Ngubani ophuza ekomelweni lami?
Isidingo sokumaka insimu sasizuzwe njengefa kusukela okhokho bethu abakude (ngokusho kukaDarwin!), Lapho homo sapiens engakabi khona emvelweni. Zonke izilwane zithola indawo yazo ekhethekile, evikela ngokuzenzekela ekuhlaselweni kwabantu abangabazi - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingunaphakade noma yesikhashana. Ukuvikelwa kwesidleke ukubonakaliswa kwesimo sokuzimela. Phela, uma unezindonga ezine ezihlukene, akukho mimoya noma imvula esabekayo, futhi izilwane ezidliwayo azikwazi ukungena enqabeni enjalo. Siqaphele ukuthi lapho sihlezi endaweni yokubhuka ekamelweni elisha, okokuqala sikhetha umbhede wethu wokubhaliswa kwabantu abasengozini. Efulethini lakhe, futhi, shiya uphawu - ubeke izintambo ze-napkins, uhlele izitsha nama-trinkets. Lezi zinto aziyona nje izindlela zokubamba isikhala esiningi. Akungabazeki ukuthi othile ovela ekhaya uzobeka isithombe sakho ozithandayo ngqo eduze nenja yakho ye-porcelain. I. Yiqiniso, sikhetha igumbi (uma indawo yezimvume zezindlu!) Noma sihlomisa ikona lethu.
Yiqiniso, eNtshonalanga Yurophu kunesinye isitayela semfashini - hhayi ukufihla, kodwa ukuvula, ngaleyo ndlela kubonisa ukuthi ungahlela kanjani isikhala endlini encane. Futhi lapha kufika iphuzu lokungacabangi. Yenziwe amakamelo okugeza, izindlu zangasese ezinezicabha zengilazi. Futhi ikakhulukazi phambi kwe-front-garde interiors shower cabins ifakwe ngisho namakamelo aphilayo kanye ... ku-loggias.
Like, yini esingayifihla? Kodwa-ke, kulokhu kubonakala sengathi kuvulekile kunomthelela othile wokunwetshwa - ngakho-ke ngimemezela umhlaba ngami futhi ngandisa indawo yami yethonya. Thatha esitokisini egumbini lokuphumula phambi kwabangane noma emgodini wabadluli-ngokubona - sitshele ukuthi ngubani oyinhloko lapha.
Igumbi lokungena: Ayikho ingeniso?
Nokho, insimu yomuntu siqu akuyona nje igumbi elihlukile. Leli bhokisi elitholakala, ne-casket, nedayari, kanye noxhumana nabo eselula, ngisho nomculo. Bayiqaphele yini ukuthi intsha iyakuthanda ukuvula i-tape recorder noma ukufaka ama-headphone? Lokhu futhi kubonisa ubukhosi bayo. Ngendlela, izazi ze-psychologist ngomqondo wobumfihlo (indawo yangasese) zihlanganisa imizwelo, kanye nezidakamizwa, nokuthandwa kwelungu ngalinye lomndeni. Ngamanye amazwi, ukungena emphefumulweni ngemibuzo engalungile ukuphula insimu yangasese.
Iyini imiphumela yokuhlasela okunjalo? Vumbela ebhokisini lomunye umuntu - bese udala ngokuzenzekelayo ukunganeliseki komnikazi wayo. Umfana osemncane, ongekho emkhawulweni wakhe ongenakwa, angase ahoxiswe noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, aziphathe kabi - athole imikhuba eyingozi, abaleke ekhaya. Phendula ngobuhlungu ukwephulwa kwensimu yomuntu siqu nabantu abadala. Ngakho ukungavumelani, ukugoqa, ukufana - kuze kube ukuwa kwe "iselula yomphakathi". Noma kunjalo, zonke izingxabano mayelana "Nemayini! Ungaqapheli ukuthatha! "Ungakugwema uma uhlomisa kahle ikhoneni elihle kuwo wonke umuntu.
Hlukanisa futhi unqobe!
Abadali abakhulu bokuzimela kwangaphakathi yizingxenye. Bazokusiza ufunde ukuhlela isikhala endlini encane. Izithiyo akudingeki ukuba zibe phezulu. Kungaba yi-stenochki ephansi, namashalofu, nezincwadi zamabhuku, futhi imbali enkulu imile izitshalo eziningi zasendlini, ngisho nezihlalo noma ama-sofas. Ingabe ukhethe ikhoneni elitholile? Beka okungenani isihlalo esinomhlane omude, futhi uzobe uzizwa uwedwa. Ngendlela, indima yabalindi bomngcele impumelelo ingenza futhi izinto zangempela - i-vase enkulu yangaphandle, ithoyizi elithambile elimnandi. Yilokho okushiya ukubukeka nokubambezela ukunakwa kwabanye abavela kuwe. Omunye umqhubi wesikhala somuntu siqu ukukhanyisa kuhlelekile kahle.
Ukukhipha igumbi kungenzeka ngosizo lokukhanya okuphakathi, izibani zecala, izibani eziphansi. Ufuna ukuhlanganisa konke - vula umklami omkhulu ophahleni. Udinga izilinganiso ezincane zokucabangela - sebenzisa izikhala, izibani eziphansi, izibani ezikhanyayo (ukukhanya nesithunzi kuzobonisa ngokucacile i-cordons yendawo yangasese). Omunye uveza isikhala sombala wakhe. Umbala, ngokwesibonelo, ekamelweni elimhlophe eliyingxenye yodonga olumbala oluhlaza - futhi uthole indawo enhle yokuphumula. Kodwa-ke, yonke indlu efulethini inezimfihlo zayo zenduduzo.
Endaweni!
Ukuze uzizwe kahle ngesikhathi sokudla etafuleni ekhishini, ilungu ngalinye lomndeni kufanele lithathe indawo yakhe, ngaphambi kokuba bonke abendlu bavumelane phakathi kwabo - ngubani, ohlala kuphi. Ilungelo lokukhetha lokuqala livame ukunikezwa kumnikazi noma lowo oyinhloko ku: indlu. Khona-ke okwesibini, "umlawuli" wesithathu nokunye, ngokulandelana, bafuna indawo yabo. (Iphiramidi enjalo iphinde isuka ezilwaneni. Ubuholi obuphezulu bukhona ezinkenyeni.) Ngendlela, uma inkosi inika isivakashi sayo esihlalweni ekhishini, iyoyikhombisa umusa. Futhi lokhu kuzokuzwakala yizo zonke ezinye izakhamuzi zasefulethini.
Ikamelo lokuphumula lithatha ukuvuleka kwesikhala. Kodwa-ke, kudinga iziqhingi ezihlukene - emva kwakho konke, umndeni ungabuthela lapha emibuthweni kusihlwa ekhaya eliseduze. Omunye ufuna ukubuka i-TV, othile-funda. Ama-partition ehholo ayengeke afaneleke. Kodwa izinto ezisezingeni phansi, izikhanyisi nezibani eziphansi, izindawo zombala ezingavamile zizohlukanisa zibe izindawo eziningana ezikhululekile. Ngendlela, kuzo zonke izindlu udinga ukwenza indawo yokukhulumisana - lapho ungaxoxa khona nesithameli noma ngomunye nomunye. Kungaba ikona elihle egumbini lokuphumula - netafula elincane kanye nezihlalo ezimbalwa. Njengendlela yokukhetha - ungakwazi ukuhlomisa ibhakhodi. Futhi-ke, kuyadingeka ucabangele ukuhamba komkhaya. Endaweni yokunyakaza okusebenzayo kungcono ukubeka isihlalo sakho - i-melteshenie yaphakade izocasula kuphela.
Iphuzu elibalulekile ebalazweni lefulethi yihhovisi. Umnikazi uyamhlomisela ekuthandweni kwakhe. Kodwa-ke, ezimweni eziningi, owesifazane umxosha ngobumnene ukuze athathe isinqumo sangaphakathi. Futhi nasi iphutha elivamile labesifazane abaningi. Ngesizathu esithile kubonakala kubo ukuthi inhloko yomndeni idinga ifenisha elimnyama eliqinile. Le design isivele idala. Ukuhlonishwa kwamadoda kuzogcizelela ngodonga olumnyama. Futhi ifenisha ingaba imibala elula kakhulu. Abesifazane bakhulume umhlaba wabo wangaphakathi ngokusebenzisa umdlalo wokuthungatha nokuxhumana okuthintana nabo. Ngakho-ke, ekamelweni lezintombi (iKhabhinethi) kuyoba ne-velvet eningi, imithwalo epholile, izindwangu zesilika - konke okudala isimo sengqondo sokuthobeka.
Igumbi lokulala emndenini livame ukuba indawo emibili. Kodwa kulokhu "thina" kufanele sizwe kokubili "Mina". Abahleli bezingcweti abacebisi ukugcina izinto zalabo abashadile ekamelweni elifanayo. Okokuqala, iphunga lixutshwe - izambatho zomuntu wesilisa nowesifazane ziphunga ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene. Futhi okwesibili, ukuvula ikhabethe lesigamu sesibili, siyamnciphisa ilungelo lemfihlo yomuntu siqu. Ngendlela, iphesenti elincani kakhulu labashadile alinandaba nokulala ndawonye. Umuntu ufika ekhaya ephuzile kakhulu noma ephindaphindiwe ephusheni - futhi ukulala kwakhe okuthandekayo kakhulu kunomusa kakhulu. Lapha akufanele ukopishe izimbangi, futhi ulale ngokwehlukana - uma kungenamakamelo ahlukene, okungenani emibhedeni ehlukene. Futhi ukuxhumanisa okuxhuma phakathi kwemibhedqo ehlukanisiwe kungaba ikhephethi elikhulu elithambile - lizofaka isici sokudlala nokuhlelwa ekamelweni lokulala.
Abaningi bacabanga ngokucophelela ensimini yabantu abadala, kodwa bakhohlwe ngokuphelele ngesizukulwane esincane somndeni. Yiqiniso, kungalungile ukubeka ingane endaweni ehloniphekile kakhulu futhi ihambisane nayo yonke into yakhe - iyokhula ibe yinto enkulu kakhulu. Kodwa, ngokusho kukaTeresa Mayevskaya, ngokuqondene nezithakazelo zezingane kuyadingeka, njengeyabo. Bayiqaphele yini ukuthi izingane ezincane ziyakuthanda ukukhuphuka ngaphansi kwetafula, ukuklama ama-cottages kusuka emithonjeni? Ngakho-ke bazama ukwakha umhlaba ohambisana nosayizi wabo. Ngakho-ke, izindawo zezemidlalo kufanele zibe zincane. Isibonelo, umgqa ophansi webhedi lezinga elibili. Ingenhla ingane izolala, futhi ngezansi ukudlala. Igumbi lezingane lingaba lincane kakhulu, kodwa phakathi kwakho ungabeka itende - futhi lo mnqamulajuqu uyojabula ukukhathazeka eceleni kwakhe ngamadonki noma kumshini wokubhala. Umshini wokugqoka izingubo kanye namathoyizi kufanele uhlukaniswe. Akulungile ukugcina izinto zomntwana eshalofini esisodwa nabazali. Uma kunabantwana abaningana, kubalulekile ukunikeza ikhabhobho ngayinye yazo.
Izindawo zokutadisha nazo kufanele zihlukaniswe. Uma ufaka abalingani abambalwa kungenangqondo, ungafaka ucingo itafula, noma i-sill ende ye-window ukuze usebenzise i-plateau encane noma ibutho lezincwadi. Imininingwane ebalulekile, enganakwa abazali, yindawo yokuxhumana nabangane. Ikakhulukazi likhathazeka nentsha. Kodwa izingane ezincane nazo zinezingxoxo nabangani ku-ajenda. Hlela ingxenye yegumbi ukuze izingane zikwazi ukutshela izimfihlo zabo. Bese-ke bayokubonga kakhulu ngokukhathalela kwakho, futhi ukuxhumana okungokomoya phakathi kwakho kuyokhula kuphela. Phela, umsebenzi womndeni awufanele uhlukanise, kodwa ukuhlanganisa.