Ubugqila Bomsebenzi
Sekuyisikhathi eside iningi lezazi zezenhlalo libhekisisa umbuzo wokubola kwemindeni ejabulayo ngenxa yokuthi omunye wabashade uphumelele emsebenzini wakhe. Kunemibono emibili ngale ndaba.
Ezinye izazi zithi ukuphumelela kwabesifazane kuyaphikisana. Abesifazane, abahola imali engaphezu kwamadoda, bayovele "baxhaphaze izindlebe zabo." Okubalulekile ukuhlukahluka kwesihloko esithi "Ngithola okuningi futhi nginelungelo lokufuna". Izinga eliphakeme lempumelelo emsebenzini, njengomthetho, lenza umuntu anqume, aqiniseke futhi afune. Kodwa lapha kukhona namatshe angaphansi kwamanzi - ukuphumelela kuveza ukuziqhenya, ukuziqhenya, ubugovu. Yingakho ososayensi bezenhlalakahle beqiniseka ukuthi inhlanhla nokuziqhenya kwabesifazane kunkulu kakhulu kunezo zobulili obuqinile. Ukubonakaliswa kokuphakama kwabo emadodeni kunamathekisthi ajulile ebesifazane.
Ukuvumelana kuyadingeka kukho konke. Ukuthonywa yimpumelelo yabesifazane akumele kubekwe icala. Akuyona nje indaba yokuhawukela, kodwa lowo msebenzi usuke ube yintando yokuphila. Ake sibheke izibonakaliso eziyinhloko abazishoyo ukuthi baveza umsebenzi wabo njengesigqila.
Ukuzwa uphakeme kwabanye. Ngingumqeqeshi futhi ngiyaziqhenya, futhi nxazonke kukhona ukuzitika ngokweqile.
Noma yimuphi umsebenzi ongahambisani nomsebenzi ukuchitha isikhathi. Ukuhlwa okuthandana nabathandekayo bakho, ukuchitha isikhathi esimnandi nabangani - ngokubona kwakho ukuchitha isikhathi. Lesi yisikhubekiso okudingeka usilahle ngaphandle kokuphazamisa umsebenzi wakho.
Ngesicelo somuntu othandekayo ukupheka ukudla, utshela umlimi ukuthi awuzalwanga ukuma esitofu. Umgomo wakho ukufinyelela eziqongweni. Futhi ukuzalwa kwengane kuzokuphendula ube "ikhaya leqembu".
Ubuchwepheshe bungumsebenzi wakho oqhubekayo. Isibonakaliso esiyinhloko sobugqila bokuqashwa kuyisimo esihlala njalo esiyithola emiphumeleni yakho. I-Etayefory iphezulu nakakhulu kunokucindezeleka okuqhubekayo kokuxubana emsebenzini.
Futhi, ekugcineni, into engavamile kakhulu - wena, ulala phansi ehlombe lomuntu othandekayo, emva kwesidlo sangempela sokuthanda, cabanga nje ngomsebenzi wakho!
Dlulisa ama-Myths
Cabanga ngakho, kepha uma ungomunye walabo besifazane abakulungele ukuyeka izimpilo zabo ngenxa yemiphumela yabo yomsebenzi. Uhlale ugcizelela ukubaluleka komsebenzi wakho, kodwa ukunciphisa kwakho kubonisa ukunganaki kwakho ngokuqaliswa kwakho kobuchwepheshe. Cishe, le ndoda ingaphansi kwethonya lezinganekwane ezasakazwa emjikelezweni wesilisa womsebenzi we-Ozhensky. Ngakho-ke, uma ibha yempumelelo yakho ebuhlotsheni yenza umthelela omubi, kufanele ubonise amehlo omuntu wakho othandekayo esimweni sangempela sezinto bese uphonsela zonke lezi zindabakwane.
Inkolelo yokuqala. Indoda yangempela akufanele ikhiphe isiteleka semisebenzi nhlobo.
Ngokwezengqondo zengqondo, ukhetho lokuqala empilweni yommeli wezocansi ezilinganayo eminyakeni eyi-16. Kule minyaka yobudala, owesifazane ukhetha ukuthi owesifazane uyabesifazane futhi ucacile ngokulandela izinyathelo zomholi, noma unikeza okuthandayo ngokuphumelela komuntu kanye nokuphumelela komsebenzi. Udala umndeni, unabantwana, okhula ngaleso sikhathi futhi, ngokuya ngobude bawo kusuka esidlekeni semindeni, lona wesifazane uzinikela futhi ukuze asebenze. Uma owesifazane ehlukana nengqondo nekhono elihle kakhulu, ngokushesha noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuyoba ngokulinganayo endleleni yokuziqhenya kochwepheshe.
Ingane yesibili. Abesifazane abakwazi ukuba ngabaholi .
Eqinisweni, lona wesifazane unendlela ephumelelayo kakhulu, kodwa engezona ecindezelayo yokuthonya abanye, ngakho-ke labesifazane, njengombuso, baphatha ngaphandle kokucindezelwa, okuzuzisa kakhulu ukukwazi ukudala kwabaphansi. Ngokufanayo kuyasiza ukuyivula kalula. Isitayela somphathi womuntu ngobulili obuhle siyamangalisa kakhulu. Isebenzisa indlela engeyona yendabuko, ehlanganisa impahla yayo ukuba ikhangele futhi ngaleyo ndlela izuze uthando lonke futhi idonse impumelelo.
Inganekwane yesithathu. Abesifazane bahlakaniphile ngokwanele ukuze bathole impumelelo enkulu ezingeni lobuchwepheshe.
Sekuyiminyaka engaphezu kweyishumi ukucacisa ikhono lokwenza umsebenzi othize lisetshenziselwa ukusebenzisa coefficient yengqondo ye-aykju. Njengomthetho, engxenyeni yesilisa yalomphakathi lesi sibonakaliso siphezulu. Kodwa namhlanje, i-aykju ibonakala ingaphansi kwe-ecu - i-coefficient engokomzwelo. Ngokusho kososayensi, akekho ohlakaniphile ongakwazi ukufika ezindaweni eziphakemeyo, ekhuphuka phezulu ekhishini lakhe phezulu. Ngokuvamile, ukwehluleka emsebenzini akuhlobene nokufunda nokubhala, kodwa ukungahlali esimweni somzwelo. Yilokhu ukuqonda okungokomzwelo okuthinta ngokuqondile izinga lokudala lokucabanga komuntu. Futhi yi-ecu eyisihluthulelo sempumelelo namuhla. Izindinganiso eziyinhloko zingacatshangwa ngokuqondile ukuthobeka, intuition, charm, ubuqili, ukwethembeka, ukuzwelana, ukuvuleka, ukubekezela. Njengoba uqaphele, zonke lezi ziqu ze-qualitiesexist ngokuqondile kumuntu ocansini obuhle. Ngakho-ke, ubani ongaphikisana neqiniso lokuthi ikusasa liqondene nabesifazane!
Ingane yesine. Imikhaya nomsebenzi yizinto ezimbili eziphambene ngokuphelele nalokho okushoyo kanye nesisekelo somqondo.
Umphakathi uvame ukukhalaza ukuthi empilweni yowesifazane wangempela, umsebenzi akudingeki ukuba udlale indima ebalulekile. Phela, isisekelo sempilo yowesifazane yindlu, umndeni, izingane. Yiqiniso, konke lokhu kunomqondo, kodwa akufanele sikhohlwe izifiso zamakhosikazi. Amadoda amaningi asaba umbono wokuthi owesifazane uzama ukunikeza ingane, ngoba akukho lutho oluqhathaniswa nenjabulo yomsebenzi ophumelelayo. Ingane, njengomthetho, ingenza ukuphila komuntu abe yi-careerist kube yinkinga yamabhilidi nezinsipho, ngaleyo ndlela emenze abe ngumama wendlu, hhayi owesifazane ophumelelayo webhizinisi. Kodwa iphuzu liwukuthi labesifazane babhekisela emisebenzini hhayi njengomuntu onzima. Kuwesifazane, ukuziqaphela nokwenza lokho akuthandayo, kuphakeme kunanoma yini enye.
Inganekwane yesihlanu. Bonke abasebenzi bezinkani .
Yiqiniso, le nganekwane inelungelo lokuphila, kodwa kuphela kuleso simo, uma kukhona owesilisa olahlekelwe eduze nowesifazane, lowo wesifazane uzama ukufakazela icala lakhe.
Imikhandlu eminingi eyisisekelo yokulungisa isihloko
Ukukhula komsebenzi akuthinti ubuhlobo emndenini abukwazi ukugxeka lo msebenzi nomsebenzi wakhe phansi. Awudingi ukukhombisa ukunganaki ngemisebenzi yakho yasekhaya noma ukudela ukuchitha isikhathi sakho emsebenzini. Futhi ekugcineni, akudingekile ukunciphisa zonke izihloko zokuxoxa ezimpumelelo zakho, vumela lo muntu azizwe futhi abe umholi ebuhlotsheni bakho!