Kubani?
Kunezinhlelo ezihlukahlukene manje ezanele. Abafundi, kepha kunalokho, bayisimo sokuzilibazisa. Uma uwela ezandleni zomsebenzi, ukuzilibazisa kuzoba usizo kakhulu.
Okokuqala, izifundo ezinjalo zihlukaniswe yizinsuku nezinkinga. Kukhona ukuqeqesha okuhloswe ukusebenza nabesifazane abangaphansi kweminyaka engu-25, kukhona nalabo abaye bawela ukugoba kwama-40 nalabo abaqaphela ukuhlakanipha kwempilo emva kweminyaka engama-60. Ngesinye isikhathi, bafundisa izimfihlo zokuxhumana namadoda, ukulungiselelwa kwezinhloso ezifanele, kulezi ezilandelayo, kugcizelele ekuziphatheni kwangaphakathi nokudalulwa kwezinqolobane ezifihliwe - kusukela ekuqaleni kokudala, kobulili nothando ngokwakho.
Izinhlelo ezinjalo zenzelwe ukuxazulula izinkinga ezithile, ngokwesibonelo, ungakhetha inkambo yamakilasi anikezelwe ngesihloko somshado, ukukhwabanisa, izingane, ubulili, ukuhlanganisa umsebenzi nomndeni, ubungane nobuhlobo nezihlobo. Kubonakala sengathi, basiza ukuxazulula izinkinga ezivamile.
Ezimweni ezahlukene zokuphila kwabo, wonke owesifazane ubhekana nemibuzo ehlukene, engesihle ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthola izimpendulo ngaphandle kosizo, ngakho ukuzivocavoca okunjalo kungasiza kuwo wonke umuntu. Udinga nje ukufika kuzo ngesikhathi.
Yini ongayikhetha?
Njengoba kunezinhlobo eziningi zezifundo, izinkomfa, ukuqeqeshwa, udinga ukwazi ukukhetha uhlelo oluzowusizo kuwe.
Isibonelo, uma ukhathazeke kakhulu ngenkinga, kunengqondo ukuthola isigaba samakhosi esifushane esinikezwe isisombululo salo. Kungaba yinoma yini, kusukela ekusithekeni kokwenza sushi emfihlakalo yokuphuma ekucindezelekeni. Ngesikhathi esifushane uzothola ulwazi oluphakeme nokusebenza, emahoreni ambalwa uzokwazi ukuthi yini okufanele ukwenze kulokhu noma kuleso simo. Le ndlela ifanele kulabo abangakwazi ukulinda.
Ukuqeqeshwa kuthatha isikhathi eside - kuze kube amasonto amaningana, abakucabangi inkinga eyodwa, kodwa futhi nezizathu zokubonakala kwazo, izixazululo ezihlukahlukene, izinkinga ezihlobene. Isibonelo, iseshini yokuqeqeshwa ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane izonikeza ulwazi mayelana nesayensi mayelana nokuthinta kanye nesimo sobuso, mayelana nokwahlukana phakathi kwabesifazane nabangqingili besilisa, mayelana nobulili kanye namaphutha ajwayelekile. Lapha kuzoba nethuba lokubhala phansi inkolelo eyomile, kodwa futhi ukulahlekelwa emisebenzini evame ukubhekana nempilo evamile. Ziwusizo kulabo abanamahloni ngokwanele futhi abalahlekile kalula, ngoba uzophuma ezweni ngeqoqo lezifanekiso, okulula ukubhekana nesimo esisha futhi kulula ukuthuthukisa.
Ama-Seminar ahlala emahoreni amaningana kuya ezinsukwini ezimbalwa, aklanyelwe abantu abanolwazi. Isibonelo, kulabo asebeqedile izifundo eziningana zabaqalayo futhi babe nolwazi ezindaweni eziningi. Ama-Seminar aqukethe ingxenye ewusizo kakhulu, kodwa njalo ithuba lokushintshanisa okuhlangenwe nakho. Izenzakalo ezinjalo zifanele kulabo abafuna ukuxhuma izimpilo zabo ngemisebenzi yokuqeqesha noma labo abamane banquma ukuqonda umbuzo othile ngokujulile.
Izinhlelo zakwabesifazane - zihlale zizwa umuzwa. I-Logic ayibalulekile njengengxenye yomzwelo yokuphila. Abesifazane bafundiswa ukuthi bangesabi futhi bangabi namahloni ngezici zabo siqu, izinkimbinkimbi kanye nokungaphumeleli, bafundiswa ukuba baqotho futhi bavuleke. Ezinye izinhlelo zisiza ukudalula kulabo besifazane izinsizakalo ezifihlekile ezingadonsela impilo entsha nothando, futhi umsebenzi ophumelelayo kanye nobuhlobo obukhululekile futhi obuhle nabanye.
Kunoma yikuphi, kunama-seminar amaningi, ukuqeqesha kanye namakilasi amakhosikazi abesifazane bonke abangathola kalula. Indlela yokwenza izinwele, indlela yokusebenzisa kahle izimonyo, indlela yokuziphathelana ngayo lapho uthola khona, indlela yokulungisa ukuhamba, indlela yokufunda ukukhuluma kahle, indlela yokwenza ubuhlobo obuhle, indlela yokuba ngowesifazane ngokwengeziwe futhi ujabule - le mibuzo neminye eminingi izosizwa ngabaqeqeshi bezengqondo bezazi abanolwazi. Abesifazane kufanele bakhethe ukuthi iyiphi indawo yokuthuthukisa.