Usho ukuthini owesifazane okhulelwe?

Ngokuvamile, ngokushesha nje lapho owesifazane ekhulelwa, uqala ukuphupha. Futhi hhayi uhlobo ayesetshenziselwa ngalo, kodwa olumbala kakhulu, oluthakazelisayo futhi olungazelelwe. Usho ukuthini owesifazane okhulelwe?

Bathi iphupho lokuqala ukuthi owesifazane okhulelwe ayenalo mayelana nengane yakhe yesikhathi esizayo isiprofetho. Angazi ngempela ukuthi lokhu kuyiqiniso, kodwa izinsuku ezimbili ngaphambi kwe-ultrasound yokuqala, nginephupho elinjalo. Ngiya e-ultrasound, futhi owesifazane-i-ultrasound uthi: "Kubonakala sengathi intombazane". Futhi ucabanga ukuthi, ngihamba ngezinsuku ezimbili ngemuva kwe-ultrasound, owesifazane uthatha, nakuba ngiyazi amaphesenti ayikhulu ama-ultrasound namadoda okwenziwa lapha. Futhi yena, ehola isisu sakhe ngedivaysi, wathi izwi ngezwi, ukuthi ngiphupha: "Kubonakala sengathi intombazane!". Nakuba i-ultrasound yokuqala ingenakwenzeka njalo ukucabangela ngokunembile ubulili bomntwana ongakazalwa, kodwa indodakazi yami yazalwa! Ngokuvamile, amaphupho agqamile, amaphupho agqamile abesifazane abakhulelwe achazwa kalula. Uma owesifazane esesimweni, uhlale ecabanga ngakho. Mayelana nalokho yena, ingane yakhe yesikhathi esizayo. Indlela azizwa ngayo lapho, ukuthi ukhula kanjani, ukhula. Imicabango yakhe ihamba phambili, ekunakekeleni umntwana, ethenga imvuthuluka, mayelana nokuthi impilo izoshintsha kanjani emva kokuzalwa kwengane. Ngakho-ke, ngokuvamile ukhulelwe kakade ukhulile izingane.

Ngezinye izikhathi abesifazane abakhulelwe baphupha amaphupho angenangqondo. Ungabi namahloni. Mhlawumbe, ngenxa yokwesaba kokubangela okuthile kwengane ezayo, impilo esondelene yabashade igxila emkhakheni noma ize iphelile. Noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, abesifazane abaningi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa baqala ukukhangwa kakhudlwana kwezocansi. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi akukho ukwesaba ukukhulelwa okungadingeki futhi akudingeki ukuba uzivikele. Ngakho amaphupho anjalo.

Kodwa kaningi, amaphupho akhulelwe kanye nokuqothulwa kobulili okuhlobene nokuzalwa okuzayo, ingane ezayo. Ukuthi ukubeletha kunzima kakhulu, ingane izalwa nganoma yisiphi isici, ukuphambuka. Lona ulwazi lomama. Ngokwemvelo, akekho owazi ukuthi yonke into ingahamba kanjani ekubelethweni, okungaphazamisa inkambo evamile yokukhulelwa. Kodwa akudingekile ukucabanga ngokubi ngesikhathi sokubeletha kwengane. Funda futhi ubuke ama-movie asabekayo nokusakazwa. Khona-ke leli phupho liyoba nokuzola, ngaphandle kwama-nightmares.

Imizwelo emihle kakhulu, amabhayisikobho amahle, izinhlelo ezithakazelisayo! Cabanga kuphela okuhle! Futhi kungcono kakhulu ukwenza okuzilibazisa ngesikhathi ukhulelwe. Abesifazane abaningi bavele bethola amathalenta afihlekile. Zama ukudweba, ukubopha isiphambano noma ukugoqa nje - futhi kuhle, futhi ungakwazi ukulungisa udoti lomntwana ongakazalwa!

Elena Romanova , ikakhulukazi indawo