I-Lullabies yezingane ezisanda kuzalwa zihlukile, isibonelo, i-lullaby ye-umka, nje i-lullaby, ilele umfana wami nabanye. Ngingathanda ukuphawula ukuthi kukhona abazali abakha i-lullabies yezingane zabo, imibhalo yabo eyingqayizivele idluliselwa ngezizukulwane ngezizukulwane. Futhi ngokuvamile abazali abaningi abanayo nje isikhathi esanele, noma akukho isifiso, ukunikeza ingane yabo ukunakwa, ukuphuza ngaphambi kokulala ngendlala. Abazali abanjalo, ukuze ngandlela-thile bazilungiselele, bathenge ama-CD, ama-videotapes nge-lullabies, futhi ngaphambi kokulala ingane ihlanganisa nabo. Lokhu kuziphatha nesimo sengqondo kumntwana akulungile, ngoba ingane encane idinga ukunakekelwa kwabazali nothando kunoma yikuphi ukuboniswa.
Izingane ezisencane zisitholanga ukunakekelwa okudingekayo, ukunakekelwa kanye nokuthanda, njengomthetho, ziba ngukuhlukumezeka nangokomzwelo ezingenakulinganiswa, okuholela ekuhlaseleni kanye nentukuthelo engaqondakali. Izingoma zeLullaby ezinganeni zingakhunjulwa futhi zihlabeke kusukela ebuntwaneni, futhi uma ungafuni noma ungafuni, ulwazi lungakuthola eminye imithombo, isibonelo, kusukela ezincwadini zezingane nasezinkundleni ze-intanethi. Esikhathini sethu, ama-lullabies akhulumi nje ngabomama nogogo kuphela, kodwa futhi nabababa, abavumelani nobulili besifazane, ekukhoneni kwe-lullaby. Ngokuvamile abapapa bakhohlwe imibhalo ye-lullabies bese baqala ukulungisa, futhi kusukela ngaphandle kubonakala kuhle kakhulu. Ukuqaphela ingane ngokubambisana kubaluleke kakhulu njengokwesifazane (ukunakekelwa komama). I-lullaby enhle neyomculo ibangela ukugungqika kubazali nabantu abaningi abadala ukuba balale ngokwabo ngesikhathi esimnandi.
Ukuze kutholakale iwashi elifanele le-biological kwengane, okungukuthi, ukuthola ukuthi ingane kufanele ilale nini, umzali kufanele ahlabelele i-lullaby nsuku zonke, ngaphambi kokulala, futhi uma kunesidingo, hhayi kanye.
Uma ungakaze uhlabelele i-lullaby kumntana wakho osanda kuzalwa futhi ungaqiniseki ukuthi uzoyithanda, ke uma kunjalo ungaculeki amasonto ambalwa ngaphambi kokulala kungekudala, uzobona ingane ivumelanisa ngokushesha kakhulu nemisha. Omama nabomama abaningi banenkinga yokuthi abanalo indlebe yomculo nezwi elihle, kodwa baqonde ukuthi akuyona izinga lokusebenza esikukhulumayo, kodwa likhona. Ingoma ye-lullaby ihlanganisa ingane ndawonye futhi "umenzi" ufana nomama noma ngisho nomhlengikazi. Ingane ngezikhathi ezinjalo iqala ukuthembela kumuntu omdala futhi engesabi ukuvala amehlo akhe bese elala ebuthongweni.
Ukulala okunempilo kubaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni okuphelele kwengane. Njengomthetho, ubuthongo obuhle nokuthula buxhomeke kakhulu esimweni esandulele, ngakho ungavumeli umculo ngaphambi kokulala noma "uzungeze" nomntwana. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukusebenza kwezingoma ze-lullaby zezingane ezisanda kuzalwa kufanele kwenzeke ngokuthula okuphelele, ngezwi elizolile nelithulile. Ungamangaleli ingane uma engazange alale ngemuva kwe-lullaby, ngoba ukuhlukunyezwa kwakho kuzodala isimo sengqondo somntwana nayo yonke imiphumela emihle eyaphumelela ekuqaleni izosulwa. Uma ingane ingalali okwamanje, futhi isitoko samadlabies siphelile, ungatshela ingane ukuthi indaba iyathakazelani ngendlela izingane ezikhula ngayo lapho zilele.