Ngakho-ke, ake siqale ukuthuthukisa uhlelo lwebhizinisi lokuphila nokusebenza.
Okokuqala, ngokungena ekuhlanganyeleni okusha, into yokuqala okudingayo ukuba unakekele ukwakha idumela elifanele. Leli iphuzu elibaluleke kunawo wonke, lapho uzobe uhlakulela khona umbono ngawe ngabantu abakuzungezile, ikakhulukazi, umphathi wakho kanye nozakwethu. Yiba njalo othembekile kakhulu. Kungcono iqiniso elibi kunamanga amnandi, kodwa emsebenzini, nakakhulu amanga akufanelekile. Uma sekwephuzile ngesizathu esithile, kungcono ukuvuma ngobuqotho ukuthi unecala futhi ujeziswe. Uma ungalungile kunoma yiluphi udaba, vuma futhi uxolise.
Ukuthembisa okuthile, njalo ugcine izithembiso zakho, futhi ungalokothi uthembise noma yini ongenakuyenza, ongeke ukwazi ukubhekana nayo. Izithembiso kumelwe zigcwaliseke ngesikhathi esifanele. Uma ungenayo isikhathi sokuqeda okuthile, kungcono ukuxwayisa ozakwabo noma umphathi wakho kusengaphambili ukuze ugweme izinkinga ezingadingekile. Zama ukungenzi amaphutha namaphutha. Uma kwenzeka lokhu, vumela ubuholi bazi ukuthi uzokwenza konke okusemandleni ukulungisa amaphutha akho. Iziphathimandla kumele ziqonde ukuthi awuhlali phansi, kodwa zama ukuqhubekela phambili nazo zonke amandla akho. Lena yindawo enhle kakhulu yokukhula komsebenzi.
Ungagxeki osebenza nabo, ikakhulukazi ngemuva kweminyango yabo. Inhlebo ayamukelekile noma yikuphi, futhi ukukhulumisana ne-gossips kugwenywe. Ingabe ufuna ukugcizelela? Khuluma njalo ngokuthula, ngokucacile, ngokunembile, ngokuvimbela kanye nangeqiniso. Ngakho uzolalela njalo.
Ngezinye izikhathi abajwayelene nabo abahle bayasiza ekuthuthukiseni izinga lezemisebenzi, ngoba bayakusiza futhi banikeze usizo lonke. Uma ungakaze uthole abajwayelene nabo endaweni yakho yomsebenzi, khona-ke udinga ukwandisa isigaba sabangane bakho bebhizinisi. Ukwenza lokhu, ungaba yilungu leqembu eliqeqeshiwe elihlotshaniswa nemisebenzi yakho, ukuya kuzo zonke izenzakalo zenkampani, ukuxhumana ngokuhlanganyela futhi ufunde abantu abasha. Uma othile edinga usizo lwakho, unganqabeli. Ukuze uthole ubuhlobo obuhle, udinga, okokuqala, ukuthi ufunde kanjani ukusiza abantu. Yiba nomusa futhi unomusa. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, ungazivumeli ukuba usebenzise umusa wakho. Ukuba njalo phambi kweziphathimandla, uhlanganyele kuwo wonke amaphrojekthi aqhubekayo, lokhu kuzokwandisa ulwazi lwakho.
Akudingekile ukuhlanganisa impilo nokuphila komuntu siqu. Ngisho noma ngabe "abangane" ikakhulukazi osebenza nabo, akufanele ungene ebuhlotsheni obuseduze emsebenzini.
Uma ikhanda lakho lizalwa ngombono omuhle wokuthuthukiswa komsebenzi wakho, ungasheshi ukuwufaka kumakhokheli akho. Okokuqala, cabanga ngokucophelela ukuthi kuzolimaza osebenza nabo, ukuthi kuzosithinta kanjani imisebenzi yenkampani, baxoxe ngalomqondo nomunye umsebenzi. Imibono yakho enengqondo futhi elinganiselayo "yezinguquko" iyakwazi ukukhombisa uhlangothi olungcono ngaphambi kobuholi.
Uma, njengoba uthola umsebenzi, abangane bakho baqala ukucasuka kuwe, ukuthi ubapha isikhathi esincane kakhulu, cabanga ngokuthi umsebenzi awuwona wonke ukuphila. Ngokushesha, lapho abangane behamba kude nawe, uzobona ukuthi kunzima ukuba yedwa. Lapho uhlangana nabangani, ungathathi konke ukuxhumana kwakho ngezindaba zomsebenzi wakho omangalisayo. Ngitshele into esemqoka, ngoba abangane baye baqoqa izindaba eziningi ezithakazelisayo. Ungazigabisi futhi uziqhenye kubangani bakho ngobukhulu bomholo wakho noma ukubaluleka komsebenzi wakho. Laba bangabangani bakho, bangajabula kuphela ngempumelelo yakho!
Ungalokothi ume lapho. Isiqubulo sabo bonke abantu abacebile akusikho umzuzu endaweni. Uma wenze ukukhushulwa, ungayeki ukuqhubekela phambili. Ungakwazi ukuchitha isikhathi esithile ekuzifundiseni, ekufundeni okwandayo. Funda, funda izindawo ezintsha zomsebenzi wakho, thuthukisa amakhono. Ulwazi olusha nolusha luyisandla esibaluleke kakhulu emsebenzini wakho. Kuzoba usizo kakhulu kuwe ukuba ufunde izifundo ze-oratory. Phela, wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi ikhono lokukhuluma nomphakathi liyabongwa njalo. Uma kubonakala kuwe ukuthi ufike ezindaweni eziphakeme zobuchwepheshe, khona-ke lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esibi, uthi ushiye ukuhamba phambili. Kulokhu, ungathatha iholidi, uphumule, uphinde uphinde usebenzise amandla amasha ukuze unqobe ukuphakama kwemisebenzi.