Njalo intombazane iphupho lomshado omuhle. Kodwa-ke, intsha yanamuhla ayinaso njalo ithuba lokudlala umshado ngesilinganiso esikhulu. Kodwa namanje ngifuna lolu suku lukhunjulwe isikhathi eside. Ngaleso sikhathi lapho kuphakama umbuzo: indlela yokugubha umshado kumbuthano omncane. Eqinisweni, ukuze ugubha umnandi futhi uthakazelise, akudingekile ukudubula ihholo elikhulu, mema abaculi abadumile bese ugibela isikebhe. Ukuze ukwazi ukugubha umshado kumbuthano omncane, udinga ukuqonda okufanele ukucindezela nokuthi ungabela kanjani izimali ngendlela efanele.
Izindawo zokugubha
Ngakho-ke, uma unquma ukugubha umshado ngenani elincane labantu, ungahlela kusihlwa endlini. Futhi, uma unendlu enhle yezwe, futhi igceke lisesimweni esihle sezulu, ungagubha umshado emoyeni omusha. Eqinisweni, kuyathakazelisa kakhulu futhi kuyinqobo. Ukugubha ngembuthano omncane ngale ndlela, ungahlela umkhosi ngesitayela saseMelika. Phela, abantu abaningi bachitha imishado yabo evulekile.
Uma unquma ukugubha lo mkhosi nomndeni, kulokhu, ifulethi lizofika kahle. Kodwa kusengaphambili kufanele kudalwe ukuze kube nomuzwa wokuthi namuhla kwakuhlwa kusihlwa. Uma ugubha kumbuthano omncane, lapho imali enkulu isindiswa, ungasebenzisa imali eyengeziwe ngemidwebo kanye netafula. Vumela endlini yakho kuleli holide ngeke kube khona amasaladi nezitsha, kodwa izitsha ezithakazelisayo ezingenakuhlungwa nsuku zonke. Ukwakha ifulethi, ungabiza umhlobiso noma ufune ngokuzimela ukuthenga ama-helium balls, amabhaluni nge-helium, izimbali, izibambo bese udala lezo zemihlobiso ezingeke zijabulise nje kuphela umakoti nomkhwenyana, kodwa nazo zonke izivakashi.
Umculo noMphathi Wezintambo
Okulandelayo, sizoxoxa ngendlela yokwenza umkhosi kumbuthano oqinile kumnandi ngempela. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi intsha ayinayo imali eyanele yokuqasha umphathi wezintambo nabaculi. Eqinisweni, lokhu akuyona inkinga enjalo yomhlaba njengoba kungase kubonakale kusukela ekuqaleni. Phela, embuthanweni wabangani kufanele kube nomuntu othanda futhi owazi ukuthi angabamema kanjani wonke umuntu. Yilokho, futhi ungacela ukuba umphathi wezinsizakalo kusihlwa kusihlwa. Kulesi simo, intsha ngeke ilahlekelwe, kodwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, iyophumelela. Emva kwakho konke, uma lokhu kungumngane wabo oseduze, khona-ke uyazi okuningi ngaye, futhi mayelana nobuhlobo bawo. Ngakho-ke, yonke into iyoba mnandi kakhulu futhi iyathakazelise, ngoba umphathi we-toastmaster uyazi nokuthi ubani okungcono ukuthi acabange ukuze afake ukuhleka, ngisho nezimo ezihamba phambili.
Ukuxazulula inkinga nabaculi nakho akunzima kakhulu. Iqiniso liwukuthi kunezinhlangano eziningi zokuqala ezizosebenza ngenjabulo kulo mkhosi ngenkokhelo ephansi kunezingoma eziye zathola ngale ndlela isikhathi eside. Uma ubuza abangani, khona-ke othile uzoba nabangani abangabanikazi abangakusiza futhi bajabulele umphakathi.
Ukugubha ngomjikelezo omncane kusho ukuthi umkhosi uzoba usondelene kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, kulobu busuku, awudingi ihholo elikhulu endaweni yokudlela. Gubha umshado kumbuthano omncane futhi ungaba emgodleni omncane kodwa ocolile. Kunezikhungo ezinjalo kuwo wonke amadolobha, udinga nje ukubheka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umkhosi kuleso cafe uzokubiza kakhulu kakhulu kunokuqasha ehholo lokudlela.
Izivakashi
Ukuze ugubhe lo mkhosi ngenani elincane labantu, umkhwenyana nomakoti, kuyadingeka ukunquma ukuthi ngubani oyomema, ngoba uma kukhona abantu abaningi eqenjini noma ngaphezulu kunobusha, khona-ke omunye umuntu uzoba nesithukuthezi. Yingakho udinga ukuzama, ukuze wonke umuntu ajabule futhi athole ama-interlocutors ngezifiso. Uma kugubha kumbuthano omncane, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungavumeli noma yikuphi ukuphikisana, ngoba zonke izivakashi zizoqina zibe ingxabano noma impikiswano futhi maduzane ukunqoba kuyoyiphutha.
Futhi ekugcineni, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi eqinisweni, umkhosi kumbuthano omncane awufani kakhulu nedili elikhulu. Yibo nje abantu abathokozela kakhulu abantu abasha futhi bafuna ukwabelana nabo injabulo ngosuku oluhle kakhulu futhi oluhle kakhulu baya emkhosini onjalo.