushintshe izindandatho zesiliva. Lo mcimbi ungabanjwa ekhaya noma endaweni yokudlela ngokwayo. Ngendlela, ofakazi lapha kumele babe khona, njengoba kufanele baphinde baqinisekise uthando phakathi kwabashadile.
5. Ukulandela izitayela zamanje, izindandatho zesiliva zingagqunywa ngegolide.
6. Ngesikhathi sokugubha, kungcono ukusebenzisa isikhathi esiningi ukukhumbula iminyaka yokuphila eshadile ehlala ndawonye. Kuyoba othinta kakhulu futhi kumnandi.
7. Kuhle kakhulu ukuhlobisa lo mkhosi ngenani elikhulu lama-roses amhlophe. Lezi zimbali zihambisana nomshado wesiliva.
8. Kumkhosi wesiliva kufanele kube nesinkwa noma ikhekhe. Abalingani bakhe kufanele baqoke ndawonye ukuze ngamunye wezimenywa njengamanje athole ucezu lwasemthethweni futhi ahlanganyele iholidi labo elijabulisayo ngeJubane.
9. Emshadweni wesiliva, ungamema umphathi we-toastmaster, ozosiza ekukhanyeni kusihlwa futhi ujabule izivakashi zakho.
10. Ngamunye wabantu abamenyiwe kufanele azithokozise ngokuzithandela abashade nabo ngokubhala izifiso zabo ekhadini.
11. Umncintiswano omuhle kungaba ngumdlalo esilotsheni: "Ingabe wazi kahle"? Ukwenza lokhu, udinga indoda nomfazi ohlukile ukulungiselela uchungechunge lwemibuzo mayelana nokuphila komndeni wabo. Kumele, ngaphandle kokwazi ukuthi yilowo nalowo unomthwalo wemfanelo, bhala izimpendulo ephepheni, emva kwalokho lezi zimpendulo kumele zifaniswe. Lo mdlalo uzoqeda ngokuphelele umlando wesiliva futhi usize ukuthokozela kuphela abenzi bokugubha, kodwa nazo zonke izihlobo nezivakashi.