Ukungahambisani nobulili, ukuzisola okukhulu komlobi we "Kama Sutra", kuyinto evamile emibhangqwaneni eye yaba ndawonye iminyaka eminingana, futhi kuyaqondakala, njengoba usebenzisana nenyoka futhi ubonisa ukuthi uyindoda enhle kunazo zonke esifundeni akusekho isidingo, wenza imidlalo ephumelelayo ngokuphindaphindiwe izinombolo eziye zajabulisa owesilisa, futhi zizolala ngomoya ophansi, kodwa indoda, njengomuntu ophilayo, ayithandi ukufanana, futhi uma ungazami, kodwa ukusekela isinyathelo sakhe ngokuziqhenya, kunethuba elikhulu ukuthi lakho umdlalo ohlangene uzophela ngokushesha noma kamuva draw rustnym.
Umsebenzi wokulungisa
Ingabe uqinisekile ukuthi uvele uthatha "uhlelo olungcono kakhulu" kokubili? Noma awunasithakazelo ekuzameni okuthile ngale ndoda? Ungesabi ukuzivuma ukuthi ubudlelwane kanye nobulili ikakhulukazi akusenakukuthokozisa. ithuba lokukungcwaba njengombhangqwana, nokusikisela - sekuyisikhathi sokuvuselela imizwa, baze bagcine sebekhuni.
Kodwa ngokuvamile kuvame ukubangela ukukhathala. Vumelana ukuchitha kusihlwa ngaphandle kwe-TV, amanethiwekhi omphakathi kanye ne-dolgivrazgovgorov ngabalingani abangenangqondo - futhi amathuba okuqedela ekamelweni lizokhula izikhathi eziningi. Isidlo sothando esidala somusa (okungcono hhayi nge-pasta ku-Navy, kodwa ngokuthile okunamandla kakhulu) futhi akulimazi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo kuzoba nesikhathi sokutshela umakhethi mayelana nezingubo zangaphansi ezinhle ezikuwe kuphela, noma mayelana namathoyizi obulili obuphambene nawe obona ku-inthanethi. Kodwa uzilungiselele ukuthi indoda izonikela ukuzama konke ngesikhathi esisodwa, ngakho-ke uma amathoyizi, ngokubona kwakho, eningi kakhulu, kungcono ungabalandeli ebusuku.
Awucabangi ngawe
Ufuna kakhulu ukummangalisa ekuqaleni kwenkaba yakho, ukuthi uyinikeze konke. Kodwa-ke, le ndoda yahlaba umxhwele futhi kusukela ngaleso sikhathi akafuni ngisho nokuzwa ukwesaba kwakho: "Ake silale phansi." Ukukwazi ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile ngezifiso zomuntu embhedeni kubaluleke kakhulu, kepha umkhuba wokuba nesithakazelo esifisweni somlingani uyigugu nakakhulu. Isoka lakho alizami ukwenza, futhi kuphelile njalo phambi kwakho? Susa izinsolo zakho kuwe, ngaphandle kwezinto ezilodwa: kubonakala sengathi uxhumana nomuntu ongekho, kodwa kuthiwani uma ungamniki nje ithuba lokukugcoba, ngokuzenzekelayo uphume ngamakhahle ngenjabulo yakhe? Kuyinto enhle kakhulu ukwenza uthando kubathandekayo bakho, kodwa ukuthola ama-orgasms akho akuyona into encane kakhulu.
Umsebenzi wokulungisa
Ukuzikhukhumeza njalo isoka, kubonisa zonke izindlela ezintsha zobulili - kungcono kakhulu. Okungenani, kubonakala sengathi awuqiniseki ngezifiso zakho noma wena. Ingabe uhlale udinga isiqiniseko sokuthi ungumthandi omuhle? Uyesaba ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukugcina umuntu ngaphandle kokubonisa uthando lwakho? Ngikholelwa ukuthi okuhle kakhulu kobulili bakho kuyoba yisikhathi lapho ezwa khona njengeqhawe, ngoba indoda iyathandeka ukuba ibe yindoda ujabule ngamakhono akhe obulili. Uwedlule isikhathi eside isikhathi eside, ngakholala emhlane wakho uphumule.
Uhlanya mayelana ne-ex yakho
Ingabe uqhathanisa bonke abalingani abasha ne-ex-idol, futhi wabalwa? Ubungekho omuhle kunoma ubani njengoba uhamba naye, futhi awufuni ngisho nethuba labasha abazofakazela ukuthi uhlukile? Kodwa ake ngithi: impilo kule ndawo ayigodi ngisho, kodwa ihamba ngezinyathelo ezincane.
Awazi ukuphumula
Awucabangi ngakudala, awucabangi ngokubi, awucabangi ngokugqoka ukuhlukumezeka, kodwa usacabanga ngaso sonke isikhathi! Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi amabele alenga, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isisu asizange sichithe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhamba ngesigqi ngokwanele nokuthi uhlehliswa kanjani ngesikhathi ucansi lomlomo. Yebo, u-paranoid, umngane.
Umsebenzi wokulungiswa kwezigwegwe
Khumbula lezo zimo, izenzo kanye nokuthinta okukujabulisayo kakhulu kunakho konke, futhi ugxila kuzo, ngakho-ke kuyoba lula ukuphumula. Futhi ubuze la madoda, yiziphi izikhathi ozithandayo kakhulu. Yilungele lokho akubiza ngegama lakho elingathandwa kakhulu. Lena yithuba elihle kakhulu lokusebenza phezu kwemishini ndawonye futhi ... ukuxubana komunye nomunye. Nakuba ungasebenza ngaphandle kwekamelo lakho lokulala. I-Yoga, i-Pilates, i-Spa - konke lokhu kukufundisa ukuphumula nokukhulula ikhanda lakho emicabangweni uma kunesidingo.
Umsebenzi wokulungisa
Okokuqala, thatha isikhathi futhi uphelele ukugijimela kubantu abafuna ukwenza okuhle. Yiba yedwa bese ucabanga ukuthi kungani ngaphambili kwakugxile kakhulu ekhanda. Ake sithi wayenguwe wokuqala. Futhi kuthiwani uma ubambezele inyanga noma ezimbili, kanti owokuqala wawuyi-amehlo e-brown Misha kusuka eqenjini lezemidlalo? Uma ucabanga ngakho, akuzona okubi kakhulu, futhi kungcono nakakhulu ukuzikhipha.
Icala liyingozi nakakhulu, uma owake waba ngowokuqala, wayethanda kakhulu iqembu. Ukuzizwa okunjalo akudluli ngaphandle kokulandelela, kodwa kwenzeka ukuthi akudluli nhlobo. Kodwa namanje uzama ukuhleka usulu uthando oludlule ngendlala, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa konke okukhomba esikhathini esidlule.
Futhi i-candy wrapper ekhunjulwayo, nendandatho yesafire, enikezwa ngokudumisa igama-usuku, - ungakukeli lutho. Futhi kaningi kuvumelana neziphakamiso futhi uzibandakanye ezenzweni ezintsha, ukuphazamisa isiteleka esilandelayo somuntu oshiywe. Kodwa ungazishiyi esivumelwaneni sezocansi, esingatholi injabulo, kodwa ukhathaza izinzwa bese ulungisa inhliziyo ephukile. Isazi sengqondo, abangane, ukuzindla - ngayinye okumele ukhethe kuyo.
Unecala nje
Wonke umuntu oseduze, ngisho nomagazini owuthandayo, vele ukhulume ngocansi: mnandi, ujabule futhi unempilo. Kodwa wena, ngeshwa, awukwazi ukwabelana ngentshiseko evamile, ngoba kuwe ucansi kungenzeka ukuthi kukhona into edidayo, engafanelekile futhi eyenza umuzwa wecala.
Umsebenzi wokulungiswa kwezigwegwe
Kunzima ukukhohlwa ukuthi iziyalezo ezihlonishwayo, okwakusebuntwaneni ezasakazwa ngabaholi bekilasi noma kubazali bezigunyazi. Zonke lezi zengqondo ezibonakala zingenangqondo mayelana "nokuzikhohlisa" kanye "namantombazane amnandi" nokho zizenza bazizwe bephila ngempilo yabantu abadala.
Kodwa uyaqonda yini ukuthi amazwi omama wayengumzamo ongekuhlakanipha wokukusindisa emaphutha? Akungabazeki ukuthi manje esinye sezihlobo ezinengqondo ecacile sizokutusa ukuthi "uhlale kude nabantu abathandekayo." Bonke bazojabula uma uhlela impilo yakho siqu. Kodwa ukwenza lokhu - akubonakali ukuxhuma nomuntu ohloniphekile futhi ngokushesha vakashela ihhovisi lokubhalisa ukuze wonke umuntu "afane" kubantu. " Ungabi namahloni 'okuthinta' ngisho namba encane yezinkampani ezifuna ukufuna umuntu ozoba naye okuhle ukuphatha ukwesaba kwakho ucansi.