Yindlela ongayichaza ngayo namuhla isitatimende esidumile ngenkululeko. Phela, impumelelo ivame ukuhlotshaniswa nokuphila kobuchwepheshe, futhi iyinto ehamba phambili ekukhululweni - yangaphakathi nangaphandle. Indlela yokwenza ngayo ukuze isikhathi sokusebenza, okuyingxenye yesithathu yempilo yethu, kubonakala singakhathazeki noma silahlekelwe kithi? Indlela 'yokushisa' impumelelo, ukuze lesi sigaba sokuphila sikhanyise?
KUNGANI KONKE KUSEBENZA?
Isitatimende esinamandla sombuzo - usho. Phela, impendulo cishe yonke inika okufanayo. Umsebenzi - umthombo wokuphila, ukuziqhenya futhi, ngokufanele, ithuba lokuphila izimpilo ezithakazelisayo. Kuvela ukuthi isethi yangaphandle, ezwakalayo yezimfuno zethu zomsebenzi kubantu bonke ifana ncamashi, kodwa nansi imbangela eyisisekelo noma, njengoba nje izazi zengqondo zithi, abagqugquzeli bezinhloso bahluke kakhulu.
Futhi njengoba isibambiso sokwenza noma yiluphi umsebenzi (kulokhu umsebenzi ophumelelayo) ukubunjwa okulungile kwenkinga, masihlale kulokhu abagqugquzeli baqedwa ohlelweni lwansuku zonke ngokuningiliziwe. Ekugcineni, baqondisa imigomo yangempela yokuziphatha kwethu kuzo zonke izimo zokuphila, ngaphandle kokuhlukile. Futhi (njengazo zonke izisebenzi eziyimfihlo ezithengayo) zenza ngendlela engabonakaliyo futhi ngasese, ngokuvamile zifihlile engqondweni yethu. Ngakho-ke, isinyathelo sokuqala empumelelweni empilweni ukuqaphela ukuthi imigomo ...
Ukuqaphela nokungazi
Singabantu bokuqala ukuphatha, yebo, thina ngokwethu. Owesibini, njengoba usuqagele kakade, usilawuli. Ngokwesibonelo, thatha izivivinyo eziyaziwa kahle, lapho abantu abasesimweni somzimba batshelwa ukuthi i-muscle yayiyojova, bese ithinta kuphela isandla sandla sabo. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, isikhumba sabonisa umkhondo ohlukile ovela enaliti. Okungukuthi, ukuqonda kwakho akumele ukholwe ngendondo, kodwa u-subconscious uthatha konke okukumemeza ngaye, ngobuso obuhle. Yiqiniso, ungase uphikise ukuthi awunayo yonke into. Ngakho-ke, ukucabangela kwakho kufihliwe ngokujulile, ngokuqamba ngobuqili ngokwengeziwe. Futhi, njengoba wazi, kungasebenzisa ngokuphumelelayo izinhloso zangempela zokuziphatha kwakho, kuhlanganise nokuhlunga imigomo yakho yokusebenza ngendlela okukhethwa kuyo.
Ngokwesibonelo, cabanga ngalesi simo: ubhalisiwe kwizifundo zaseSpanishi, ezidingeka kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni emsebenzini. Kodwa ukuya lapho emva kosuku olunzima, edolobheni lonke, emigwaqeni yemigwaqo, emakhazeni nasezimvula, ngandlela-thile bengajabuli neze. Kunomusa kakhulu kunezingcingo zamasokisi afudumele, isihlalo sobuhlalo esithambile nes sandwich esinezintathu. Ubumnandi bukhala ngesidingo sokuvula isambulela futhi sisalula ukukhanya; I-subconscious, okuyinto esivame ukuyibiza ngokuthi uvila, idonsela emaswidi futhi elula. Ngeshwa, kunzima ukuxoxisana nomuntu ongaqapheli njengomngani, ngokuvamile uhlala ngokuvumelana nemithetho yane encane engalawuleki. Kungcono ukusho lokhu "umphikisi ongabonakali" kanje: "Ngisize ngifunde izifundo (bhala umbiko wesineke, ubambe ingxoxo ebaluleke kakhulu neklayenti) - abafazi beshokoledi (ngizothenga ingubo, ngizophuza i-cocktail nabathandekayo bami)." Kodwa njengoba nje umuntu ongenandaba naye angakwazi ukunqoba lolo suku olunamanzi ukuqonda, lapho wena, ngokuqaphela ukuthi ukunqoba kokuqala kokubili, ukubuyela ekhaya ngokukhululekile, uyakwazi ukukuphazamisa kanye nokulinganisa imigomo embi kakhulu yemisebenzi. Lokhu kusho into eyodwa ebaluleke kakhulu: mhlawumbe umgomo (kuwo wonke ukulingwa kwawo) akulungile. Yilokho, sivame ukusho futhi siqaphele into eyodwa, ngenkathi sizizwa futhi sisho into ehluke ngokuphelele. Ukuqaphela izifiso zakho zangempela kakade sekuyingxenye yempumelelo. Noma kunjalo, sizobuyela kulokhu kamuva. Okwamanje, ake sikhulume ngeminye imigomo. Okuthiwa ...
Umuntu siqu kanye nomphakathi
Ake ucabange ukuthi uhlela ngokuzumayo ukuyeka umsebenzi wakho othuthukayo ehhovisi lakho lasekhaya futhi wenze lokho okukude ukulindele, isibonelo, ufundisa ukuhamba ngeLwandle Olubomvu. Noma ubuciko be-Feng Shui. Noma ukuvulwa kwesibhakabhaka esincane, kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi akusithakazelisi ngokwanele ngaphezu komsebenzi wakho (okulungile emehlweni akho okuzungezile, kodwa usuphele kakhulu isikhathi eside). Futhi manje ungitshele ngesinqumo sakho samamantombazane namantombazane, futhi ngokuphindaphindiwe uthola ukuthula okunomusa okushoyo noma okuqinisekisayo ukuthi lo msebenzi omusha awuyona nje into engakusiza ukuba uhambe ngokuphila okuzinzile futhi uvumele ukuhamba emhlabeni jikelele. Njengama-counter-arguments, ungakwazi ukukhipha ibhethri lonke lezingxoxo "ezilungile," ikakhulu uma umndeni unomthwalo womunye umuntu. Ake sithi, nguwe ozobonisa izimangaliso zokuzithiba futhi ngeke unqabe ohlelweni oluhleliwe lokuvuselela impilo. Kodwa-ke, abaningi, ama-alas, abangeke bathole ukwesekwa okuvela ngaphandle, uhlobo oluthi "ukuhlukunyezwa komphakathi", futhi kuzofisa endaweni. Ngokuqondile ngoba ingqondo engenakuqonda, esaba, "icindezela umsila," futhi ukuqonda okunesibindi nokuqinela kwehluleka ukuyikhipha endaweni. Ngakho-ke, njengoba ubona, izinhloso zethu zombili nezomphakathi, okusho ukuthi, okuhambisana nokulindelwe iningi emvelweni wakho. Futhi lesi sigaba, naphezu kwesibonelo esinikeziwe, asithwali igama elibi nhlobo. Imisebenzi ingahle ibe nemikhakha emphakathini, ama-nuances ayo anjalo okudinga ukuqinisekiswa okuqhubekayo noma ukuphikisana kwamakhono akho kanye nempumelelo ekhona kakade emkhakheni womphakathi wonke, hhayi nje kuphela abaseduze nabo osebenza nabo. Lena iningi lomsebenzi womphakathi - yaseshashalazini kanye ne-cinema, u-journalism, ezombangazwe.
Kulungile manje sekuyisikhathi sokuwa phansi ukuze ukhulume ngaleyozinto ezivamile futhi ezingenakuphika njengemali. Ngakho-ke imigomo yethu ihlukaniswe ngokucacile ...
Izinto ezingezona izinto
Qaphela: iqiniso liwukuthi sonke saphelela embukisweni omkhulu womphakathi wabathengi. Ngenhlanhla, ilungelo lokunquma ukuthi iyiphi indawo okufanele uyenze - ukuhamba ngenkuthalo kwiqembu elidume kakhulu kunazo zonke noma ukungaboni kahle ngaphandle kombukeli - akekho owawususanga.
Ngamanye amazwi, kukhona phakathi kwethu labo abadinga ukukhanya kwezinto ezibonakalayo zokuphila. Lapho imali iphenduka isimo esidingekayo sokuvuselelwa kwengqondo noma ibhalansi yangaphakathi, noma ukuthola umuzwa wokulondeka. Kwabanye, esikhundleni sezinyunithi zemali, ukulinganisa okungafani ngokuphelele nokusebenza, kusho, ukuqinisekiswa emehlweni enethalenta labo, ingqondo noma umhlatshelo obazungezile, amathuba okuziqhenya ngokuziqhenya.
UKUHLELA KUMDALAWULI WASE-LIE
Yiqiniso, uma ufunda izincwadi zokuzilibazisa ezikhethekile ezengqondo, khona-ke imigomo izotholakala okuningi. Kodwa-ke, iningi labo alisebenzisi kangako ekwakheni umsebenzi, ngakho-ke sizoyeka isikhathi esiphezulu. Manje ake siye emabhizinisini. Konke okudingayo kungenalutho lwephepha, umcabango kanye nokuthembeka okuphelele nangaphakathi kwakho. Ngakho, hlukanisa ishidi zibe ngamakholomu amathathu. Ngakwesokunxele, bhala phansi yonke imigomo oyiphishekelayo, ufune umsebenzi, noma ucacise imibono ongathanda ukuyifinyelela endaweni ethile. Futhi uzilungise ngokuqondile njengoba uvame ukukusho: "Ngifuna isikhundla esithakazelisayo, ukwanda kweholo, ibhonasi eyengeziwe yonyaka omusha, ukuhamba kwebhizinisi egatsheni lenkampani yethu eParis noma esiqhingini saseBorneo."
Kukholomu ophakathi, umsebenzi unzima kakhulu. Bese uzama ukwakha imizwa yakho yeqiniso ngomsebenzi. Yebo, lo msebenzi, ngokusobala, awuyona imizuzu emihlanu. Kungenzeka ukuthi lolu daba luzoqala kancane ukuguqula ikhanda lakho, lunikeze inhlanganisela ehlukene - umsebenzi wakho ukukhombisa konke lokhu ephepheni. Into esemqoka ukuthi ubuqotho kakhulu kuwe. Yiqiniso, ngezinye izikhathi akulula ukuvuma ukuthi, okwenzayo, unesithakazelo esikhulu emalini. Noma ukuthi ufuna ukusula impumulo yesoka lakho langaphambili, ukumethulela ngesithombe somfazi webhizinisi ophumelelayo ngazo zonke izindlela. Noma-ukushaya indawo lapho usebenza naye osebenza naye, ezondwa nguwe ngezizathu eziningi, ebiza, bese ephonsa iqembu elincane kulokhu futhi uM., Ukumema. Kuyacaca, ukuzwakala izinto ezinjalo ngisho nakuwe, othandekayo, ngandlela-thile uhlazisa. Kodwa, kholwa kimi, kungcono kakhulu ukudlula ekuthungeni ebumnyameni bokuphila-beacons okudidekile, bese ngokuzumayo uvuma ukuthi awuzange ukwenze nhlobo futhi waphambene.
Ekholini lesithathu, zama ukuthola ukuthi yimaphi amaqembu amathathu afana nomgomo wakho. Futhi, njengoba sesishilo kakade, into esemqoka ukuthembeka ngokweqile nawe. Eqinisweni, kubonakala sengathi ukwethembeka empilweni, njengombuso, kuyinqoba kakhulu futhi, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, indawo ekhululekile. Ukuqaphela umgomo wakho weqiniso kuwumzuzu obaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Isibonelo, uma uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi isifiso sakho sangempela akumelwe kwenzeke, kodwa ukufakazela okuthile eceleni komuntu, khona-ke kuyakudingeka ukucabanga futhi - akuwona yini umhlatshelo omkhulu kakhulu olethwe e-altare elingenalutho. Akusikhathi sokungcwaba inqwaba yempi, "vumela" ukwephula futhi wenze lokho okukujabulisayo ngempela. Ngakho-ke injongo yalesi sifo esincane futhi esingenabuhlungu ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuqonda ukuthi yikuphi okubalulekile okufisa ukunamathela kukho. Yikuphi kulabo okukukhathazayo - hhayi abazali, abangane, umyeni, umphakathi, okungukuthi wena futhi wenziwa ujabule kuphela.
HLELA ITARGET
Njengoba unqume izinto eziza kuqala, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi umgomo ofanele kufanele ube nezici eziningana. Kufanele kube:
1. kuphumeleleka
Kungenakwenzeka ukuba abe supermelel enezilinganiso ezingavumelani ngokuqondile (nakuba lapha kungase kube ukungafani okungajwayelekile, uthi, izingubo ezigcwele). Yingakho ithalenta yakho kule nkinga ibalulekile. Ake sithi ufuna ukuthola okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Indawo ekahle yalokhu ibhizinisi lasebhange nezezimali. Kodwa uma ungenalo ukuthambekela ukwenza lokhu, khona-ke ngesisusa esisodwa sezinto ezibonakalayo ngeke uhambe kude. Mhlawumbe uzosebenza kangcono emkhakheni wezinsizakalo zendawo yokuhlala - hhayi ngendlela enenzuzo kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukuhlola ngokucophelela impilo yakho nokunikezwa kwengqondo yomsebenzi ongathanda ukukwenza.
2. Kuchazwa ngesikhathi
Akungalutho ukulindela ukuthi umlando wakho womlando uzoshintsha ngokumangalisayo emasontweni ambalwa. Ake sikubeke ngale ndlela: igama elifanele lokuthola umsebenzi kubasha abafuna umsebenzi abahlanganisa umsebenzi nokutadisha kungunyaka owodwa. Umsebenzi kulolu cala kufanele uthathwe njengesiphakamiso sokwenza isipiliyoni futhi hhayi ukunikezwa okungahleliwe. Uma uthweswa iziqu emfundweni futhi ufuna okuthile okuthembisayo noma nje wanquma "ukwehlisa isahlulelo" emisebenzini, ochwepheshe bezokubonisana nezentengiselwano bayakutshela ukuthi ubhale uhlelo lwebhizinisi kuwe iminyaka emithathu ezayo. Futhi uqondiswe yile migomo.
3. okujabulisayo
Kuthiwani ngolimi lokwazisa wonke umuntu kusho - ukugqugquzela impumelelo. Ngakho udinga ukubuyela ohlwini lwakho lokuqala, ulifunde kabusha, futhi ubone izikhuthazo ezikushayela kakhulu. Ngisho noma i- "pluses" yi-mottos ezinomntwana, njengokuthi "iholidi eziqhingini zasePolynesia" - akunandaba. Hlanganisa leli qabunga endaweni evelele njengenhloso yokwenza inhlanhla, esho isitatimende sikaProfesa Stanford University uMichael Ray: "Lezi zimiso ezintathu eziyinhloko zomsebenzi ophumelelayo: ukulula, ukunethezeka nokuzijabulisa emsebenzini." Kodwa-ke, lesi seluleko esihle singasetshenziswa kuzo zonke izigaba zokuphila ngaphandle kokungafani, awucabangi?