Muva nje, ukuxilongwa "kokungabi nalutho" kubonakala njengesigwebo. Uma owesifazane eshada futhi engazange abelethe ingane, wayebhalwa ngokuzenzekelayo ngokuthi "ongewona u-virgin", futhi waphila impilo yakhe esekela odade bekhulisa abafowenu. Namuhla siyazi ukuthi ezimweni eziningi iphutha likhona kumlingani. Ngokwezibalo, imibhangqwana enjalo engapheli i-45%. Ngesikhathi engalali ngenxa yokungabi nabesifazane - kuphela 40%. Kuzo zonke ezinye izimo, izinkinga zihlobene nabo bobabili, kodwa ngisho nangaphansi kwezimo ezinzima kangaka, odokotela bakwazi ukusiza abantu ukuqaphela iphupho labo. Lesi sihloko sinikeza amathiphu amaningana ewusizo wokuphatha ukwelashwa ngamakhambi abantu futhi ngosizo lwemithi yendabuko.
Kungani kukhona okungalungile ngawe?
"Angikwazi ukukhulelwa ngonyaka nengxenye. Uye wahlolwa. Isazi sezinzwa zendawo sangitshela ukuthi ngilungile, futhi wangeluleka ukuba ngibheke umyeni wami. Ngamncenga ukuba enze i-spermogram. Ngenxa yalokho, kwavela ukuthi une-teratozoospermia, akuwona wonke ama-spermatozoa anesakhiwo esivamile. Siyabonga uNkulunkulu, emva kwezinyanga ezintathu zokwelashwa, utshelwe ukuthi ulungile. Kodwa angizange ngikhulelwe! Ngemva kwalokho sanquma ukuya esikhungweni sokuzala. Futhi kuphela emva kokuhlola okude kwatholakala ukuthi kimi akuyona yonke into ehlelekile. Ngokuvamile, kwakudingeka ngilenze i-laparoscopy. Ngosuku lapho bengitshele khona ngokuqondile: "Okhulelwe!" - kubonakala sengathi isimangaliso senzeke. " Izindaba ezifanayo zivame kakhulu emaforamu wabesifazane ku-Intanethi. Kule ndaba konke kwavela ngendlela efanele: kuqala ukuhlola umyeni, futhi kuphela umfazi. Ukuhlola ukuthi umuntu uyabiza futhi kulula kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, udinga ukukhipha ngokushesha ukhetho, lapho ukukhulelwa okufisayo kungenzeki "iphutha" lomuntu. Kuphela kulokhu, uma ukukhulelwa okwamanje kungenzeki, ungaqala ukuhlolwa okude nokubiza kowesifazane. Phela, izizathu zokwelashwa kwabesifazane zingaphezu kokuphindwe kabili njengokuntula kwesilisa. Ngakho-ke, ukuze ufike eqinisweni, udinga ukuhamba ngezinombolo eziningi zokuhlola nokuhlaziya.
Ngakho, ukuxilongwa kwenziwa. Kwakukhona ukuthi inkinga ilele ngqo emzimbeni wesifazane, futhi "icala" lomyeni wakhe lilungile. Manje udokotela kufanele anikeze, ngokuya ngezimbangela zokungazalwa, indlela yokuqeda. Futhi lapha kuyadingeka ukuba bonke ababambiqhaza kulo mcimbi babe nesineke. Njengoba akudingekile kakhulu ukuthi ukwelashwa okubekiwe kuzophumelela ngokushesha. Uma indlela eyodwa ingasizi, kuzomele uzame enye. Futhi kuze kube sekukhethweni okugcina, okungabhekwa njengomama wokuzikhethela nge-donor sperm (ngekhasi lomnikelo). Kodwa lokhu kuyindlela yokuzikhethela!
Ukwelashwa kokungabi nalutho ngodaka
Ukuphathwa kokwelashwa ngodaka kungabizwa ngokuthi indlela yabantu. Sekusetshenziselwe amakhulu eminyaka. Ukwelashwa kwezidakamizwa kungasiza ngokuzimela kuphela ngezimbangela ezithile zokungasebenzi - ngokuvimbela amashubhu, kwezinye izimo ukugcoba. Zonke ezinye izizathu (futhi okungenani izinkinga nomlingani) zishiyiwe. Okwamanje, izindawo zokuphulukisa zodaka neziphethu zamaminerali azishintshi kusukela ekhulwini lokugcina. Kuze kube manje abesifazane abaningi baya "ngemuva kwengane" endaweni ethile eSaki, futhi ukwelashwa okunjalo kusiza. Ngokwehlukana ukuthi namuhla ungadlulisa inhlolovo bese uthola kusengaphambili ukuthi kuyoba yini umqondo ekuvakasheleni i-resort endaweni yakho.
Ukukhuthazwa kwe-ovulation
Namuhla, ekwelapheni ukwelashwa kwe-ovulation (ngokuvamile lokhu kungukuphela kwesifo se-endocrine), odokotela basebenzisa indlela ehlanganisiwe. Banikezela uhlelo lokuthatha imithi, ukukhetha kubo kuye ngezimbangela ezibonakalayo zokungazalwa. Kungaba i-hormonal, izidakamizwa ze-antiviral, imithi yokuzivikela. Ngesikhathi ukwelashwa, i-ultrasound ihlolwe ngokusabela kwe-endometrium nokukhula kobuciko (ovule). Uma umjikelezo wokuqala wokuya esikhathini uyahluleka ukufeza imiphumela, lowo olandelayo unikezwa inkambo entsha, ehleliwe.
I-Laparoscopy
Uma izindlela zendabuko zokwelapha zingezenzi imiphumela efunayo, sebenzisa inqubo okuthiwa i-minimally invasive. Lapho ukusebenza kwenziwa ngaphandle kokucatshangelwa kwesiguli esiswini, ukuphathwa okunjalo (ukutadisha) kubizwa ngokuthi i-laparoscopy. Ngemuva kwe-punctures encane encane, i-laparoscope (ikhamera yevidiyo) nezinsimbi zifakwa emgodini. Ukuqhubeka kohlelo kukuvumela ukuba ulandele i-hardware eyinkimbinkimbi kusikrini sokuqapha. Esigabeni sokuqala, ukuxilongwa kuqhutshwa, lapho izimbangela zokungazalwa zicaciswa khona. Bese kulandela isigaba sesibili sokusebenza - kungukuqeda. Isibonelo, ukuchithwa kwezingqinamba phakathi kwezitho, ukususwa kwama-myomas wesibeletho njalonjalo kwenziwa. Amathuba okukhulelwa emva kwalokhu kwanda izikhathi eziningi.
Ukusabalalisa okufakelwayo
Kuyenzeka futhi kanjalo: indoda nomfazi baye badlulisa konke ukuhlolwa. Bathola ukuthi bakulungile, futhi akunakwenzeka ukukhulelwa ingane. Lokhu ngokuvamile kubangelwa ukungalingani kwabashade (ukungabi nalutho kwe-immunological) - yilo kanye icala lapho umzimba wesifazane uqala ukulahla isidoda sendoda yakho. Kulezi zibini, kunezindlela zokusiza ukukhiqiza, okunye okubizwa ngokuthi ukusabalalisa okufakelwayo. Eqinisweni, odokotela bamane nje basize inzalo ukuthi ingene emthonjeni we-fallopian - ukukhulelwa kulandela inkambo yemvelo emva kwenqubo enjalo. Ngokufanayo, kungenzeka ukuxazulula le nkinga uma kwenzeka umbhangqwana oshadile unenkinga ye-Rh. Noma kukhona ingozi kumyeni wezifo eziyingozi. Noma yena uyinyumba ngokuphelele. Kulesi simo, esikhundleni sesidoda sendoda ethandekayo, lona wesifazane ujojowe nge-donor sperm.
I-IVF: izingane ezivela ku-tube yokuhlola
Kwezinye izimo, ukugula kungelapheki futhi kungenakwenzeka ngokomzimba ukufeza umanyolo wemvelo. Isibonelo, ngokuvinjelwa okuphelele kokubili amashubhu we-fallopian. Kulesi simo, kunokwethenjelwa ngokwengeziwe ukunquma ngokushesha ngokufaka umanyolo we-in vitro (okufingqiwe - IVF). Igama elide elithi "okwehlukile" lihumusha ngempela - "ngaphandle komzimba." Okusho ukuthi ukukhulelwa ngokwakho kwenzeka kulokhu akukhona emzimbeni wesifazane, kodwa endaweni ekhethekile, njengoba bethi, "in vitro". Ukuze kusetshenziswe, owesifazane uthatha amaqanda ambalwa, nomyeni wakhe. Uma ukukhulelwa kuphumelela, imibungu etholakalayo iyalinywa ngaphansi kwezimo ezikhethekile, bese ifakwa esibelethweni.
Umama wokuzijabulisa
Uma nge-IVF ingane ikhulelwa i-vitro kubazali ababili, umbungu ungasho ukuthi ufakwe esibelethweni kunoma yimuphi owesifazane onempilo. Le ndlela ibizwa ngokuthi umama wokubeletha. Lesi yisibopho kulabo abangakwazi ukuzalela nganoma iyiphi indlela. Ngokusemthethweni, ukuze ube ngumama wokubeletha, udinga ukuba uphile futhi uncane kuneminyaka engama-35. Ububunzima bukhona eqinisweni lokuthi umama onesizukulwane unelungelo lomthetho ukushiya umntwana ozelwe naye. Ngakho-ke, uma lesi sibambisene esinqunyiwe sithatha isinqumo, umama ozithandayo kufanele afune phakathi kwezihlobo: kunoma yikuphi, ingane ngeke ishiye umndeni.
Amakhambi omphakathi wokuphathwa kokwelashwa
Emazweni ahlukene kube khona izindlela zomuntu zokuqeda ukungasebenzi. Abesifazane baseNingizimu Melika bazama ukuphathwa ngokushade naye. E-China, lapho ukubeletha kwakuvame ukudla izitsha zezinhlanzi nge-ginger. Ezweni lakithi, izakhiwo eziyisimangaliso zazibizwa ngokuthi imbewu yezingelosi (angelica). Abantu bakholelwa ukuthi udinga ukuphuza ingilazi yobisi lwebele ukuze ufeze ukukhulelwa okufunayo. Ivuselela amahomoni athile avuselela izinqubo zobungani.
Esinye sezidingo ezibalulekile kumuntu kanye nemithi yendabuko ekwelapheni ukwelashwa kungukudla okufanele. Kuqinisekiswa ukuthi uma owesifazane ehambela ekudleni okuthile futhi ephila ngendlela eguquguqukayo, ingozi yokungabi nalutho iyancipha ngo-80%. Ekudleni, amaprotheni wesilwane nemifino kufanele avele. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kufanele kube namafutha amancane. Ukuze imikhuba enempilo, i-psychotherapists ibuye ikhuthaze. Ngokombono wabo, abesifazane bavame ukuzwa ukungabi nabantwana nokucindezeleka ngokweqile ngenxa yokungabi nabantwana. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi uma uphatha ukwelashwa ngamakhambi omuntu, umuntu kufanele alalele izincomo zodokotela.