Ukugujwa komshado - bangubani?
Ukuhamba ngehora lokugubha izinyanga, abashadile abasuke bengashadile bamelela impilo ndawonye njengomkhosi omkhulu wokunganaki, wokuthandana nokuthandana.
I-Honeymoon ishintshwe yizinsuku ezivamile njengomunye nomunye, injabulo engenandaba nokuxazulula imisebenzi emincane yansuku zonke, ukuthandana - ngokuzama ukuhlanganisa nokubeka ngokugcwele isithombe esisodwa umbono womshado womabili ohlala ndawonye futhi wenza ibhizinisi.
Futhi manje ukulungiswa kwezindlu kusondela esigabeni sokugcina, umzuzwana walokho okubizwa okuthiwa "lapping" kuye kwanqotshwa ngempumelelo, imisebenzi encane yasendlini iye yasakazwa phakathi kwalabo abashadile futhi ibulawa cishe ngokuzenzekelayo. Kubonakala sengathi sekuyisikhathi sokuba nempilo ehlelwe kahle, ngakho-ke inhlanhla yemindeni enobudlova nokuthula. Kulesi sigaba sobuhlobo, njengomthetho, umoya oguquguqukayo wenguquko - ukuzalwa kwengane eqhuma endlini. Ukulala ubusuku, ama-diapers, inqwaba yamathoyizi ahlakazekile kanye nezingcingo ezingapheli.
Isimo senjabulo ephazamisekile, ukujabula kanye nokuthuthumela kuyakuba isikhumbuzo sekude esidlule, kubangele imizwa engekho emthethweni ngosuku lapho abashade bebeka izindandatho zomshado zabo eminwe yomunye nomunye ngezandla zokuthuthumela. Ingabe akunakwenzeka ngempela ukuzwa le mizwa futhi?
Wonke umuntu uyazi impendulo yalo mbuzo. Imishado "yesiliva" ne "yegolide" ikhona ukuze ngisho nabantu asebekhulile baphinde babe umlobokazi nomkhwenyana, bakwazi ukubuyela ngosuku oluhle kunazo zonke zokuphila kwabo bese bezwa futhi. Kuvela ukuthi ungazizwa njengomuntu oshadile osanda kushada hhayi iminyaka engu-25 no-50 kuphela ngemva komshado, kunezinhlobo eziningi zemikhosi efanayo!
Umshado we-Calico
Isikhumbuzo sokuqala somshado. Kubhalwe emva konyaka owodwa kusukela ngosuku lomshado. Unyaka wokuhlala ndawonye, njengombuso, uhlobene nolwazi lomshado womunye nomunye ovela emaceleni ahlukene, ubunzima ekukhonjisweni kwezintshisekelo kanye nomzamo wokuthola ukuyekethisa. Njengoba unqobe lesi sinyathelo esinzima, ubuhlobo buzuza uhlamvu oluthe xaxa, oluzolile - luletha "u-calico lula" nokuqonda.
Ukugubha umshado wekotini kuwumkhuba wokunikeza izihloko ezenziwa nge-flax noma i-calico.
Paper Wedding
Kugujwa iminyaka emibili emva komshado. Ukuhlukana komndeni nokufuywayo sekuyisikhathi eside "kulungiswe", ubudlelwane buye balahlekela futhi buzuze ngisho nokugeleza kokuphila, ngaphandle kokuphakama okukhulu kwemizwelo kanye nemithwalo yothando. Umshado namanje njengoba iphepha lingenamandla, kodwa seluvele libhekene novivinyo lokuqala olubi - ukungabi nalutho nokunciphisa ekunakekeleni omunye nomunye. Ihlala ihlolwe ukuthi ngabe umshado uzobe ubhekane nezinkinga eziye zavela noma zizoqothuka njengephepha?
Ngesikhumbuzo somshado wephepha kuwumkhuba wokuletha imikhiqizo yamaphepha: ama-postcards, izincwadi, izincwadi namathikithi e-cinema noma emidlalo yaseshashalazini.
Umshado wesikhumba
Ngiphile ndawonye iminyaka emithathu. Imindeni eminingi isivele inezingane. Ubudlelwano buqinile futhi buzinzile. Noma kunjalo, zisathuthuka, zishintsha, zishintsha ifomu yazo futhi zishintshashintsha imvelo eguquguqukayo yombili womshado. Ukuphila komndeni kungachazwa njengokuqina, kodwa kuguquguquke. Isikhumba yisibonelo esihle kakhulu sokuzihlanganisa salokhu.
Ukugubha, bavame ukuletha izipho ezivela esikhwameni sangempela.
Umshado wezinkuni
Iminyaka emihlanu kusukela ngosuku lomshado. Ngalesi sikhathi, umyeni nomkami basondelene kakhulu ukuze bakwazi ukuqonda ngokugcwele, ukuhlanganisa nokudala into efanayo. Umbhangqwana oshadile ungalinganiswa nendlu enamapulangwe, esele iqinile ngokwanele, ifudumele futhi ihlelekile. Noma kunjalo, ukushisa ngomlilo kungaqeda kalula.
Umshado wezinkuni, njengombuso, unikezwa ngezinhlobonhlobo zezici zokhuni noma ifenisha. Kukhona isiko lokutshala umuthi ngalolu suku, khona-ke luzokhula luphilile, luvuthwe futhi luzohlala lukhunjulwa ngothando lweminyaka eminingi ezayo.
Umshado we-Pink
Iminyaka eyishumi yokuhlala ndawonye! Usuku lokuqala lokujikeleza, oluvame ukugubha ngezinga elikhulu, kumema zonke izihlobo nabangane. Umkhosi omkhulu wokuthokozela ubanjwe ngophawu olubalulekile lwalolu suku - iwayini elibomvu. Indoda nezivakashi ziletha umlobokazi ngezimbali ze-roses, ngokudumisa umshado wabo "ngokuqinile kangangokuthi akekho ama-spikes abamesabayo."
Umshado we-Crystal
Kugujwa iminyaka eyishumi nanhlanu emva komshado. Ubudlelwane buzuza ubuhle beqiniso, ubumsulwa nokulungiswa. I-Crystal, njengesibonakaliso sokunqoba nokuchuma, imane nje ifuna umakoti nomkhwenyana ukuba bahlele idili langempela ngalolu suku ngedili elide. Ngokwesiko, usuku lomshado we-crystal kufanele luphule izitsha.
Ukunikeza imikhiqizo ye-crystal eyamukelekile: izitsha, imidwebo noma imihlobiso. Etafuleni kumele futhi kubekhona izibuko ze-crystal, izibuko zewayini nezitsha zeladidi.
Umshado we-porcelain
Kwagubha emva kweminyaka engamashumi amabili yomshado. Indoda nomkayo kakade basebenzisane njalo ngangokunokwenzeka. Kodwa, naphezu kwakho konke, ubudlelwane babo buhlala buthaka kangaka, kubalulekile futhi kudinga ukuphatha ngokucophelela, njengomkhiqizo we-porcelain.
Kukholelwa ukuthi etafuleni kuyadingeka ukuthi ufake i-china ware entsha, kusukela kusukela endala ngaleso sikhathi akukho lutho olungahlala.
Umshado wesiliva
Ukuqala kwemikhosi eyaziwayo futhi eyaziwayo yomshado. Wayeqhathaniswa nekota yeshumi leminyaka, wayehlala emnyanyeni ojabulayo! Ngaphezu kokuqhathaniswa nensimbi eyigugu ebonisa umnotho wothando oye wanda emndenini iminyaka eminingi, isiliva godu cishe isho ukuthi "izinwele" ezingenalutho zalowo mbhangqwana.
Ngosuku lomshado wesiliva, kuwumkhuba ukushintshanisa izindandatho ezigqoke eceleni kwezindandatho zomshado emunwe ophakathi. Ithebula liphinde lenziwe nge-silverware.
Umshado wePearl
Iminyaka engamashumi amathathu yokuhlala ndawonye! Amapharele awuphawu lokuchuma, ubuhle nokuzala. Kwaphela iminyaka yonke, lo mbhangqwana wakwazi ukuhlala ngokuqinile emndenini wabo womndeni futhi ukhule kakhulu. Kwakungekho kuphela abantwana, kodwa kakade abazukulu. Indoda nomkami bakwazi ukugcina ubuhle bemicabango yabo futhi badlulisele kulolu chungechunge ezizukulwaneni ezilandelayo. Ngokwesiko, ngomshado weparele, oshade naye unikeza isigamu sesibili umgexo weparele, inani lamaparele okulingana nenani leminyaka lahlala ndawonye.
Ruby wedding
Kwagubha iminyaka engu-40 yomshado. Umbhangqwana oshadile uye wahlangabezana novivinyo, ubunzima nezinkinga eziningi. Ubudlelwane buzuze imibala ebalulekile, njenge-ruby ngemuva kokupholisa nokusika. Umbala obomvu welitshe lifanekisela igazi elilodwa elidalwe yilo mbhangqwana futhi lihlelwe ngesimo sesizukulwane esisha.
Yamukelwa ukunikela izindandatho zerubhi.
Umshado wegolide
Ngiphile ndawonye iminyaka engamashumi amahlanu! Kwaphela isigamu sekhulu leminyaka, sidluliselwe ngesandla, indoda nomkayo bakwazi ukukhulisa izingane, abazukulu, mhlawumbe ngisho nabazukulu. Ukuba nezinto eziyigugu kakhulu zegolide - umlingiswa omnene "ongenakwenzeka", okwazi ukusebenzisana ngomoya wokuvumelana nabanye abantu, kungenzeka.
IJubile, njengombuso, igubha kumbuthano omncane wezihlobo eziseduze. Baphinde bazizwa njengomlobokazi nomkhwenyana womshado nabo baphinde baphendukela izindandatho zomshado.
Umshado we-Diamond
Ukugujwa kweminyaka engu-60 yomshado. I-brillant, igugu elihlala njalo, kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo lalibhekwa njengomnikazi wezinto zokwelapha kanye ne-amulet enhle kakhulu esiza ngesikhathi esilukhuni. Ngakho abashadile, abaye bazuza okuhlangenwe nakho okubalulekile kokuphila, bayakwazi ukunikeza iseluleko neseluleko esiwusizo ukuba baphume kule nkinga.
Ngonyaka weshumi namashumi ayisithupha wokunikeza imikhiqizo ehlotshiswe ngedayimane.
Crown Wedding
Iminyaka engamashumi ayisikhombisa nanhlanu kusukela ngosuku lomshado! Iholide elingajwayelekile, futhi ngenxa yalokho liholide elihle kakhulu, lihlelwe amaqhawe ezingane zabo nabazukulu babo. Lo mbhangqwana ndawonye wawunqobe konke ubunzima, akukho lutho olungahle luphule futhi lubhubhise inyunyana yabo. IJubane ngumqhele womshado kanye nomqhele ubeka ikhanda.
Uhlu lweminyaka yokugubha lomshado kuleziphetho. Futhi ekugcineni, labo abasanda kushada abasanda kushada, ngifuna ukufisa ukubekezela, ukuhlakanipha nokuzimisela ukuletha injabulo kumuntu osondelene kakhulu futhi othandekayo - isigamu sakho sesibili nsuku zonke - ukugubha ngokuphepha kwakho "Crown Wedding".
Manje uyakwazi ukubiza yonke imikhosi yomshado. Sifisa ukuba uhlale nesigamu sakho sesibili ngaphambi kwedayimane!